Gay apps & shallow gay guys

  • collegeguy

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    Dec 09, 2012 7:21 AM GMT
    So I was bored and downloaded some gay social networking sites for my iPod.

    & most of the guys were just basically... Well their attitude is " don't message me unless you're hot" or "only cute foos message me".. It kind of laugh when the person is a 1 out of 10 on looks (* i may sound shallow by sayin that but if you're going to have such high standards, you could at least live up to them yourself*)and also if they say on they're profile that they're looking for love, relationships & their main quote is "hot people only

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    . -_- or " I need a sugar daddy to take care of me"


    I guess those sites are mainly for hookups and not making friends but if they want friends they want benefits! & it's mostly fem guys I think they're called "stereotypical twinks?"

    I just want to make friends but they're so shallow that they even want cute friends.

    I'm not a nondescript person, but damn! Sometimes I wonder if its easier to go straight get a decent girl.


    I don't have any gay friends though... I'd like to have some. But if I do make one on those apps, theyll have hidden intentions & I'm sure they'll try to seduce me.[/img]
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    Dec 09, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    Going fishing in a pong of people with only a single small picture and a bit of text mostly looking for a fling within the next hour and you expect to find companionship?

  • Import

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    Dec 09, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    Love the pic by the OP. . . such a cute tween girl. Very typical of girls that age I'd imagine.

    and the sad thing is....many gay men on those apps are like that little girl, but I think its OK for the little girl to be like that cuz she's all of what?.. 13?...

    where as gay men on social apps are (assuming) all at least 18 and older....yet the maturity is still stuck at 13. Not cute in that case.


    Theres good ppl on them tho. Just like anywhere....u have ur good and ur bad.. U need to weed out the shit and find some good ones.
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    Dec 09, 2012 6:01 PM GMT
    I love smaller guys who are a little fem but the bitchy ones who think they're the hottest shit just make me go /facepalm. The cute quiet ones are hard to findicon_sad.gif
  • Bunjamon

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    Dec 10, 2012 1:34 AM GMT
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    Dec 10, 2012 1:50 AM GMT
    Bunjamon saiddont-be-douche.jpg

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    Hey I know that last guy! My pic made him throw up icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 10, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Import saidLove the pic by the OP. . . such a cute tween girl. Very typical of girls that age I'd imagine.

    and the sad thing is....many gay men on those apps are like that little girl, but I think its OK for the little girl to be like that cuz she's all of what?.. 13?...

    where as gay men on social apps are (assuming) all at least 18 and older....yet the maturity is still stuck at 13. Not cute in that case.


    Theres good ppl on them tho. Just like anywhere....u have ur good and ur bad.. U need to weed out the shit and find some good ones.


    Spot on, Import. You're growing up before our very eyes.
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    Dec 10, 2012 2:01 AM GMT
    I don't think you can make blanket assumptions. I met my ex on Scruff, based on the same profile pic as the one I have here - basically me jumping into the ocean. Sure, we exchanged pics and such, but by the time we agreed to meet, the connection was more intellectual than anything else. There are a lot of different people out there.
  • Steven791

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    Dec 10, 2012 6:34 AM GMT
    Most of the guys on those sites (Grindr is a prime example..) generally are only looking for sex but if you're open to chatting with most people who don't start their conversation with "Looking?" or "Hey I saw you at WalMart the other day... Nice ass." you can make some friends. I've made a few and one of those guys has become a close friend in the year and a half I've known him. Just like Import said, You have to weed out the bad ones to find the good ones.
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    Dec 10, 2012 8:44 AM GMT
    not_superman said
    MuonOver said
    Hey I know that last guy! My pic made him throw up icon_sad.gif

    No way!


    I was blocked in under two minutes. I honestly just wanted some workout tips haha.
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    Dec 10, 2012 8:48 AM GMT
    WOW #peoplesuck...that is way rude. I can't even with that website...#shocked #ngl
  • barriehomeboy

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    Dec 10, 2012 8:52 AM GMT
    If you're this negative on people on the best app to meet people, how likely are you to meet guys on it?
  • barriehomeboy

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    Dec 10, 2012 8:54 AM GMT
    There are 50 respectable gay guys on my grindr right now, within 4 miles. Why are you home alone?
  • BloodFlame

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    Dec 11, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    I guess it kind of goes with the luck of the draw. Not all the guys on those kind of apps are arrogant/rude/etc. I haven't had the luck of meeting friends on those apps but I do know that it does happen for other people.

    So yeah, you just have to keep an open mind and weed out the bad eggs.
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    Dec 11, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    gay dating apps remind me of what a sad society we're living in so I deleted it and never looked back.