Life is a bitch!!!

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    Dec 10, 2012 5:21 PM GMT
    Hey everyone,

    I met such a nice guy that I had a chance to know only for few days. We have so many things in common. But I was so lucky (like always) that he had to leave the country for few weeks but after he is back I will be already gone abroad due to my studies. Come onnnnnn, this can happen only to me!!! That sucks!!!

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    Dec 10, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidYes. You're the only person this happens to.

    Edit: Sorry. That was rude. Just stay in contact with him. If you like him find a way to make it work.


    Second thinking thoughts is the active participation in our own thinking.

    "You alone are your master. You are your own refuge, so subdue yourself." ~~Buddha Siddhartha Gautama

    magnus87 saidHey everyone,

    I met such a nice guy that I had a chance to know only for few days. We have so many things in common. But I was so lucky (like always) that he had to leave the country for few weeks but after he is back I will be already gone abroad due to my studies. Come onnnnnn, this can happen only to me!!! That sucks!!!


    As Trolli correctly notes, the phenomenon is a common experience. But just what is that experience? Is there something mystical about ships passing in the night or could it be that the just missing makes the wanting seem so real?

    Familiarity breeds contempt while absence makes the heart grow fonder. Why?

    ''Ships that pass in the night, and speak each other in passing,
    Only a signal shown and a distant voice in the darkness;
    So on the ocean of life we pass and speak one another,
    Only a look and a voice; then darkness again and a silence.''

    ~~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
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    Dec 10, 2012 5:59 PM GMT
    ... and the fates snicker with glee

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    Dec 10, 2012 6:08 PM GMT
    Life's a bitch






    Then you die
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    Dec 10, 2012 6:49 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidYes. You're the only person this happens to.

    Edit: Sorry. That was rude. Just stay in contact with him. If you like him find a way to make it work.


    I didn't feel that it was so rude so no worries. It is normal to think that your own problems are the worst even though others deal with worse. That is normal ;)
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    Dec 10, 2012 8:02 PM GMT
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    Trollileo saidYes. You're the only person this happens to.

    Edit: Sorry. That was rude. Just stay in contact with him. If you like him find a way to make it work.


    Second thinking thoughts is the active participation in our own thinking.

    "You alone are your master. You are your own refuge, so subdue yourself." ~~Buddha Siddhartha Gautama

    I love your quotes! This helps me too. Post Editing is somewhat embarrassing, but glad it's not an entirely bad thing.
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    Dec 10, 2012 9:02 PM GMT
    It's not meant to be.
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    Dec 10, 2012 9:12 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidIt's not meant to be.


    but why????????? I don't have so much luck in love. I must have some credits icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 10, 2012 10:07 PM GMT
    JRaRJ said
    theantijock said
    Trollileo saidYes. You're the only person this happens to.

    Edit: Sorry. That was rude. Just stay in contact with him. If you like him find a way to make it work.


    Second thinking thoughts is the active participation in our own thinking.

    "You alone are your master. You are your own refuge, so subdue yourself." ~~Buddha Siddhartha Gautama

    I love your quotes! This helps me too. Post Editing is somewhat embarrassing, but glad it's not an entirely bad thing.


    Glad you like the quotes. Some things have already been said as best they're gonna be.

    Never be embarrassed about self-correcting. That's probably something that keeps us from positive change, worrying about invalidating the person we thought we were being.

    There's never anything wrong with catching yourself. It's lovely to think of ourselves as being, but so much of life is about becoming. Even once you think you've already been.


    magnus87 said
    DOMINUS saidIt's not meant to be.


    but why????????? I don't have so much luck in love. I must have some credits icon_razz.gif


    Of course he was made for you. Otherwise we wouldn't have Craigslist Missed Connections.