A Keeper: Waiting for Mr. Right.......

  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 10, 2012 8:03 PM GMT
    Will u ever meet him or is it one Mr. Wrong after another? Are ur standards too high? U want a 10 when u know ur just a 5, are u being realistic? Are u aiming too high? Do u think u deserve the best when ur not the best? U want a keeper when ur a creeper? Is there a happy medium, a perfect fit without settling?.......
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    Dec 10, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
    My last name is Wright. Close enough! icon_razz.gif
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 10, 2012 9:11 PM GMT
    Lol icon_smile.gif
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 10, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    Wonder if there are people who's actual last name is Wrong or Creep or Kreep?!
  • ForgeetMee

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    Dec 11, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
    I am Mr Wrong icon_biggrin.gif I just believe that there's a guy on a donkey that will arrive one day icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 11, 2012 12:39 AM GMT
    I don't thinkim meeting "Mr.Right" anytime soon. .

    I like the new profile pic Spgem. icon_biggrin.gif
  • mr_bijae

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    Dec 11, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    According to Adele... You can find him sitting on your doorstep, waiting....

    http://youtu.be/girXRxJRdu4?t=1m7s
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    Dec 11, 2012 12:43 AM GMT
    I feel that he will come to me. I won't have to look for him

    But not right now
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    Dec 11, 2012 12:48 AM GMT
    spgem saidWonder if there are people who's actual last name is Wrong or Creep or Kreep?!


    Haha! I hope so!
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 11, 2012 5:51 AM GMT
    Slim2010 saidI don't thinkim meeting "Mr.Right" anytime soon. .

    I like the new profile pic Spgem. icon_biggrin.gif


    Thx Slim2010 icon_smile.gif
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 11, 2012 5:52 AM GMT
    ForgeetMee saidI am Mr Wrong icon_biggrin.gif I just believe that there's a guy on a donkey that will arrive one day icon_biggrin.gif


    Ur own Don Quixote icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 11, 2012 5:55 AM GMT
    If only men were born fearless with perfect hearts, what a heaven earth would be. I'll take someone flawed that I get any day.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 11, 2012 5:58 AM GMT
    It's our flaws that make us perfect.......
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    Dec 11, 2012 6:00 AM GMT
    spgem saidIt's our flaws that make us perfect.......

    I hope they don't get counted against me... We're all flawed.
  • wild_sky360

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    Dec 11, 2012 7:15 AM GMT
    I have a great guy now, but not a day goes by that I don't long for the one I left behind in Washington. He knew me better than I do. He did everything in his power to please me except control his addictions....a little better. Real geniuses are quite aware of such things. In a non condescending way he allowed me to think I was his intellectual equal.

    Another one I'll love forever made me laugh every day. The life of the party, his extroversion nudged me out of my comfort zone; making me a more social and accepting person. He's stood by me through the highest highs and the lowest lows and my day brightens when I get a silly email or a call from him.

    These two totally different sweethearts of my past, dropped everything, took a break from their lives and helped me pick up the pieces wrought by the one who is merely forgiven...the one who had a check next to every mark on the list for a "keeper"

    There are lots of keepers out there, though you may not recognize them as such at the time. It's a magical moment when you are suddenly in awe of the beautiful soul you've been blessed to cross paths with...someone who doesn't add up on your check list. It's not settling. It's realizing the gem that was hidden.

    Love the one your with.
  • Machina

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    Dec 11, 2012 9:07 AM GMT
    spgem saidIt's our flaws that make us perfect.......


    This is so true, but very counter-intuitive in a culture so obsessed with imposed models of perfection.
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    Dec 11, 2012 10:56 AM GMT
    Trollileo saidDavid+Silverman+Rage+Face.jpg


    +1
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    Dec 11, 2012 11:01 AM GMT
    I don't believe there's a Mr. Right. It's like this song, funny but true haha


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    Dec 11, 2012 11:47 AM GMT
    I believe Mr. Right does exist. And eventually we will cross paths. I do have realistic preferences but not at the expense of closing myself off for any jaded reasons. Its easy to be attracted to someone on the outside, but the truth of the matter, if the inside is messed up he wouldn't be a good fit. Until then I'm content being single.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 11, 2012 12:19 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    spgem saidWonder if there are people who's actual last name is Wrong or Creep or Kreep?!

    I like you. You always crack me up.


    Thx Aristoshark icon_smile.gif Imagine having that for a last name?! I'd change it.......
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 11, 2012 12:32 PM GMT
    Machina said
    spgem saidIt's our flaws that make us perfect.......


    This is so true, but very counter-intuitive in a culture so obsessed with imposed models of perfection.


    One of my Artshows deals with that. I have magazines adds of beautiful men & women enllarged to 3x4 ft with subversive text inserted in bold letters on each saying obvious things like "I'm beautiful, ur not" , "I get paid a lot to look good", "I won the gene pool lottery", "I'm the ideal, ur not", "I'm in high demand", "I get fantasized about", etc........
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 11, 2012 12:35 PM GMT
    JRaRJ said
    spgem saidIt's our flaws that make us perfect.......

    I hope they don't get counted against me... We're all flawed.
    :

    We shud get brownie points for having to live with our flaws & overcoming them & doing the best with the cards we were dealt with. Those who have it all got it easy.......
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 11, 2012 12:38 PM GMT
    wild_sky360 saidI have a great guy now, but not a day goes by that I don't long for the one I left behind in Washington. He knew me better than I do. He did everything in his power to please me except control his addictions....a little better. Real geniuses are quite aware of such things. In a non condescending way he allowed me to think I was his intellectual equal.

    Another one I'll love forever made me laugh every day. The life of the party, his extroversion nudged me out of my comfort zone; making me a more social and accepting person. He's stood by me through the highest highs and the lowest lows and my day brightens when I get a silly email or a call from him.

    These two totally different sweethearts of my past, dropped everything, took a break from their lives and helped me pick up the pieces wrought by the one who is merely forgiven...the one who had a check next to every mark on the list for a "keeper"

    There are lots of keepers out there, though you may not recognize them as such at the time. It's a magical moment when you are suddenly in awe of the beautiful soul you've been blessed to cross paths with...someone who doesn't add up on your check list. It's not settling. It's realizing the gem that was hidden.

    Love the one your with.


    Mr. Right cud be right under ur nose all along....... icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 11, 2012 4:24 PM GMT
    I don't think he exists. I think some people are just born to be alone.
  • SomeSiciliano...

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    Dec 11, 2012 4:40 PM GMT

    I forgot where I heard it, but the Zen outlook says it's not a matter of finding Mr. Right, it's being Mr. Right. May be pithy but seems reasonable if you think about it.