Cant Stay Hard

  • Chandon12

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    Dec 12, 2012 1:41 AM GMT
    I have a new boyfriend and prior to him its been about 4 years since I had sex with another guy. I wanked a lot during that period,usually to online porn and now I have the real thing I cant stay hard. He has no problem staying hard and he topped me today - it hurt at first but it got better but still I was limp.
    Whats the deal?
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 12, 2012 1:47 AM GMT
    It's probably stress. Next time your boyfriend tops you, have him tie you up and blindfold you... and maybe cut back on the porn.icon_razz.gif
  • Chandon12

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    Dec 12, 2012 1:49 AM GMT
    Yeah, I never have a problem staying hard with porn. Probably should lay off it....
    Thanks
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    Dec 12, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    biggest killer of wood is STRESS and insecurity and lots of unanswered questions.....talk to him about whatever you question......otherwise every guy on here over age 40 is gonna tell you it happens on occasion, if it is more go see your dr for a prescription of blue pills........good luck and contrats on the relationship..icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 12, 2012 1:57 AM GMT
    Yup, I bet it was the porn and the fact that you haven't been with a guy in years. Definitely decrease your porn consumption and you may want to wait a couple of days without having sex or j/o to build your libido. I bet by then, you'll be wanting to top your bf without problems....unless he's a total top and then you're screwed! icon_eek.gif
  • Chandon12

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    Dec 12, 2012 2:08 AM GMT
    Thanks guys - you are mostly saying the same thing... We are passionate and laying off the porn and quit wanking is good advice.
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    Dec 12, 2012 2:16 AM GMT
    You know if its a chronic problem then maybe you should consult a doctor.
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    Dec 12, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    It's because you're old as fuck. Didn't you get the memo? Nobody over 40 can get a boner.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 12, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidIt's because you're old as fuck. Didn't you get the memo? Nobody over 40 can get a boner.


    I can fix that.icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 12, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    paulflexes saidIt's because you're old as fuck. Didn't you get the memo? Nobody over 40 can get a boner.


    I can fix that.icon_twisted.gif
    You're a magician? icon_eek.gif
  • Chandon12

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    Dec 12, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    Hey man, you'll be there soon enough....
  • Latenight30

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    Dec 12, 2012 4:18 PM GMT
    guys of all ages that watch a lot of porn seem to have issues when the real thing happens. You aren't, unless you are lucky, working with a professional when you have sex. You have a built up ideal of how easy and fun it looks, when many times it's awkward and short. Just relax and enjoy. It will cum