we are NOT born gay

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    Dec 13, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    Seriously why is it so hard for people to understand that being gay is not a choice! Not that I care what people think of me but don't suggest girls for me to fuck so I can "make sure I'm gay",

    Then,my fucking mom claims she made progress on this issue stating that, "I decide that I'm gay and choose to pursue a relationship...ect" I cut out of the conversation right after she said that bullshit!
  • reptile18

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    Dec 13, 2012 2:46 PM GMT
    We were not born gay... We were born fabulous!
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    Dec 13, 2012 2:46 PM GMT
    You can't argue with willful ignorance.
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidYou can't argue with willful ignorance.


    No hun, we can'ticon_sad.gif
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
    I'm confused. Is this title supposed to be sarcastic?


    Also I think you're being kinda hard on your mom. She's going to get there eventually but for some people it takes a really long and hard time to understand that that being gay is not a choice. So I wouldn't take it too hard. People are still trying to come to terms with the gay issue. It's going to get better in some years. But just give society time.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 14, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    It's true ... we are not born gay ... some are just born miserable, and some work to make our life gay and merry ... however we are born homosexual ... it's not a choice .. if it were a choice then more then 10% of people would be homosexual, because no one can stand or understand the opposite sex.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 14, 2012 3:35 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidIt's true ... we are not born gay ... some are just born miserable, and some work to make our life gay and merry ... however we are born homosexual ... it's not a choice .. if it were a choice then more then 10% of people would be homosexual, because no one can stand or understand the opposite sex.

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  • hanzo83

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    Dec 14, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    Everybody always says "I didn't ask to be born" and "I didn't choose to be gay" but we do choose to be born and to be gay! Most people won't get this until they have a near death experience or until they finally die though lol.
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    Dec 14, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    hanzo83 saidEverybody always says "I didn't ask to be born" and "I didn't choose to be gay" but we do choose to be born and to be gay! Most people won't get this until they have a near death experience or until they finally die though lol.


    Huffing that good shit are we?
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    Dec 15, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    Don't care much for the mysterious causes of my sexuality, cause my being attracted to other men isn't an issue for me. So no tests, religion, or social networks are going to make me question the validity of what and who I am, cause some other fools are unhappy for what and who they are.
  • MikeW

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    Dec 15, 2012 3:41 PM GMT
    What drove me nuts about my family wasn't just 'the gay' issue; its that everybody has an opinion about everyone else's business. Worse, the older you are, the more pressure you put on those younger than you to adopt YOUR opinion. This had to do with everything from fashion to what classes you took, what car you owned, what friends you had, what you did or didn't do with your life. It was never ending. I understand when you're a child your parents make decisions for you but I'm talking about even after you were grown up even living on your own. They never STFU about their OPINIONS about every fucking thing. And it was not just my parents, it was my older siblings, aunts, uncles, the whole stupid hive. And it wasn't just me, they did it to one another all the time. It was all they talked about -- who was doing what. "Mind your own business," was a completely alien concept. Why, that wouldn't be family! I finally told them all to go fuck themselves and moved two thousand miles away and I've been MUCH happier ever since.