Dec 13, 2012 2:51 PM GMT
I find it both exciting and arousing when I envision a scenario in which I'm watching my partner with another guy.
The idea of him with someone else when I'm *not* there is neither exciting nor unexciting.
But I am immediately aroused when I think of him and someone else going at it while I watch from nearby.
Similarly, at a wedding recently, a woman we know stopped him and fixed his suspenders for him. I happened to be looking at him from a mezzanine when this occurred, and was extremely turned on by her touching him.
Do others ever feel this way?