What is so off putting about group sex?

  • Myles_

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    Dec 14, 2012 1:03 AM GMT
    On three occasions - with my friends, with a fuckbuddy, and with my ex - the topic of group sex has came up. All three times, I find myself telling them why I like and enjoy group sex. None of the times we really talked in detail why or why not... so why? Those of you wont think group sex is off putting, why?
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    Dec 14, 2012 1:36 AM GMT
    I've never been involved in group sex but I'm thinking the reason why it's off putting is favoritism. I imagine certain guys will choose to have sex with certain guys and they'll brush off those who they find unattractive. I mean, is there a polite way to say to someone that you don't want to suck their dick?
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    Dec 14, 2012 1:47 AM GMT
    Also, for some, intimate and sexual interaction with one guy is nerve racking enough without the inclusion of MORE men (or women - however you swing). We're not all comfortable in that sexual way.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:07 AM GMT
    Myles_ saidWhat is so off putting about group sex?
    Ugly guys in the group.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:09 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidI mean, is there a polite way to say to someone that you don't want to suck their dick?
    No, there isn't. That's why it's important to have a very strong "I don't give a fuck" attitude when doing group sex.

    After all, as the old saying goes, "if you try to please everyone, you'll be the one who's disappointed."
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:15 AM GMT
    I really wouldn't be turned off on it if it were just sex. I like the debasement and degradation of group sex.

    Of course there is the chance of contracting something.
  • rnch

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    Dec 14, 2012 6:17 PM GMT
    Let me preface my reply by saying that I'm older than many/most of the guys here, and perhaps more "touchey-feely" than some of ya'll.

    At this season in my life, I view sex as an expression of how much I like the other guy, an indication of my affection for him. If someone makes it into my bedroom I have some very deep feelings for him. (yes, qutie the change from my 20's, 30's and early 40's!)

    Group sex, while somewhat ...interesting...to watch on gay porno movies, leaves me cold in real life.

    There. I've said it. Flame away.
  • RudeBoy25

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    Dec 15, 2012 6:19 PM GMT
    theres nothing wrong. i love it
  • atomicare

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    Dec 15, 2012 8:01 PM GMT
    the last couple times I have done a group, there was a woman involved. that made it a bit more interesting, some what of a competition to see who sucked the best. After that, it was all fucking, no big deal