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    Dec 14, 2012 1:39 AM GMT
    So the other day struck up a conversation with a guy and talked for a bit. Got some good vibes so went ahead and asked if he wanted to go for a beer sometime. He awkwardly said no thanks and went on to say, “You seem awesome and all, but I’m not really interested in older guys. In the long run just never works out.” He didn't know how old I was (never came up) or what his definition of "older" was, but as you see in my profile I'm 20......and I was almost positive he was older then i was. So my question is, how fucking old do i look to you guys,?! Anyone else have something similar happen? Must be the beard.
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    Dec 14, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    I was going to say 23-24? You do look older then you are but not that much and in a very good way. I agree - it's probably the beard. Beards age you quite a few. If you shaved, you'd probably look 10 years younger.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    Slim2010 said
    IceBuckets saidI was going to say 23-24? You do look older then you are but not that much and in a very good way. I agree - it's probably the beard. Beards age you quite a few. If you shaved, you'd probably look 10 years younger.


    In that case, don't shave. I'm sure you don't want to look like a pre-teen. icon_biggrin.gif

    I agree with you though, the OP looks around 23 years old. Not OLD at all. Haha. Maybe you just give off a mature vibe.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:09 AM GMT
    He probably just didnt want to say he doesn't date Canadians.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:11 AM GMT
    I had to look at your profile. You look almost 40.

    /brutalhonesty
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    get rid of the beard AND let your hair grow to a nice, well-groomed length.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI had to look at your profile. You look almost 40.

    /brutalhonesty

    He doesn't look 40. The excess weight keeps his cheeks plump and chipmunky.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    Hash tag bullet dodged
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:33 AM GMT
    Early to mid 20's.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:36 AM GMT
    lol looks like he did you a favor. you look your age.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    Late twenties to early thirties.

    Its the facial hair and you dress like someone who way past the playpen stage of life.
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    Dec 14, 2012 2:38 AM GMT
    Mid 20's to early 30's.
  • monet

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    Dec 14, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    I'm afraid that you look like you may have a receeding hairline which will make you look older than you really are. Try growing out your hair and see if that helps.
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    The really short hair combined with the high forehead makes it look like you are possibly losing your hair, ergo older looking. I'm sure in real life you look young (prob early 20's) but maybe you need a better profile pic. The lighting on the existing pic isn't helping; makes it look like your hair is thinning out.
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    You look like you're in your twenties. I wouldn't get too worked up over it. I'm guessing you don't want to be with some one that shallow..
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince saidLate twenties to early thirties.

    Its the facial hair and you dress like someone who way past the playpen stage of life.


    Do you REALLY think you are in a position to discuss fashion choices?
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    Caslon22000 said
    paulflexes saidI had to look at your profile. You look almost 40.
    /brutalhonesty
    He doesn't look 40. The excess weight keeps his cheeks plump and chipmunky.
    #realtalk
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    You look my age. I'd hit it.
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:18 AM GMT
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    You guys make it seem like it's the OP's fault. Maybe the guy in question only hooks up with barely legal boys.

    You know you were thinking it.icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    omg u guys. He looks in his early 20s icon_rolleyes.gif
    its obvious to me
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    I use to look a lot older than my age and got similar comments. After experimenting a little I figure out i need to keep my hair short and no facial hair to look my age. try around some different looks and see what works for you.
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:26 AM GMT
    Cutting ones sideburns is a great way to lose years.
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:26 AM GMT
    The pic with the glasses, maybe, but otherwise you don't look much older than early 20s.
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    Dec 14, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    The dark bags under his eyes and the furrowed forehead add years to his appearance.