how to tell ur fiends that ur bi?

  • Miguelmontes

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:09 PM GMT
    i want to know any methods on how to tell a friend my try fellings towards men but im scared of how he reacts any advice?
  • TheBizMan

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:11 PM GMT
    Don't tell him
  • Miguelmontes

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:16 PM GMT
    thats what i want to do not tell him but he is my friend and i just dont want our friendship to end if he finds out someday
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    Dec 15, 2012 7:17 PM GMT
    You can use my manner of approach.... Get drunk at a party and then just blurt it out!! It's really quite interesting.
  • TheBizMan

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    Hmm well then that's a problem. I have a much easier time cutting people out of my life than most others. If they think I'm wrong for being myself then I don't need them around. I don't look back and rarely give second chances.

    In my opinion he isn't a true friend if he doesn't accept you as you are. I don't think gay men should have any obligation to publicly disclose their sexuality.
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    Dec 15, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    If he has no respect for your feelings or who you are, then he was never a friend to begin with.
  • Miguelmontes

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:22 PM GMT
    thanks for the advice and u guys are right .........another thing that i havent said is that i kinda like him
  • TheBizMan

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:24 PM GMT
    Miguelmontes saidthanks for the advice and u guys are right .........another thing that i havent said is that i kinda like him


    Plenty of other fish in the sea. If he is straight, he will never like you in the same way you like him. You must accept that fact. Move on.
  • Miguelmontes

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:26 PM GMT
    i live in a small town so there is not alot of guys and he is just the perfect man but the thing is that i dont know if he is totally staight
  • TheBizMan

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:32 PM GMT
    Miguelmontes saidi live in a small town so there is not alot of guys and he is just the perfect man but the thing is that i dont know if he is totally staight


    Well this is less of a "how do I come out" situation and more of a "I have a crush on a straight (potentially gay) guy" situation.

    In those cases, the only way to find out is to ask him. It seems counter-intuitive to what i just said, but I have no problem telling someone I am gay IF they ask me. But let's not get that confused with feeling a need to "come out".

    Anyway, having a crush on a friend usually ends badly imo.
  • Miguelmontes

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:37 PM GMT
    ohk so u r telling me that its better to ask him for his sexuality gay or straight ...
    or should i come out with him first?
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:40 PM GMT
    Ask him if ever watches football and notices how hot guys' asses are when they're huddling and smacking each other's cheeks.icon_razz.gif
  • Miguelmontes

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    Dec 15, 2012 7:41 PM GMT
    haahhha he doesnt watch football
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    Dec 15, 2012 7:58 PM GMT
    TheBizMan saidHmm well then that's a problem. I have a much easier time cutting people out of my life than most others. If they think I'm wrong for being myself then I don't need them around. I don't look back and rarely give second chances.

    In my opinion he isn't a true friend if he doesn't accept you as you are. I don't think gay men should have any obligation to publicly disclose their sexuality.


    high five, I'm with you on that
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    Dec 15, 2012 8:21 PM GMT
    how to tell ur fiends that ur bi?

    Start off by telling them you're gay and then ease into the bi thing.
  • hanzo83

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    Dec 16, 2012 10:47 PM GMT
    If you tell him and he flips out then he wasn't much of a friend in the first place and you should say good riddance to him. If he's a real friend then he'll be cool about it and won't care much.
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    Dec 16, 2012 10:49 PM GMT
    By saying you're bi! icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 16, 2012 10:50 PM GMT
    Unless the Dude is sitting in Yer lap, where You put Your Cock is probably of little interest to Him.

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    If You are asking the best way to get into His pants...THAT is an entirely dfferent conversation.
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    Dec 17, 2012 6:08 AM GMT
    Weren't you just concerned about how to determine how big a guy's dick was? I take it your friend has a big one, but tell us how you found out.
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    Dec 17, 2012 7:13 AM GMT
    "I like V and P"

    fuck
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    Dec 17, 2012 7:17 AM GMT
    Tell him you got booty last night and ask him to smell your fingers.
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    Dec 17, 2012 7:19 AM GMT
    Roguewave saidTell him you got booty last night and ask him to smell your fingers.



    Whats the point of that....If He smelled His ...fingers.....HEEEEEEEEY.....


    WAIT.....
    I get it!!!!!!



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    Dec 17, 2012 7:21 AM GMT
    Lol see there's a method there!!!