Why Are So Many (not all) MOTD's Such Douches?

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    Dec 16, 2012 2:28 AM GMT
    Made a nice photo comment to today's MOTD. Not only did he not bother to even say thanks, but apparently my comment wasn't even worthy to approve. Not the first time this has happened. Last time I'll congratulate or comment on a MOTD. Anyone else experience this?
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    Dec 16, 2012 2:31 AM GMT
    Hey! I was MOTD once and I have been nothing but fucking nice to EVERY MOTHERFUCKER ON HERE! icon_mad.gif
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    Dec 16, 2012 2:31 AM GMT
    Claystation saidHey! I was MOTD once and I have been nothing but fucking nice to EVERY MOTHERFUCKER ON HERE! icon_mad.gif

    Lies! Fucking lies!!!
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    Dec 16, 2012 2:33 AM GMT

    oh Scruffs..

    Why get upset about it? You've got more going on that most people on here.

    What's the purpose behind MOTD anyway?

    Is it meant to be an extension of the uniquely American 'Employee Of the Month'?
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    Dec 16, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidMade a nice photo comment to today's MOTD. Not only did he not bother to even say thanks, but apparently my comment wasn't even worthy to approve. Not the first time this has happened. Last time I'll congratulate or comment on a MOTD. Anyone else experience this?


    It's because people like you GIVE him the power. It's kinda like giving a dolla to a stripper. Do you really think that will make the stripper like you more, as a person? No. They just fish for compliments from guys who IRL would never actually give them the time of day.

    I'm pretty sure most know they are hot, no need to remind them again and again...

    I have never given a MOTD anything, just indifference. Now, if you are on my hotlist, thats a different story. And I constantly say I want Runninthecity to sit on my face, but that's an ENTIRELY different story too....
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    Dec 16, 2012 2:55 AM GMT
    That's what you get for voting based on looks.
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    Dec 16, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    Maybe he's overwhelmed with photo comments. He might have accidentally skipped yours or thought he already approved it.

    Personally, I don't bother to leave photo comments for the MOTD. If I think the guy is hot, I'll just Hotlist him and move on. If he thanks me, cool. If not, no worries because I wasn't expecting him to reply anyways.
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:00 AM GMT
    xrichx saidMaybe he's overwhelmed with photo comments. He might have accidentally skipped yours or thought he already approved it.

    Personally, I don't bother to leave photo comments for the MOTD. If I think the guy is hot, I'll just Hotlist him and move on. If he thanks me, cool. If not, no worries because I wasn't expecting him to reply anyways.


    This brings me to my second point - what's the value of hotlisting people?

    Buddy listing - I can understand. It's a great little shortcut to my favourite people icon_smile.gif

    Hotlisting and the desire to be hotlisted reeks of desperation..
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    Watch ur mouth
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    tanlejos saidHotlisting and the desire to be hotlisted reeks of desperation..
    How so? icon_confused.gif
    I hotlist people but I'm in a monogamous long-term relationship. It's just a way of giving somebody a compliment.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 16, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    Is there some way that you can tell that he looked at the email for the photo comment you left .. maybe he hasn't been logged in .. or maybe he is working through other emails or comments .. or maybe he doesn't know how
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:14 AM GMT
    Hot people don't have to have manners. They get all the attention they want. icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:19 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidHot people don't have to have manners. They get all the attention they want. icon_razz.gif
    I think the fact that he made a nice photo comment to today's MOTD just proves this point.
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidHot people don't have to have manners. They get all the attention they want. icon_razz.gif


    Not all of it positive, though.
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    Don't let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch, man!
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    JumpMan_Josh saidDon't let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch, man!
    Scruffyprincess is known for her overdramatic reactions to such minute problems. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    McQueen said
    JumpMan_Josh saidDon't let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch, man!
    Scruffyprincess is known for her overdramatic reactions to such minute problems. icon_rolleyes.gif


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    Dec 16, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    McQueen said
    JumpMan_Josh saidDon't let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch, man!
    Scruffyprincess is known for her overdramatic reactions to such minute problems. icon_rolleyes.gif


    Why do you refer to him as a her?

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    Dec 16, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    Sigh.
    Here I am, a member since May 2007 and I have NEVER even received one vote in the quotidian MOTD pageant.

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    I can't even vote for myself.

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    Dec 16, 2012 4:28 AM GMT
    tanlejos saidWhy do you refer to him as a her?
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    At first I wasn't for it, for me. Than RJ'ers nominated me when I made myself visible to everyone. I won and thought it was pretty cool.
    MotD is a good place expand a lonely hotlist too.
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:40 AM GMT

    and, of course, there's no response to that comment.

    The 'she' and 'her' comments to refer to gay men are disempowering the gay movement and do nothing but reiterate tired old stereotypes.



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    Dec 16, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    Claystation saidHey! I was MOTD once and I have been nothing but fucking nice to EVERY MOTHERFUCKER ON HERE! icon_mad.gif



    Note the part in parentesis!
  • TheBizMan

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    Dec 16, 2012 4:47 AM GMT
    Sand in their pee holes?
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    JRaRJ saidAt first I wasn't for it, for me. Than RJ'ers nominated me when I made myself visible to everyone. I won and thought it was pretty cool.
    MotD is a good place expand a lonely hotlist too.


    I've always liked being invisible. It's been worth the tradeoff.