Bottom, Pray and Love.

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    Dec 16, 2012 3:52 AM GMT

    When someone's looking for a hook up, I tend to think that one can find someone eventually, even if there seems to be uneven number of bottoms and tops.

    However, in your experience, has your sexual preference ever become a problem for you in finding a boyfriend?

    Personally, psychologically had this certain aversion to the idea of topping, even though it probably is pleasant as well, not from an experience, but just a feeling I got from a idea of it. But, more I think about it, there probably should be no reason why I couldn't top a guy when it comes to it, when it really comes to it as long as I'm physically able to. But, when I go through online sites, there are lots of 'bottom' guys, and I would've been one of them. It is mostly hook up site, but has it ever been a roadblock for you, if you are a top or a bottom and have a rigid preference one way or another, to find that right guy for you in a relationship?

    For me, if I were to embrace this side of myself, I'm inclined to believe that I would be flexible in that regards because what would be most important would be a person and who that person is, not what he is under the blanket, but there seems to be a good amount of people with an exact idea for what they want, and it could be very big part of the relationship in this and age...
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    Dec 16, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
    I don't think anyone should cut themselves off from topping or bottoming. Really more people go both ways than you think.