Need advice.

  • weneedlovetoo

    Posts: 92

    Dec 16, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    I don't know what to do exactly. After my first crush didn't work out (he told me he wanted to be friend), I was heartbroken and i think it did hurt my self esteem + confidence. So what happened is that, i met this one guy online and I don't think he was what I am looking for ( well to some extent) since he is younger than me, (and i wanted someone older than me, more mature). I was playing hard to get ish, and i thought i didnt have feeling for him at all. However, one time he told me that he likes me (I thought it was sweet but kinda weird since we never really met) but then after that time i started thinking about him, and somewhat missing him. I feel like, i started liking him since he told me he likes me. I'm planning to go on a date with him next week and we've been texting each other daily. He is a really nice guy , really caring which is kinda opposite from the guy i had a crush on before. I just don't know if it's my rebound or if i actually like him. What should i do? I don't want him to be my rebound cuz i don't want to hurt his feeling.
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    Dec 16, 2012 9:39 PM GMT
    I feel like you should follow your heart.

    Ask yourself: Do I like him?

    If yes, then go for it. See what happens.

    If no, then compassionately tell him that you may not be ready.

    But regardless, be careful as to not let him be your rebound. Because that may hurt his feelings, and we don't want that. If you're second-guessing yourself, then there's a good chance that he's your rebound. But remember, listen to your innermost voice!