Dec 19, 2012 4:46 PM GMT
I have been seeing this guy for more than 4 months. We are not
exclusive to each other but we text every day and hang out every week.
I bought him two gifts for him for his birthday in September, sent him
a bunch of underwears for Thanksgiving and an eye cream for Chrismas.
But today he emailed me a Groupon from a local Wholefood-like grocery
store and said "you can shop for me." I was shocked, for two reasons:
first, I don't understand why he was asking me to shop and pay for
him. I've already given him gifts while he never did the same.
Second, it wasn't the first time he sent me Groupon emails. Some were
local restaurant deals and a couple were electronic gadgets. I thought
he was just being nice and sent me some good deals to save my money.
But now I think he was probably just trying to make me buy those deals
for him. But, what?????
A little more backgound about him: he is the bottom when we have sex
(thanks to him I've learned how to do anal sex); but he is masculine
(not submissive) and older than me. He is a Christian and from
So I am really confused why he asked me to shop for him. Is it common?
Should I buy it for him?