Where can a 18 year old go to meet some guys?

  • Johnnyhuu

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    Dec 20, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    Just wondering because I'm having a hard time finding places where I can meet gay guys.
  • JackDoyle

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    Dec 20, 2012 4:00 AM GMT
    Pubs and clubs are the best place I think but ye could join your College lgbt society or online on Gaydar or manhunt...
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    Dec 20, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
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  • Johnnyhuu

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    Dec 20, 2012 4:03 AM GMT
    JackDoyle saidPubs and clubs are the best place I think but ye could join your College lgbt society or online on Gaydar or manhunt...


    I'm tryin to get a more dating/relationship sense rather then a hook up sense
  • JackDoyle

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    Dec 20, 2012 4:19 AM GMT
    Johnnyhuu said
    JackDoyle saidPubs and clubs are the best place I think but ye could join your College lgbt society or online on Gaydar or manhunt...


    I'm tryin to get a more dating/relationship sense rather then a hook up sense


    yeah all the places I mentioned are places where you will find potential bf's, I met my last bf on Gaydar, an the one before that outside a random pub...they are everywhere!! icon_eek.gif
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  • MidwesternKid

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    Dec 20, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    Public Library
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    Dec 20, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    high school ?
  • Amira

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    Dec 20, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    When I was 18 the last thing I worried about was meeting other gay guys.. I'm just saying.

    But I guess a local LGBT group would be a nice place to start. Allows you to socialize with others while also getting to know them on a friendly level.
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    Dec 20, 2012 5:08 AM GMT
    There are gay clubs and there are also gyms for gay men and I find that if you wait in a park long enough in the wrong side of town you will eventually find someone there in various states of undress.
  • Johnnyhuu

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    Dec 20, 2012 5:32 AM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince saidThere are gay clubs and there are also gyms for gay men and I find that if you wait in a park long enough in the wrong side of town you will eventually find someone there in various states of undress.


    There are clubs that allow 18 and up?
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    Dec 20, 2012 5:33 AM GMT
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    Johnnyhuu said
    MashogaNubianPrince saidThere are gay clubs and there are also gyms for gay men and I find that if you wait in a park long enough in the wrong side of town you will eventually find someone there in various states of undress.


    There are clubs that allow 18 and up?


    Yes there are plenty. I've been to several when I was your age. Of course I could not drink but that didn't stop them from letting me in. The one I go to is eighteen and up.
  • Johnnyhuu

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    Dec 20, 2012 5:36 AM GMT
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    Johnnyhuu said
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    What;s confusing about that?

    You asked where an 18 year old can go to meet some guys. Well you can meet a guy in my bedroom, and that guy would be me.

    Capiche?
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    Dec 20, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    Most gay clubs in big cities have a college night for the 18+ crowd. Usually during the week, Wednesday or Thursday. There are a lot of gay clubs in Chicago so just check their website.

    Don't be afraid to hit up grindr or a gay app. There are definitely guys on there who are curious and want to chat - it's not *always* about sex. (But what else are young guys going to end up chatting about?)
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    Dec 20, 2012 5:57 AM GMT
    Find some lgbt non-bar-oriented groups. There are bound to be some. For example, I practiced with the Minneapolis Mayhem last summer (gay rugby union team) and had fun doing it. Honestly- you'll find someone if you get out there.
  • Johnnyhuu

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    Dec 20, 2012 6:06 AM GMT
    TheBizMan said
    Johnnyhuu said
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    What;s confusing about that?

    You asked where an 18 year old can go to meet some guys. Well you can meet a guy in my bedroom, and that guy would be me.

    Capiche?


    Lol no I'm saving myself xD. I'm a complete virgin and I have never hady first kiss yet either. I'll probably lose it all to a good bf xD
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 20, 2012 6:11 AM GMT
    If the Rocky Horror Picture Show is play near you,everyone there (guys) is probably gay, but getting them to admit it is another thing. If you have a GLBT Center, see if they have an active youth group and if they don't START ONE!
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    Johnnyhuu said
    TheBizMan said
    Johnnyhuu said
    TheBizMan saidMy bedchambers


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    What;s confusing about that?

    You asked where an 18 year old can go to meet some guys. Well you can meet a guy in my bedroom, and that guy would be me.

    Capiche?


    Lol no I'm saving myself xD. I'm a complete virgin and I have never hady first kiss yet either. I'll probably lose it all to a good bf xD


    Are you sure you're gay lol? You're thin, you're cute and you haven't discovered poppers yet. Lol you're every seasoned gay man's fantasy. You should be out getting all of the sexual experience you can so when you meet the right one you will know what you're doing.
  • Johnnyhuu

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    Dec 20, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince said
    Johnnyhuu said
    TheBizMan said
    Johnnyhuu said
    TheBizMan saidMy bedchambers


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    What;s confusing about that?

    You asked where an 18 year old can go to meet some guys. Well you can meet a guy in my bedroom, and that guy would be me.

    Capiche?


    Lol no I'm saving myself xD. I'm a complete virgin and I have never hady first kiss yet either. I'll probably lose it all to a good bf xD


    Are you sure you're gay lol? You're thin, you're cute and you haven't discovered poppers yet. Lol you're every seasoned gay man's fantasy. You should be out getting all of the sexual experience you can so when you meet the right one you will know what you're doing.


    I just want it to be more meaningful when I do that with. Another guy. I just don't know. I am positive I'm gay lol. Means I gotta find a b ASAP then.
  • TheBizMan

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    Dec 20, 2012 6:20 AM GMT
    Johnnyhuu said
    MashogaNubianPrince said
    Johnnyhuu said
    TheBizMan said
    Johnnyhuu said
    TheBizMan saidMy bedchambers


    ?icon_confused.gif


    What;s confusing about that?

    You asked where an 18 year old can go to meet some guys. Well you can meet a guy in my bedroom, and that guy would be me.

    Capiche?


    Lol no I'm saving myself xD. I'm a complete virgin and I have never hady first kiss yet either. I'll probably lose it all to a good bf xD


    Are you sure you're gay lol? You're thin, you're cute and you haven't discovered poppers yet. Lol you're every seasoned gay man's fantasy. You should be out getting all of the sexual experience you can so when you meet the right one you will know what you're doing.


    I just want it to be more meaningful when I do that with. Another guy. I just don't know. I am positive I'm gay lol. Means I gotta find a b ASAP then.


    Sex can be meaningful when it is necessary and meaningless on the same note.
  • MikeW

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    Dec 20, 2012 6:21 AM GMT
    Johnnyhuu saidLol no I'm saving myself xD. I'm a complete virgin and I have never hady first kiss yet either. I'll probably lose it all to a good bf xD


    Lordy, young gay guys these days. Not like they were back in my day. True, that was before "gay" was invented and computers were like Univac. But, still, boys were boys. You know. Horny. All the time. "Saving themselves," was something only girls did, which was fine by me. icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 20, 2012 6:24 AM GMT
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    Johnnyhuu saidLol no I'm saving myself xD. I'm a complete virgin and I have never hady first kiss yet either. I'll probably lose it all to a good bf xD


    Lordy, young gay guys these days. Not like they were back in my day. True, that was before "gay" was invented and computers were like Univac. But, still, boys were boys. You know. Horny. All the time. "Saving themselves," was something only girls did, which was fine by me. icon_twisted.gif


    Times change.
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    Dec 20, 2012 6:25 AM GMT
    Johnnyhuu said
    MashogaNubianPrince said
    Johnnyhuu said
    TheBizMan said
    Johnnyhuu said
    TheBizMan saidMy bedchambers


    ?icon_confused.gif


    What;s confusing about that?

    You asked where an 18 year old can go to meet some guys. Well you can meet a guy in my bedroom, and that guy would be me.

    Capiche?


    Lol no I'm saving myself xD. I'm a complete virgin and I have never hady first kiss yet either. I'll probably lose it all to a good bf xD


    Are you sure you're gay lol? You're thin, you're cute and you haven't discovered poppers yet. Lol you're every seasoned gay man's fantasy. You should be out getting all of the sexual experience you can so when you meet the right one you will know what you're doing.


    I just want it to be more meaningful when I do that with. Another guy. I just don't know. I am positive I'm gay lol. Means I gotta find a b ASAP then.


    It can be meaningful and yet good at the same time. No one especially if we are talking anal has had an astounding first time. It takes a few times around the track to get into the swing of things. Even I still find myself leaving my body during remarkably bad sex. Last time I went to Narnia.

    The only men who save themselves are closeted gay Christians and men who are lying about being virgins. Go out and there and get up under somebody!