Is anal really that intense?

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    Sep 16, 2008 10:52 PM GMT
    Whenever, I have anal sex...I enjoy it...but it's not that intense and doesn't give me all that much pleasure...


    What do you think about it and does it truly make you moan?
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    Sep 16, 2008 11:36 PM GMT
    It varies with the man. Most of the physical pleasure from anal bottoming comes from prostate stimulation, and that response differs greatly among men. Some feel the pressure as intense pleasure, some as intense pain, some as neutral, and for the rest every degree in between. (Prostate pain can be a warning sign of infection, inflammation, or other disorders that warrant medical examination)

    Often the pleasure is masked at first, due to the pain of the distended sphincter muscles, and from friction. Pleasure will become more noticeable as the distracting pain from these causes subsides over time with regular anal practice. Some men can orgasm from the bottoming alone, while others need the help of masturbation to ejaculate, and still others won't even become erect when mounted.

    Anal pleasure also contains a psychological component, which likewise varies with the man. If you like the idea of penetration, your perception of pleasurable sensations will typically be greater than if the act repulses you, and be less dependent upon the lack or level of physical pain. (Excepting those individuals for whom pain may itself be a sexual stimulus)

    I happen to get little direct physical pleasure from being a bottom, but can enjoy sharing in my partner's pleasure when he acts as the top. Performing as the top myself stimulates me enough to cum inside a condom.
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    Sep 17, 2008 12:25 AM GMT
    You don't say if you are primarily topping or bottoming, and there are thousands of potential answers to both situations. But I will assume you are bottoming here.

    Your top might be doing something wrong:
    - not giving you other stimulation. Nipples, cock, balls, earlobe, thighs. Squeeze, prod, and slap everything until you find something that enhances the sensation.
    - not hitting your prostate. Try different positions until you find a few that hits your prostate.
    - not warming you up. If he just slams his cock in you aren't really in the mood then. He needs to rim you, lick your back, get you hard and itching for a fuck.

    You might be doing something wrong:
    - how experiences is your hole? Play with toys until having something in there and moving is comfortable.
    - are you communicating? If your sweet-spot is just little to the left then you need to tell him where to poke that thing.
    - how will do you know yourself? Can't give good directions if you don't know what makes you pop.

    However, it could also be that smacking a cock against your prostate just doesn't do it for you. It my serious recommendation that you hit it at every conceivable angle and force before you give up.
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    Sep 18, 2008 3:08 AM GMT
    if your in the mood and wanting it its much much more better
    otherwise if you are indifferent, its just a pain in the ass
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    Sep 22, 2008 8:19 PM GMT
    it would also depend on how hard he's fucking you.
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    Sep 22, 2008 8:26 PM GMT
    willie1991 saidWhenever, I have anal sex...I enjoy it...but it's not that intense and doesn't give me all that much pleasure...


    What do you think about it and does it truly make you moan?


    Apparently a guy more talented than the one f'ing you! icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 22, 2008 11:11 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa saidIt varies with the man. Most of the physical pleasure from anal bottoming comes from prostate stimulation, and that response differs greatly among men. Some feel the pressure as intense pleasure, some as intense pain, some as neutral, and for the rest every degree in between. (Prostate pain can be a warning sign of infection, inflammation, or other disorders that warrant medical examination)

    Often the pleasure is masked at first, due to the pain of the distended sphincter muscles, and from friction. Pleasure will become more noticeable as the distracting pain from these causes subsides over time with regular anal practice. Some men can orgasm from the bottoming alone, while others need the help of masturbation to ejaculate, and still others won't even become erect when mounted.

    Anal pleasure also contains a psychological component, which likewise varies with the man. If you like the idea of penetration, your perception of pleasurable sensations will typically be greater than if the act repulses you, and be less dependent upon the lack or level of physical pain. (Excepting those individuals for whom pain may itself be a sexual stimulus)

    I happen to get little direct physical pleasure from being a bottom, but can enjoy sharing in my partner's pleasure when he acts as the top. Performing as the top myself stimulates me enough to cum inside a condom.


    Yep, in my case it's all these things that get me incredibly hot! The best of all is my giving of myself 110% to my topman, like relinquishing all control to him, reacting to every move he makes and letting him know I'm totally hot for him. I'm definitely not the kinda dude who just lays there! It's a two-way-energy kinda thing, the more I put out, the more I get back! :>)~
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    Sep 23, 2008 1:45 AM GMT
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    Red_Vespa saidIt varies with the man. Most of the physical pleasure from anal bottoming comes from prostate stimulation, and that response differs greatly among men. Some feel the pressure as intense pleasure, some as intense pain, some as neutral, and for the rest every degree in between. (Prostate pain can be a warning sign of infection, inflammation, or other disorders that warrant medical examination)

    Often the pleasure is masked at first, due to the pain of the distended sphincter muscles, and from friction. Pleasure will become more noticeable as the distracting pain from these causes subsides over time with regular anal practice. Some men can orgasm from the bottoming alone, while others need the help of masturbation to ejaculate, and still others won't even become erect when mounted.

    Anal pleasure also contains a psychological component, which likewise varies with the man. If you like the idea of penetration, your perception of pleasurable sensations will typically be greater than if the act repulses you, and be less dependent upon the lack or level of physical pain. (Excepting those individuals for whom pain may itself be a sexual stimulus)

    I happen to get little direct physical pleasure from being a bottom, but can enjoy sharing in my partner's pleasure when he acts as the top. Performing as the top myself stimulates me enough to cum inside a condom.


    Yep, in my case it's all these things that get me incredibly hot! The best of all is my giving of myself 110% to my topman, like relinquishing all control to him, reacting to every move he makes and letting him know I'm totally hot for him. I'm definitely not the kinda dude who just lays there! It's a two-way-energy kinda thing, the more I put out, the more I get back! :>)~


    That is the way it is supposed to be. A dance or sorts.
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    Sep 23, 2008 2:35 AM GMT
    willie1991 saidWhenever, I have anal sex...I enjoy it...but it's not that intense and doesn't give me all that much pleasure...


    What do you think about it and does it truly make you moan?


    I like being fucked, it's fun and erotic to be so physically close to someone else, even if it's anonymous.

    However, the only times I truly go out of my mind from bottoming is when I really like or love the top. For me, that added romantic attachment sends anal, and sex in general, into orbit.
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    Sep 26, 2008 12:41 AM GMT
    My current BF was curious about it because I get incredibly great pleasure from it. I gently penetrated him with a finger and he found it uncomfortable, so he stays the top.
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    Sep 26, 2008 8:23 PM GMT
    I would assume you don't have much experience with bottoming. You might want to try pleasuring yourself anally in order to know what will make you cum hard. Anal masturbation is pretty telling when you need to know more about your g-spot. Masturbation in general is a good way to get to know your sexuallity. Don't underestimate the power of auto erotic exhilaration! icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 26, 2008 8:26 PM GMT
    luc21_83 said Don't underestimate the power of auto erotic exhilaration! icon_wink.gif


    OMG, I'm already getting a rise! LOL!
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    Sep 26, 2008 8:26 PM GMT
    luc21_83 said Don't underestimate the power of auto erotic exhilaration! icon_wink.gif


    OMG, I'm already getting a rise! LOL!
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    Sep 26, 2008 8:27 PM GMT
    John43620 saidMy current BF was curious about it because I get incredibly great pleasure from it. I gently penetrated him with a finger and he found it uncomfortable, so he stays the top.


    i think most people will find that fingers never feel as good as a hard cock. Maybe you should have started with that, its warmer, not as rigid, hopefully a little more filling.I find fingers only really work when someone is ultra horny.
  • oookellyooo

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    Sep 28, 2008 2:45 PM GMT
    i hate to digress from the topic but i'm still not sold to anal stimulation, maybe it's just not for me...maybe because of my inexperience...maybe because of the shit LOL
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    Sep 28, 2008 11:55 PM GMT
    TOP HERE but recently been fingered... so that was wild.
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    Sep 29, 2008 4:50 AM GMT
    oookellyooo saidi hate to digress from the topic but i'm still not sold to anal stimulation, maybe it's just not for me...maybe because of my inexperience...maybe because of the shit LOL


    THere is such as thing as being "date ready" so there isnt any shit, when getting fucked.
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    Sep 29, 2008 3:53 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidWhen I first started bottoming I didn't see what all the fuss was about it. Then one day a guy I met was very well hung. He was hung long and fat. It was the thickness that I found most pleasurable. Well...needless to say from that point I knew what the big deal was. I was hooked and knew what it took for me to enjoy bottoming. Am I a shameless size queen? icon_redface.gif


    Maybe yes, maybe no. Does it really matter? You know what you prefer and as far as I'm concerned there's nothing wrong in that.

    To the OP, the other responses may be spot on. Maybe you aren't getting it done just right. Or perhaps you just aren't built to love it. Not everyone loves everything. There's a lot of things to worry about in life. I'm not sure enjoying it, but not getting mind blowing orgasms form bottoming would be all that high on my list.

    For me, I don't have a ton of experience, but it definitely was really intense for me. But I think it was more psychological for me, rather than physical.
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    Sep 29, 2008 4:08 PM GMT
    I been with one guy with a really big and long dick. Yes, it true ...it hit you right at the based. With proper lube and gentle penetration is really pleasureable. It kinda fill you up. Smaller dick dont really hit it and make me slightly frustrated.
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    Jan 06, 2009 4:06 AM GMT
    PRDGUY saidTOP HERE but recently been fingered... so that was wild.



    Yepp, you're a butt-virgin, but not for long....don't worry, I'll be gentle with my 10'+ icon_twisted.gif Keep saving that sweet butt of yours for me like you promised! Wanna be your first! icon_wink.gif
  • PRDGUY

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    Jan 11, 2009 11:26 PM GMT
    BerberKnight saidWhatever you're told about anal sex, know that it's not healthy.

    Most of our immune system resides in our intestines. The anal passage's biological function is to evacuate waste out of the body to keep the latter balanced.

    Anal sex hinders this natural process. Not only does it make the immune system shaky, in the long run, but it also bothers a constant and a crucial biological function

    ... it's like an exit door forced to be used as an entrance door.

    One, eventually, feels lots of pleasure during anal sex because of only one thing: Defecating would have been atrociously painful if nerve receptors weren't designed inside to make it go smoothly.

    Therefore, the pleasure you get from anal sex is thanks to those sensitive nerve receptors - NOT because you're doing the bottom a favor by facilitating his intestinal transit.

    I always say this: the top has nothing to lose if he is protected; the bottom is the one slowly dying, whether the top is protected or not.

    http://cruciblecrucified.blogspot.com/2008/01/anal-sex-cause-of-anal-cancer.html


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    Jan 11, 2009 11:46 PM GMT
    [g0y spiel]

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  • Nayro

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    Jan 12, 2009 12:20 AM GMT
    I would love to find out... Never done it icon_razz.gif


    very curious though...
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    Jan 12, 2009 12:36 AM GMT
    BEFORE MEETING MY BOYFRIEND OF NEARLY 21 MONTHS, I WOULD HAVE HAD TO EXPRESS A LACK OF INTENSITY IN SEXUAL UNIONS. THE EPERIENCES WERE PLEASURABLE...BUT COULD NOT BE DESCRIBED AS INTENSE. I COULD FIND THE SAME RELEASE WITH MY OWN HAND. POSSIBLY, I NEVER FOUND CHEMISTRY WITH OTHERS. POSSIBLY, THERE HAD NEVER BEFORE BEEN AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. POSSIBLY, NO OTHER MAN HAD EVER TOUCHED ME IN SO MANY WAYS....

    ALL I KNOW IS THIS...SINCE BEING WITH HIM, I FIND TOTAL PLEASURE, EXCITEMENT AND INTENSITY IN WHATEVER WE DO, AND THAT INTENSITY IS NOT LIMITED TO BEING ONLY HIS TOP, BUT HIS BOTTOM, AS WELL. HE IS THE FIRST AND ONLY MAN THAT I HAVE TRULY ENJOYED INSIDE OF ME. AFTER WE HAVE FINISHED MAKING LOVE , WE KISS AND HOLD EACH OTHER CLOSE UNTIL WE CAN ONCE AGAIN FUNCTION NORMALLY. WE JUST SEEM TO "FIT" IN SO MANY ASPECTS....AND MAYBE THATS WHAT IT COMES DOWN TO. WE FULFILL EACH OTHERS NEEDS, BECAUSE WE WANT TO BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER. PERHAPS THAT'S WHERE THE INTENSITY COMES IN... IT HAS NEVER BEEN JUST ABOUT THE SEX. BUT EVERYTHING THAT WE HAVE BEEN AND ARE STILL BECOMING TOGETHER.