Guy into me or just being nice?

  • Lunastar

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    Dec 21, 2012 1:39 AM GMT
    I was at the library late finishing a paper and went down to a cafe that we have in our campus library. After gathering a chicken and cheese sandwich and some green and honey iced tea, I, in my clutter-filled brain, forgot that I couldn't use a meal swipe at the cafe past 9pm when suddenly a guy that I say hello to came by and covered me with cash. He insisted and I thanked him profusely.

    I have no idea if he's gay, I had initial suspicions but then I found out he hooked up with a girl so my suspicions were let down a bit. He's very cute, boyish face, short blond hair and is ripped. We know each other from being on the same committee for a club and say hello whenever we see each other. Not sure what I should do. I'm probably reading too much into it and he was just doing a nice deed but was wondering what others thought. icon_confused.gif

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    Dec 21, 2012 1:54 AM GMT
    He either like you or like the girlfriends you are with. Try to start a conversation with him and assess non verbal cues.
  • Just_Tim

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    Dec 21, 2012 2:08 AM GMT
    He was probably just being nice. I would do that for somebody without being interested in them. Some people are nice.
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    Dec 21, 2012 2:11 AM GMT
    Just_Tim saidHe was probably just being nice. I would do that for somebody without being interested in them. Some people are nice.


    Giving random stranger money? He either looks poor, sad, or in panic state for the guy to give free money....Not many people are that nice....
  • Timbales

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    Dec 21, 2012 2:16 AM GMT
    Offer to buy him a coffee to return the favor.
  • Just_Tim

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    Dec 21, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    Perserverance said
    Just_Tim saidHe was probably just being nice. I would do that for somebody without being interested in them. Some people are nice.


    Giving random stranger money? He either looks poor, sad, or in panic state for the guy to give free money....Not many people are that nice....


    He was at a library and I assume the two know each other somewhat if he says hello and knows that the guy has been with some girl. Random stranger never crossed my mind. Still, some people AREthat nice.
  • reptile18

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    Dec 21, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    Lunastar saidI was at the library late finishing a paper and went down to a cafe that we have in our campus library. After gathering a chicken and cheese sandwich and some green and honey iced tea, I, in my clutter-filled brain, forgot that I couldn't use a meal swipe at the cafe past 9pm when suddenly a guy that I say hello to came by and covered me with cash. He insisted and I thanked him profusely.

    I have no idea if he's gay, I had initial suspicions but then I found out he hooked up with a girl so my suspicions were let down a bit. He's very cute, boyish face, short blond hair and is ripped. We know each other from being on the same committee for a club and say hello whenever we see each other. Not sure what I should do. I'm probably reading too much into it and he was just doing a nice deed but was wondering what others thought. icon_confused.gif



    how do you know that? have you already slept with him? icon_twisted.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 21, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
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    Dec 21, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
    Just_Tim said
    Perserverance said
    Just_Tim saidHe was probably just being nice. I would do that for somebody without being interested in them. Some people are nice.


    Giving random stranger money? He either looks poor, sad, or in panic state for the guy to give free money....Not many people are that nice....


    He was at a library and I assume the two know each other somewhat if he says hello and knows that the guy has been with some girl. Random stranger never crossed my mind. Still, some people AREthat nice.


    In that case then I guess he could be that nice....interesting how the OP is after him....sounds messy when the girl is involved.
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    Dec 21, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
    Sounds like just a nice deed to me. If he does another nice deed, then try becoming friends and see if anything happens.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 21, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
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    Silly man.icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 21, 2012 3:15 AM GMT
    Nice deed, move on....But I admit I would initially think the same thing.

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    Dec 21, 2012 4:52 AM GMT
    Simply a good deed.