Antijock, thanks for sharing your story and your thoughts. While I was in the closet I was constantly lying. "There aren't really any girls around here that I like.", "Yeah I've had a girlfriend.", "Wow, she looks so hot."
Lying to people's faces got old and did nothing but damage my self esteem. That's why I was referring to honesty in my video. Now when asked if I have a girlfriend I can look that person in the eye and say "Boyfriend, and not right now." I want to be honest with myself. That is a luxury in life and I intend to abuse it. I am a gay man and I'm damn proud.
Skydive now, skydive when you're 80. You'll survive either one
Ryan, that is awesome to hear! Congradulations on coming out and to your budding love