What does this mean?

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    Dec 21, 2012 3:28 PM GMT
    Hey guys, so yesterday I saw my friends from high school who I haven't seen since I went to university. It was kind of a "oww the world's ending" party and we drank.... well a lot. I don't have any gay friends so I can't ask them this but, I kind of ended up making out with one of my closest friends. I can name 100 reasons why I made out with her, but it really doesn't matter because I shouldn't have made a move on her. What does this mean any way?
  • spacemagic

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    Dec 21, 2012 4:08 PM GMT
    It might mean something or nothing. Sometimes drunk people just make out.
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    Dec 21, 2012 4:29 PM GMT
    spacemagic saidIt might mean something or nothing. Sometimes drunk people just make out.


    If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with!
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    Dec 21, 2012 4:31 PM GMT
    mileshelvetica said
    spacemagic saidIt might mean something or nothing. Sometimes drunk people just make out.


    If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with!


    greatttt quote! But i feel pretty bad about making a move on her when she was drunk.
  • monet

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    Dec 21, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
    Drunk people sometimes get frisky. No big deal.

    You're lucky you only kissed your friend, not your friend's grandmother or your friend's dog. Drunk people have done worse.

    If it bothers you, next time don't drink so much.
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    Dec 21, 2012 6:12 PM GMT
    You guys enjoyed it. Sexual interest isn't something that's black and white, and it looks like you just found a grey area. I identify as gay, but I've had sex with women before and may do so again if I feel that spark.
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    Dec 21, 2012 7:29 PM GMT
    A pair of lips is a pair of lips. You apparently don't discriminate on which body they're on. No biggie.

    Having sex with her is a different story though. Like said before, it isn't black and white.
  • MidwesternKid

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    Dec 21, 2012 7:31 PM GMT
    Most likely means nothing. Don't worry about it.
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    Dec 21, 2012 7:31 PM GMT
    huhwhat saidYou guys enjoyed it. Sexual interest isn't something that's black and white, and it looks like you just found a grey area. I identify as gay, but I've had sex with women before and may do so again if I feel that spark.


    from what i hear there are exactly 50 shades of gray...
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    Dec 21, 2012 8:47 PM GMT
    In a blackout, I stuck my penis in my girlfriend's vagina once. I don't remember it, but I saw the photos. When we live life drunk we are irrational, unpredictable, and full of desires. The illusion is that we think a drunken life has meaning or validity. It doesn't.
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    Dec 21, 2012 8:55 PM GMT
    Means that you were horny
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    Dec 21, 2012 9:04 PM GMT
    deltalimen saidIn a blackout, I stuck my penis in my girlfriend's vagina once. I don't remember it, but I saw the photos. When we live life drunk we are irrational, unpredictable, and full of desires. The illusion is that we think a drunken life has meaning or validity. It doesn't.
    lol, happened to me too, thankfully there are no pictures of the deed
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    Dec 22, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    It means you wanted to connect physically to someone that you have a emotional connection with. She likely was also looking for it or she wouldn't have joined in... Assuming you didn't force yourself on her - it takes two to kiss.
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    Dec 22, 2012 12:40 AM GMT
    KKim11 saidHey guys, so yesterday I saw my friends from high school who I haven't seen since I went to university. It was kind of a "oww the world's ending" party and we drank.... well a lot. I don't have any gay friends so I can't ask them this but, I kind of ended up making out with one of my closest friends. I can name 100 reasons why I made out with her, but it really doesn't matter because I shouldn't have made a move on her. What does this mean any way?


    lol...
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    Dec 22, 2012 12:48 AM GMT
    BlackCat90 said
    KKim11 saidHey guys, so yesterday I saw my friends from high school who I haven't seen since I went to university. It was kind of a "oww the world's ending" party and we drank.... well a lot. I don't have any gay friends so I can't ask them this but, I kind of ended up making out with one of my closest friends. I can name 100 reasons why I made out with her, but it really doesn't matter because I shouldn't have made a move on her. What does this mean any way?


    lol...

    He's young it's ok. When I was that age everything was a big deal.. icon_lol.gif

    Now where did I put my walker.. and oxygen tank.
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    Dec 22, 2012 1:06 AM GMT
    KKim11 saidHey guys, so yesterday I saw my friends from high school who I haven't seen since I went to university. It was kind of a "oww the world's ending" party and we drank.... well a lot. I don't have any gay friends so I can't ask them this but, I kind of ended up making out with one of my closest friends. I can name 100 reasons why I made out with her, but it really doesn't matter because I shouldn't have made a move on her. What does this mean any way?


    It means you should be going on a date with me...icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 22, 2012 1:14 AM GMT
    I think most guys here have made out with girls before, many have hooked up with them and some of us have even married them. You probably know more about why you made out with her but maybe you're asking to see if others on here have done the same even after knowing we were full on gay? If so, again, "yes, many of us have also made out with chicks and sorta liked it".

    Many girls are soft, warm and smell like flowers... just like many bottoms haha.

    Have fun man and don't apologize. Embrace the marvels of testosterone. The next time you see her just wink and smile.
  • Sportsfan1

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    Dec 22, 2012 3:00 AM GMT
    What do you want it to mean? Hope you are not using being drunk as some kind of excuse. Obviously you were not drunk enough to have forgotten the incident and you feel some remorse about it. Just deal with it as a drunken night and move on. Try not to be so hard on yourself.
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    Dec 22, 2012 3:16 AM GMT
    Thanks for the reply guys, and I talked to her and she said its okay and that I shouldn't feel responsible. I know I may sound immature, but I just don't have that kind of relationship that many gay guys have with their girl friends.
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    Dec 22, 2012 3:24 AM GMT
    It happens man and it's no big deal. People tend to do things like that very often when extremely intoxicated.
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    Dec 22, 2012 3:26 AM GMT
    Does she know that you're into guys?
  • maax223

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    Dec 27, 2012 2:59 PM GMT
    I made out with a (female) friend of mine last week when we were drunk out of our minds lol. It hAppens i guess, nothing to worry about.
    If i hadnt been completely wasted we wouldve had sex.. And I'm still gay. Don't make a big deal out of it
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    Dec 27, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    JOOU saidDoes she know that you're into guys?


    Oh yeah she knows I'm gay!