It's so complicated

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    Dec 24, 2012 7:25 AM GMT
    Why is it that when you need people the most, that is when no one will care, and when you don't need them at all, then they all come along ?

    When you're in deep sh*t you have none but yourself to count on!
  • calibro

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    Dec 24, 2012 3:55 PM GMT
    avril lavigne understands
  • mybud

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    Dec 24, 2012 4:06 PM GMT
    count on yourself more...In deep shit?....always pack a sturdy shovel....
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    Dec 24, 2012 4:42 PM GMT
    People Suck,

    or don't suck long enough.

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    Dec 24, 2012 4:49 PM GMT
    How do you know they all come along when you don't need them?
  • JackDoyle

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    Dec 24, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    you should put up an indirect facebook status
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    Dec 24, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    When you're in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, 'Damn, that was fun'.”~~Groucho

    There's some good people in the world but also a lot of users and often you can't tell the difference until it is too late. So you either isolate yourself or take that risk. I've had periods of my life, decades that were pretty damned fun but also some hard times. I'm just working to get out of one now. And friends that fuck you over make the hard times even tougher. You'd be surprised at what shakes out when things shake up.

    The good time girls are first to fall out of the tree. When your life is going well, they're there "for you". When their life gets tough they are most certainly there for you to help them through their shit but when your life gets rough they disappear and then people will make excuses for them: Oh, they weren't able to handle that. They could only do so much. They're not that strong.

    What a fucking crock.

    These are the times when people show their true colors. Or even if you had seen their colors but thought you could work with that, then these are when those colors turn to shit.

    I have finally found the best way to handle this. On becoming a friend with someone new, insist on a $10,000 deposit for your friendship. That way, if they remain your friend throughout your life, you can will the money back to them or their estate. But if they fuck you during that time, then you keep their money as a fee for professional services rendered. That way you won't have to go through the rest of your life feeling so damned used by them. I think that just might work.

    As a bonus, that will keep them from fucking over too many other people because in this economy how many extra 10k could they possibly have. So your charging for your friendship is a benefit to the world. qed

    (on the other hand, if this is about your parents not helping when you think they should, it could just be they are teaching you to stand on your own)
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    Dec 24, 2012 9:22 PM GMT
    Thanks guys all your comments make me feel much better right now.
    Happy holidays !
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    Dec 24, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    mybud saidcount on yourself more...In deep shit?....always pack a sturdy shovel....


    Lol i just watched kill bill. Remids me of the scene where the bride was buried 6 feet under and she manages to get out icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 24, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    "On becoming a friend with someone new, insist on a $10,000 deposit "

    Lol yes theres nothing like money to keep people in check.
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    Dec 24, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    calibro saidavril lavigne understands


    Not really a fan of her music, but her song "I'm with you" is the perfect soundtrack to what I am feeling right now.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGR65RWwzg8
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    Dec 24, 2012 10:26 PM GMT
    TheWind saidWhy is it that when you need people the most, that is when no one will care, and when you don't need them at all, then they all come along ?

    When you're in deep sh*t you have none but yourself to count on!


    You want people to care about you? Care about people. You want friends who have your back? Be a friend who has his friends' backs. You want someone to wade into the shit to lend a hand or just be with you? Then be the person who is willing to wade into the shit to be with his friend.

    If you are already doing these things and your friends aren't there for you then it's time to rethink your friendship with them.
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    Dec 25, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    TheWind said
    calibro saidavril lavigne understands


    Not really a fan of her music, but her song "I'm with you" is the perfect soundtrack to what I am feeling right now.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGR65RWwzg8


    Lol, yes she would understand. Also, "I'm with you" is a decent song!
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    Dec 25, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    TheWind saidWhy is it that when you need people the most, that is when no one will care, and when you don't need them at all, then they all come along ?

    When you're in deep sh*t you have none but yourself to count on!


    For Real!!!
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    Dec 25, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidMerry Christmas!! icon_biggrin.gif

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    Awww poor Kevin!
    He's Hot, he wouldn't feel like that if i was there...
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:24 AM GMT
    Seems the OP could benefit from some more life experiences. He won't know the answer til he's come to make the same choices as those around him. icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    JRaRJ saidSeems the OP could benefit from some more life experiences. He won't know the answer til he's come to make the same choices as those around him. icon_neutral.gif



    Soooo, you're saying Avril Levigne DOESN'T have all the answers???

    Oh, God.icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:31 AM GMT
    TheWind saidWhy is it that when you need people the most, that is when no one will care, and when you don't need them at all, then they all come along ?

    When you're in deep sh*t you have none but yourself to count on!



    Maybe this will helpicon_smile.gif

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2885924
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:34 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    JRaRJ saidSeems the OP could benefit from some more life experiences. He won't know the answer til he's come to make the same choices as those around him. icon_neutral.gif



    Soooo, you're saying Avril Levigne DOESN'T have all the answers???

    Oh, God.icon_eek.gif

    Not for everyone, but for some. Dave Matthews, U2, and Rob Thomas have most of my answers.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 25, 2012 5:47 AM GMT
    Doesn't anyone but Calibro get that Avril Levigne is a punchline to this thread, because of her song Complicated?icon_confused.gif You guys act like she's a philosopher, lol.
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:49 AM GMT
    TheWind saidWhen you're in deep sh*t you have none but yourself to count on!
    That's because everyone else has already been through the same shit, and don't wanna go through it again. Find you own way out like we did. : twisted:
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:50 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidDoesn't anyone but Calibro get that Avril Levigne is a punchline to this thread, because of her song Complicated?icon_confused.gif You guys act like she's a philosopher, lol.
    Most gay guys are stupid enough to think Rosanne is a philosopher. Is this really surprising to you? icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 25, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TheWind saidWhen you're in deep sh*t you have none but yourself to count on!
    That's because everyone else has already been through the same shit, and don't wanna go through it again. Find you own way out like we did. : twisted:


    I think I need a friend to get through it. But that will take a miracle and i don't really believe n it anymore.
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    Dec 25, 2012 6:12 AM GMT
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    yourname2000 saidMerry Christmas!! icon_biggrin.gif

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    Awww poor Kevin!
    He's Hot, he wouldn't feel like that if i was there...



    If you were there you would probably stand by and stare just like most people do icon_smile.gif
    I think the better looking you are the lonelier you get.
  • Kel_

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    Dec 25, 2012 1:31 PM GMT
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    I want to learn these moves! But they look so complicated! icon_cry.gif