Conversion/Regression therapy to change one's sexual orientation?

  • sonuus

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    Dec 25, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    My Father just sent me below quoted article,
    He wants me to go for a past life regression session to change my sexual orientation and become straight, I love my Father but I am not sure how should I reply to him back?

    ArticleJust read the following case. Miracles are possible in one's life. You may be one of them.
    Shape Shifting – a Soul Phenomena
    There are times when after all these years I still get overawed by some cases. It reaffirms the fact that our consciousness operates in ways that the human brain cannot comprehend. One such case is of shape shifting.
    This phenomenon is seen especially in people who have an altered sexual preference.
    A 24 year old female pilot came to see me in 2010 after the popular show based on past life therapy. I will call her Annie. She came to see me from New york. Her parents told me that Annie was refusing to get married. She had informed them about her alternate sexual preference. She was attracted to women. This had devastated her parents.
    She was keen to know more about her -self and so came willingly for her session. Being the only child she was pained by her parent’s grief.
    During the past life visitation she experienced trauma by a man. She was raped and brutally murdered. She experienced that she was blaming herself for what happened. She didn't want her parents to be blamed and so committed suicide. During the session Annie cried so bitterly that a complete catharsis healed her. I didn't know what to expect about her turn around in her sexual preference so I suggested that she wait for a few months to see the change.
    3 months later Annies mother called. She sounded happy. She informed me that she had observed that Annie was dressing differently. Annie had pierced her ears and wore earrings. Annie had started wearing skirts and also grown her hair till her shoulder. She was happy with the change. I asked her to get Annie for another session. Annie came in a month later and when she walked in I saw her body shape had developed curves. She was swinging her hips and her smile was shy and sweet. Annie was unsure about the change but asserted that she felt different in her body.
    After the second session she called me and shared that she had gone to a disco with her friends and a young good looking boy had approached her to dance. She blushed and felt embarrassed an emotion she had never felt. She says she is open to the idea of marriage.
    I realized that the shape shifting phenomena is not a myth- It is for real.

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    Dec 25, 2012 3:11 AM GMT
    I think it's a wonderful idea. You should reply in the affirmative. After a few weeks of therapy, write back to your father, and enclose a picture, showing how much more wonderful you feel now that you're living your current life just as you did in your previous incarnation: as a drag queen.
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    Dec 25, 2012 3:31 AM GMT
    If I wasn't living with my dad and he sent me that I would reply with a "Fuck off." and never speak to him again.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 25, 2012 3:41 AM GMT
    Or you could dress in leather harnesses and tell him you were a roman gladiator in your past life and you now feel whole again :-)
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 25, 2012 3:42 AM GMT
    Not the kind of thing anyone wants to read on Christmas.... I'd just do my best to ignore him and live your life. Fighting with him now would be draining, and he probably won't change his heart overnight. It's unfortunate you have to go through this. Maybe he'll come around sometime down the line.
  • sonuus

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    Dec 25, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidNot the kind of thing anyone wants to read on Christmas.... I'd just do my best to ignore him and live your life. Fighting with him now would be draining, and he probably won't change his heart overnight. It's unfortunate you have to go through this. Maybe he'll come around sometime down the line.


    Thanks, I and my father have a very good relationship and I really respect him, I think he just feels he wants to fit me into societal norms and wants me getting married to women and having kids.
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    Dec 25, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    sonuus saidThanks, I and my father have a very good relationship and I really respect him, I think he just feels he wants to fit me into societal norms and wants me getting married to women and having kids.
    Tell him that he can either accept you as you are or end your relationship forever. Since he obviously "loves" you it would kill him to end the relationship so he'll have no choice but to shut the fuck up about his retarded religious views.
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    Dec 25, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
    "Conversion therapy" is proven ineffective and extremely harmful. It's a load of crap and most Western countries are banning it.

    Does this look legitimate? icon_rolleyes.gif

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=jJXWFZz0Qjo

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    Dec 25, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    Let's review what your father thinks of being gay, shall we?

    Here's what he sent to you: "During the past life visitation she experienced trauma by a man. She was raped and brutally murdered. She experienced that she was blaming herself for what happened. She didn't want her parents to be blamed and so committed suicide."

    So being gay is like being traumatized by a man, being raped, brutally murdered and then, as if being brutally murdered wasn't bad enough, you then somehow commit suicide because you are gay and apparently already dead by brutality.

    Look, the guy's got some serious issues here and this is nothing you're going to change overnight. When these people take these weird concepts to justify their superiority complexes or whatever it is they are dealing with, you never know where it will land.

    I had a douchebag newagey xcousin who once said to me: you're gay because you didn't stay dead long enough before reincarnating to come back as a heterosexual. These people will say fucking anything to try and maintain their self proclaimed dominance or to justify their shame. Sorry for being so blunt but you need to see that about your dad. He might be a good guy in many respects but he completely disrespected you by sending that atrocious letter.

    I don't know how you handle it. I don't know your relationship. If he is Hindu, just guessing, maybe send him some material in that regard.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_topics_and_Hinduism

    Good luck man. This seems to happen in every religion.
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    Dec 25, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    lol,reincarnation is more like mythology without proven facts,but most of these reincarnation stories are about karma,atonement,to bear sorrow from the past life,so as long as u r not committed crime then u r fine,oh and dump this conversion junk.U r better then this.
  • sonuus

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    Dec 25, 2012 3:49 PM GMT
    theantijock saidLet's review what your father thinks of being gay, shall we?

    Here's what he sent to you: "During the past life visitation she experienced trauma by a man. She was raped and brutally murdered. She experienced that she was blaming herself for what happened. She didn't want her parents to be blamed and so committed suicide."

    So being gay is like being traumatized by a man, being raped, brutally murdered and then, as if being brutally murdered wasn't bad enough, you then somehow commit suicide because you are gay and apparently already dead by brutality.

    Look, the guy's got some serious issues here and this is nothing you're going to change overnight. When these people take these weird concepts to justify their superiority complexes or whatever it is they are dealing with, you never know where it will land.

    I had a douchebag newagey xcousin who once said to me: you're gay because you didn't stay dead long enough before reincarnating to come back as a heterosexual. These people will say fucking anything to try and maintain their self proclaimed dominance or to justify their shame. Sorry for being so blunt but you need to see that about your dad. He might be a good guy in many respects but he completely disrespected you by sending that atrocious letter.

    I don't know how you handle it. I don't know your relationship. If he is Hindu, just guessing, maybe send him some material in that regard.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_topics_and_Hinduism

    Good luck man. This seems to happen in every religion.


    Thanks for the wiki link, nice enlightenment...
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    Dec 25, 2012 3:55 PM GMT
    Hmm....your Dad is not thinking this through to its possible conclusion. If regressing can influence you in his life so much that you turn straight, suppose in that past life you also hated your father?

    Perhaps try to explain to him that attempting to change you from gay to straight is like trying to change skin or eye colour.
  • hanzo83

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    Dec 27, 2012 2:28 AM GMT
    I would be mad as hell if my daddy sent me an email like that. I'm sure our sexuality is a permanent thing that's been decided since before we were born. Nobody should want to change it especially to please other bigoted people.
  • Webster666

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    Dec 27, 2012 2:54 AM GMT
    Your father is wrong.
    There is absolutely ZERO scientific or medical proof that your sexual orientation can be chosen or changed.

    We are born the way we are.
    You can't choose who you're sexually attracted to.

    Ask your father how successful he thinks it would be if HE went for past life regression therapy to change HIS sexual orientation from straight to gay ?

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    Dec 27, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    I tried to not accept myself but slowly you have to learn to accept yourself for who you are. I think the best way is to let your dad know that you are comfortable with who you are and you love him no matter what. You are an adult and you have to the right to live how you want to live. If it is true that you are going to hell because you are gay then so be it. You make the decision. All you can do is enjoy the love that you have for this life. Death can come any moments. We are not 100% sure if God, Heaven, or hell even exits.

    One thing we do have for sure is this moment.
    Feel the love and feel the passion you have.
  • vj2004t

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    Dec 27, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    Well for one thing it doesn't work. I had a therapist pull that crap on me I dropped him real fast. I tried playing the straight game and married a woman and finally divorced. Check out the two books in my profile. "The people pleasing syndrome" and christany, social tolerance, & homosexuality" really helped me a lot..Val Parents mean well but sometimes just don't get it all they know and understand. Good luck
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    Dec 27, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    sonuus saidMy Father just sent me below quoted article,
    He wants me to go for a past life regression session to change my sexual orientation and become straight, I love my Father but I am not sure how should I reply to him back?

    ArticleJust read the following case. Miracles are possible in one's life. You may be one of them.
    Shape Shifting – a Soul Phenomena
    There are times when after all these years I still get overawed by some cases. It reaffirms the fact that our consciousness operates in ways that the human brain cannot comprehend. One such case is of shape shifting.
    This phenomenon is seen especially in people who have an altered sexual preference.
    A 24 year old female pilot came to see me in 2010 after the popular show based on past life therapy. I will call her Annie. She came to see me from New york. Her parents told me that Annie was refusing to get married. She had informed them about her alternate sexual preference. She was attracted to women. This had devastated her parents.
    She was keen to know more about her -self and so came willingly for her session. Being the only child she was pained by her parent’s grief.
    During the past life visitation she experienced trauma by a man. She was raped and brutally murdered. She experienced that she was blaming herself for what happened. She didn't want her parents to be blamed and so committed suicide. During the session Annie cried so bitterly that a complete catharsis healed her. I didn't know what to expect about her turn around in her sexual preference so I suggested that she wait for a few months to see the change.
    3 months later Annies mother called. She sounded happy. She informed me that she had observed that Annie was dressing differently. Annie had pierced her ears and wore earrings. Annie had started wearing skirts and also grown her hair till her shoulder. She was happy with the change. I asked her to get Annie for another session. Annie came in a month later and when she walked in I saw her body shape had developed curves. She was swinging her hips and her smile was shy and sweet. Annie was unsure about the change but asserted that she felt different in her body.
    After the second session she called me and shared that she had gone to a disco with her friends and a young good looking boy had approached her to dance. She blushed and felt embarrassed an emotion she had never felt. She says she is open to the idea of marriage.
    I realized that the shape shifting phenomena is not a myth- It is for real.



    Good evening.

    Go to astro.com and do your chart for free.

    Learn to accept yourself after understanding your natal chart.

    Can you become more fatherly like your dad and less single gay? The astrological answer is possibly. Jim Lewis was a major contributor to locational astrology. His approach is called Astro-Carto-Graphy. Let's say, if you lived under a Venus line, your homosexuality would be about beauty and art. If you lived under a North Node line, you would fulfill your life's purpose. If you lived under a Sun line, you would have the best energies to become a patriarch/fatherly.

    Spirit is not just about get born, live, die. It's also about using locational astrology to get away from astrological danger and stagnation. If you're rich enough, every seven years or whatever timeframe you want to work with, experience the different astrological energies available to you in this incarnation.

    I moved from being under a Venus line where my artistic experience of life was truly amazing. Now, I'm living under a Saturn line where the beauty of Venus is not here. Saturn is about aging and becoming impoverished. Last Saturday, I visited my aging father in a home. His feeding tube to his side was not connected. It was forgotten, hanging on the side of the pole. It was leaking onto the carpet. My dad is quite frail and thin. To starve a frail and thin man while his wife pays more than $3,000 a month out of her own savings (for her own reasons I'm not going into, except to say Medicaid is often setup to take all the assets from one who gets tied up with it)--it's what people have to deal with.

    Well, visiting with my father was coming to an end. He can't move himself in the bed. I grabbed him and centered him in the bed. I saw a tan spot on his sheets. The person who had come in to connect the feeding tube, relieving me of my stress, did not successfully connect it. So, as when I was a kid who had wet his bed, perhaps on average with other little boys, I empathized with my father's wet bed, and with determination, went to get help again.

    Nothing like this would have happened when living under a Venus line.

    The art and the music in my life is quite lowered. Issues of becoming poor in health and wealth is turned up.

    So, when I tell you, what's true for the two solar system objects I've experienced, finding a line under other solar system objects can make a difference in how your sexuality is manifested, believe me.

    It takes a year or so for the changes to take effect.

    It's quite real. There's a difference between having Venus energy and experiencing same-sex attraction vs. having Saturn energy and having wisdom of aging, losing health, wealth, and fun as the gift for sexual attraction.

    I know some things about past life regression. "He wants [you] to go for past life regression to change your sexual orientation and become straight."

    There is a chance that your current incarnation game-plan does not need that. The hetero-centrism of your father has a chance of being immoral; and, if you go through with it, you'd ruin your current incarnation, to the regret of your spirit which spans multiple incarnations.

    Peace, wisdom, purpose, and love,
    Steve