Getting hit on by the help at parent's house!!

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    Dec 25, 2012 6:48 AM GMT
    So i'm back in India to visit my parents and ended up in a weird situation. I haven't been back here in 2 years. There is a 20 yo guy who helps them out around the house. He's worked for them for a few years and I've known him from my previous travels back. He's always been exceptionally sweet and extra happy to see me but I've never made much of it. This time is a LOT different. He told me he misses me a lot and always inquires about me to my parents about how I'm doing in the states. He also tried asking me if I had a girlfriend or if I was living with someone. He said you are so handsome you can't be alone. I was a little uncomfortable with it but again didn't make much of it since even straight men in India aren't afraid to pay complements to other men.

    Yesterday he insisted on giving me a foot rub. He gives one regularly to my dad so I reluctantly agreed, esp since i was still sore from the 19hr flight here. The foot rub proceeded to a full on massage (not nude but he pulled my shirt up and stuff). I then turned around and he did the front and almost tried giving me a happy ending a the end. I had to shut him down. It was very weird! i'm not out to my family and i'm not sure he is either. Its not very common for men to be openly gay here.

    He tried to give me another massage today before leaving and suggested we move to another room which was more secluded. I again had to awkwardly decline.

    I still have another 11 days here! The thing I was most worried about this trip was my parents excessively forcing me to talk about marriage and me having to come out to them. Was not even expecting this curve ball thrown at me icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 25, 2012 7:29 AM GMT
    what would you do? anyone else having an awkward family reunion for the holidays?
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    Dec 25, 2012 8:21 AM GMT
    I'm sorry, I don't understand why you aren't fucking him right now.
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    Dec 25, 2012 8:26 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidI'm sorry, I don't understand why you aren't fucking him right now.


    Besides not being out to my family, I'm not going to fuck anyone in their house lol
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    Dec 25, 2012 8:28 AM GMT
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    Dec 25, 2012 9:39 AM GMT
    Come out, come out, wherever you are...
  • jackthejock

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    Dec 25, 2012 9:55 AM GMT
    you're a really sexy guy, so if you think he's hot then hit that while you can, if you don't think he is hot then there really isn't much of an issue
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    Dec 25, 2012 11:43 AM GMT
    oh op just fuck the shit out of him already,u know u want it.
  • rnch

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    Dec 25, 2012 2:29 PM GMT
    beeeez da OP braggin'....or beeez he complainin' icon_question.gif





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  • HottJoe

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    Dec 25, 2012 2:46 PM GMT
    I wish I had that problem. My feet hurt, because I work for a living. I guess being closeted is tough, even if you are being waited on by willing sex slaves, but still....icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 25, 2012 4:35 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI wish I had that problem. My feet hurt, because I work for a living. I guess being closeted is tough, even if you are being waited on by willing sex slaves, but still....icon_confused.gif


    rofl if only I could find one back in the states. Now that would be the life haha
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    Gay or not, who WOULDN'T want to give you a massage?!
  • rnch

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    Dec 25, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    smudgetool saidGay or not, who WOULDN'T want to give you a massage?!





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    Dec 25, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    I wish someone would rub MY feet.
  • ohioguy12

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    Dec 25, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    I like the term "the help"
  • FireDoor211

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    Dec 25, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    Don't they murder homosexuals in India? Or is it just a huge no no?
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    Damn wish I could give you a foot job icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
    FireDoor211 saidDon't they murder homosexuals in India? Or is it just a huge no no?

    No,not in fashion these days.
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:43 PM GMT
    smudgetool saidGay or not, who WOULDN'T want to give you a massage?!


    LOL, this. icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:43 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidI like the term "the help"


    QFE
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    Dec 25, 2012 5:56 PM GMT
    hairymusclejock saidGetting hit on by the help at parent's house!!
    And you didn't get laid?

    You're doing it wrong.
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    Dec 25, 2012 6:10 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    hairymusclejock saidGetting hit on by the help at parent's house!!
    And you didn't get laid?

    You're doing it wrong.


    So true Paul!

    Send the parents out for a walk. Get your groove on.
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    Dec 25, 2012 6:19 PM GMT
    I say leave it be, could turn into a big mess. Get lots of tail when you get back and beat off in the meantime. He would ask about you more to your parents if anything happened and could cause problems at home because of the situation you are in. You want to come out to them on your own terms and not because some young guy makes innuendos. Just MO
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    Dec 25, 2012 6:19 PM GMT
    Do you know how long the poor guy's been waiting for you to get back? It's probably been torture for him. You owe him a nice Christmas present. ;)
  • Kel_

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    Dec 25, 2012 6:19 PM GMT
    He wants teh buttsecks!
    lol


    But it's totally understandable why you felt the way you did at the time. Hell, I would too!
    And look at it this way, what-if something did happen... then what? He might just be trying to out you and use this as a mean to blackmail you. Hey, it could happen!

    Also, I noticed something... you said you aren't out to your family yet?
    I read in your profile that you, "Just came out to family in the beginning of july 2011." hm... could you explain?