Penis Size

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    Dec 26, 2012 7:56 AM GMT
    I want honesty here. I have a 5.5 incher when erect, and I have always been self-conscious about my size. I haven't dated much. I am not sure if my fears of being rejected are real or if everything is just in my head. I feel like I would be mostly bottom, but maybe top once in a blue moon.

    I guess the questions are 1) Would you guys honestly date someone with a 5 incher? 2) Is 5 inches a turn off for you?

    Feel like a troll for asking this, but regardless of the answers here, good or bad, I feel like I need to express how I feel in hopes of coping with my lifelong dilemma.

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    Dec 26, 2012 8:07 AM GMT
    Hate to tell you this, but being in the same situation as you are, based on my experience, I have to figure, yes it is a turn-off. A lot of guys will hook-up based on body pics, but when they realize that I basically have a Vienna sausage of a dick, they never come back.

    Interestingly, with all of these men, I exude sexual confidence, never say or do anything negative or offensive, and as far as hook-ups turning into a regular fuck-buddy or even a BF type situation, I would have to guess that, yes, size does matter. Or rather, a lack of size will be a huge strike against you.
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    Dec 26, 2012 8:08 AM GMT
    Even though it's not very big, it's not a turn off (for me at least).

    Be confident either way. . .

    No need to go out and get a big truck to overcompensate. . . .
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    Dec 26, 2012 8:10 AM GMT
    NOT a turn off....besides 5 is in the actual "normal" range. The man makes the dick, not the other way around.......some self confidence and skills with foreplay, and toys and having a personality and being honest, etc......are all sexy.....but then I am older, and maybe not as picky or shallow as some may be......so pick and market yourself to the guys into dicks of your size and your style of top/bottom, and play safe!icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 26, 2012 8:14 AM GMT
    Yeah, it's more like 5.5", but I feel like it's not normal. Then again, I basically have no real life experience with 'normal/average' guys. Most of the dicks that I've seen are in porn. Probably my first problem.
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    Dec 26, 2012 8:27 AM GMT
    I'll be honest, I love big cars but if they don't drive smoothly, it ruins the whole image for me....in other words, I'm more of a motion person who also likes size. Size is really nice but some guys have it and some guys don't. It's what you do with it that really matters in the long run.


    Hmmm I'll put it this way: if you make me moan and make my eyes roll back, you've done your job icon_lol.gif
  • Angelix90

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    Dec 26, 2012 8:34 AM GMT
    It's not the length that matters, it's the girth.

    Besides, penis size is irrelevant if he's a huge asshole.
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    Dec 26, 2012 8:37 AM GMT
    I guess that I should ask if penis size matters to tops because I don't see myself toping very often, it's just not my disposition.
  • TheBizMan

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    Dec 26, 2012 8:39 AM GMT
    Angelix90 saidIt's not the length that matters, it's the girth.


    But no one likes a chode..
  • Angelix90

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    Dec 26, 2012 8:47 AM GMT
    TheBizMan said
    Angelix90 saidIt's not the length that matters, it's the girth.


    But no one likes a chode..


    Chode is like an unicorn; nobody seen it in real life, but rumour has it that it can spear the shit out of you.
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    Dec 26, 2012 9:00 AM GMT

    this ole topic again, here is a fun interactive website for sizing and comparing, where DO they find these guys for porn since the average size is 5.5" camera angles and all?, it seems to be pretty acurate when you do the "side view", i like the condom studies you can compare to, they do run a bit small, except maybe the Durex brand


    have fun "resizing it"

    http://thevisualiser.net/sizer
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    Dec 26, 2012 10:39 AM GMT
    Well.. I don't like giving head to a mini... If my eyes don't wanted you ain't gonna cut it.

    But I mostly top so I could care less

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    Dec 26, 2012 11:03 AM GMT
    "Suck my big, fat cock, " he tells me. "You like that big dick?"

    I am dizzy. I am literally dizzy. I was so shocked to encounter the micropenis and now am even more shocked to encounter the apparent lack of knowledge about the micropenis. I grip it in my hand, and it's lost, so I use my thumb and index finger to jerk it.

    "Yeah, " he says. "Yeah, man, stroke that long, hard cock. Work it."

    ― Augusten Burroughs, Magical Thinking: True Stories

    Funny story that seems true. He's dealing with this guy with a 3-inch dick and a VERY BIG EGO.


    IMO, dick size doesn't matter. Just don't be delusional.

    OP, you sound modest. That's appealing in itself.
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    Dec 26, 2012 11:07 AM GMT
    i dont really care about dick size , the biggest issues are how handsome , funny and ripped he is . if hes handsome funny and ripped i wouldnt mind bottoming him even if he was 0.5 inchs. nah 4inchs is the minimum lol .
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    Dec 26, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    GeorgeLifts said"Suck my big, fat cock, " he tells me. "You like that big dick?"

    I am dizzy. I am literally dizzy. I was so shocked to encounter the micropenis and now am even more shocked to encounter the apparent lack of knowledge about the micropenis. I grip it in my hand, and it's lost, so I use my thumb and index finger to jerk it.

    "Yeah, " he says. "Yeah, man, stroke that long, hard cock. Work it."

    ― Augusten Burroughs, Magical Thinking: True Stories

    Funny story that seems true. He's dealing with this guy with a 3-inch dick and a VERY BIG EGO.


    IMO, dick size doesn't matter. Just don't be delusional.

    OP, you sound modest. That's appealing in itself.


    hahahahahaha

    I'd say "WHAT big dick? all I see are balls!" icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 26, 2012 5:13 PM GMT
    Try being rejected by your dream guy for being too big.


    Feels bad man icon_cry.gif
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    Dec 26, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN saidTry being rejected by your dream guy for being too big.


    Feels bad man icon_cry.gif


    Too big? Lol that has never happened to me.
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    Dec 26, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    Hey OP!

    I honestly, wonder that same question all the time. I'm actually 6' erect, and I have no clue where I stand on the "range" so I think I'm small because of all the porn. I'm kind of glad to see I'm not the smallest guy out there. But, I still have the assumption that every guy I'll meet will have an 8 inch hung race horse and is looking for the same.

    The last guy I slept with was hung and I don't bottom often so when I did, it was hard to take in. It took him a good 5 minutes to get it in because I was so tight, and when he did get it in, it hurt. I thought the casual anal play from time to time would have helped, but it didn't. I really liked the guy and I enjoyed it by the end, but I could not get hard while he was pounding me. I would have probably really gotten into it and enjoyed it more if he was more like a banana and less like a zuchini.
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    Dec 26, 2012 6:04 PM GMT
    Thanks for the responses everyone.
  • EJ994

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    Dec 27, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    Nah you are fine!icon_biggrin.gif IMO I'm fine with anything that's 4 inches and up so long it isn't too huge. You are average size, and so am I. I consider 6 and up to be big but I've met dudes who say 6-7 was just average for them and they've seen many 8-9 inchers icon_eek.gif

    I will say though that bigger cocks are really nice to look at, but besides that IMO they can be a hindrance unless the owner knows how to use it. I once tried to do anal with a guy who was like 5.8 or so. That alone took forever icon_redface.gifbecause it was so tight back there and after that experience I think 5 inches is more than enough for me. Especially if its thick.
  • Doodles

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    Dec 27, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    5.5 is totally fine and within the average. I think that if a guy likes you for.. well you, then penis size shouldn't be a big issue at all. Though I suppose it will be impossible to weed out some shallow people who really care about size icon_neutral.gif

    I'll also agree with posts above and say a bigger penis is fun to look at, but personally it may be difficult to handle/more painful.
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    Dec 27, 2012 7:17 AM GMT
    Top here. I could care less about penis size. I just like a nice ass. Average size penis is a turn on for me.
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    Dec 27, 2012 8:24 AM GMT
    Doodles said5.5 is totally fine and within the average. I think that if a guy likes you for.. well you, then penis size shouldn't be a big issue at all. Though I suppose it will be impossible to weed out some shallow people who really care about size icon_neutral.gif

    I'll also agree with posts above and say a bigger penis is fun to look at, but personally it may be difficult to handle/more painful.


    Actually, that reminds me of a time I used to hook up with a guy who had a smaller penis but still big enough. I used to be able to get that whole thing in my mouth and suck him without gagging which was good for him AND good for me. I guess in some cases less is more, but on the other hand, the micropenis situation is not very attractive.
  • GAYBIGMACHODU...

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    Jan 02, 2016 3:37 AM GMT
    What is the average dick size for american guys and grown up
    american men?
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    Jan 02, 2016 5:08 AM GMT
    As a top I could care less. If I ever wanted to bottom I would only do it with a guy that was not huge .