no str8 man would do this right?

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    Sep 18, 2008 4:29 PM GMT
    my roommate has this dude sleep over a lot in his bed! we have a futon, so if the guy wanted to crash he could just go there. but, no they share the bed together.

    i asked him this morning if they were together and he said "no we are just good friends" but seriously what straight guys would share a bed together especially when there is another available 10 feet away?

    hmmmm, something is up, i'm nosey and wanna know if im the only fag in this place.
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    Sep 18, 2008 4:31 PM GMT
    plenty of guys i know do it.......... but there aren't any available beds for sleeping in in those situations.....
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    Sep 18, 2008 4:46 PM GMT
    I would be very surprised to hear of any of my straight male friends ever having done that.
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    Sep 18, 2008 4:50 PM GMT
    Hmmm....when there's another bed available? That has sheets and blankets? And isn't covered in dog hair or something? Yeahhh......interesting. Inconclusive but interesting...
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    Sep 18, 2008 4:53 PM GMT
    Yeah, and if it's 10pm and he's claiming that his boner is "morning wood," be concerned...he may not be straight. Lol
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    Sep 18, 2008 4:54 PM GMT
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    I smell a homo!
  • SanEsteban

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    Sep 18, 2008 4:55 PM GMT
    I have straight friends who have done that too. It is really no big deal... it is just sleeping. A regular bed would be more comfortable than a futon too. Heck, straight friends have shared a bed with me too and you would think that would be even more weird for them! They are comfortable with me and they know and understand that we are friends and nothing would happen. My good straight friends are like brothers to me - You just don't go there.
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    Sep 18, 2008 4:57 PM GMT
    One thing really cool about dating some young guys is their freedom of confining relationship stereo types. They are cool with expressing their love with, whomever in whatever form that takes. When guys my age say they are gay they say it like it is disease ..with way too much nasty, confining baggage associated with it.
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    Sep 18, 2008 4:59 PM GMT
    Lol why always the fascination with the...but the other guy sure is interested in gay sex. I shared a doublebed or tent with 2 or 3 of my straight friends on trips and what a surprise they didn't wanna have sex they just snored the night through feeling safe. Thank god for rohypnol.icon_twisted.gif wishful thinking keeps you sinking....
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    Sep 18, 2008 5:00 PM GMT
    Sidebar: This thread topic reminds me of a good friend of mine who's a girl and straight. Well, while she was having a little raunchy sex with a guy, in the middle of the passion he said "...i didn't know girls would do that...!". Red flags went off with her that there was more going on with this guy than she'd thought. ( I said I thought so too. -lol)
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    Sep 18, 2008 5:06 PM GMT
    Maybe they wanted to share body-warmth, or he had a cold/flu because studies show that sleeping in close proximity to another person speeds up the healing process. Those are the excuses I use, anyway.
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    Sep 18, 2008 5:15 PM GMT
    So, basically, this is the gay version of a witch hunt? Why should you care what to full grown men do together on there own time?

    Isn't this exactly what gays guys want want the rest of society to see it? How can you expect one thing but hold another to a different standard? icon_confused.gif
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    Sep 18, 2008 5:22 PM GMT
    I have friends that do that all the time. They aren't gay. Simple answer is: bed is just more comfortable. You don't have to be gay to share a bed with someone. Come on.
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    Sep 18, 2008 5:39 PM GMT
    I've slept in beds a few times with straight friends - or teammates - for instance on ski trips or on vacations where only one bed might be available in a house or hotel. As much as I might have wanted something to happen, straight friends get about as much of a charge sleeping with me as I do sleeping next to my dogs!
  • DuggerPDX

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    Sep 18, 2008 6:08 PM GMT
    When I was in my early 20's and not out yet my best friend and I would always crash in the same bed (king size) if we were at my house and we had too much to drink and he couldn't drive home. Nothing ever happened, and I'm not sure I would have wanted anything to happen, he wasn't my type. We didn't keep a secret, his girl friend knew about and it and it was no big deal. I often wonder what he thought after I came out.
  • EricLA

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    Sep 18, 2008 6:12 PM GMT
    Yeah, how big is the bed???

    I want straight friends like that, too...
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    Sep 18, 2008 7:20 PM GMT
    Well I have slept in the same bed as many of my str8 mates over the years. Tents and hotel rooms too. Nothing ever come to pass. Foe the ones whom pretended to be str8, but where really bi. We did not need a bed, nor a bedroom for anything to start.

    I have also slept with str8 girls before, and one dyke. Nothing ever happened there either. yet some people wanted to think it had. Even after I told em. I'm a fag. People will think what ever "they" want too.

    Anyhow. If they did get off, whats it to ya. Why are gay people soooooooo obsessed with other peoples sexuality? You don't see str8s fussing over if another is str8!
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    Sep 18, 2008 7:46 PM GMT
    MMHMMM!!! IF YOUR GAYDAR STARTS GOING UP EVEN BY A CENTIMETER, SOMETHIN SOMETHIN'S HAPPENIN! I would start droppin subtle hints whenever this guy's around(without your roomie). If youre wrong, nothing lost. But if youre right...Im just sayin...mmhhmm...icon_cool.gif Let us know how it goes, you know we love gossip here, LOL!!!
  • ASH557

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    Sep 18, 2008 8:00 PM GMT
    You've got some more investigating to do. Investigate!

    x
  • Fusion98102

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    Sep 18, 2008 8:36 PM GMT
    Well, I have heard and seen everything. How well do you know your roommate? Would he have reason to lie to you? Are you out in the house? There are alot of things that could affect his answer, but chances are he is just telling the truth. That's the simplest explanation!
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    Sep 18, 2008 8:51 PM GMT
    Pattison saidAnyhow. If they did get off, whats it to ya. Why are gay people soooooooo obsessed with other peoples sexuality? You don't see str8s fussing over if another is str8!


    Pussy footing around ain't allowed, that's why! He must be outed!

    CONFESS, CONFESS, CONFESS HE MUST!

    Quick, someone grab the mustard!
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    Sep 19, 2008 2:15 AM GMT
    *me grabs the Jalapeno Sauce*
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    Sep 19, 2008 2:31 AM GMT
    Pattison saidWhy are gay people soooooooo obsessed with other peoples sexuality? You don't see str8s fussing over if another is str8!


    That statement is so wrong that it gives merit to Ted Steven's "the internet is a series of tubes" analogy.
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    Sep 19, 2008 2:40 AM GMT
    I sleep in other straight guys' beds all the time. Why's this a big deal? Hell you do it when you're eight years old--it's called a "sleep-over"! icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 19, 2008 2:41 AM GMT
    Maybe they know you are gay and the friends feels safer in his bed than out on the futon. You might try to take advantage of him if he was out there by himself. icon_twisted.gif