JuneauMike saidJust wondering here. I have always thought of a "Bear" as being beefy, as in big and powerful. But many of the guys who describe themselves as bears just look fat or even morbidly obese to me. Is there an "official" definition of what a bear is? Or is it all just in the persons mind....
You can be fat, big and powerful.
You can be ripped and muscular, yet not really strong, as in able to move real heavy things.
'Just look fat' is offensive. It not because someone doesn't turns you on that you look down on him.
And yes, it's all in the person mind, and a 'one size fit all' definition for many body types.
Being muscular, is also 'one size fit all', and also just in the person mind : take the same gay with or without a thick layer of fat : ripped, he will be called muscular, even with the exact same amount of muscle mass.