"um I'm offended by paradox."
It is certainly your right to feel that way.
"He isn't hot cause he has to much body fat?"
I don't think body fat is attractive, and I'm hardly alone in that opinion. My own ~18% body fat is why I describe my physique as only average on my profile.
"way to aid in the unrealistic perfection so many people hurt themselves trying to attain."
If promotion of unrealistic ideals of bodily perfection is really an issue for you, your time and energy would be much better spent going after print media, where the audience is much larger, and the perfection is often the result of Photoshop. I'm just one guy with an opinion, hanging out on a website full of guys, most of whom, work out a hell of lot more and harder than I do, for reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with me.