Just because of age should it matter?

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    Dec 29, 2012 11:53 AM GMT
    After several hours of thinking of this subject I have came with a type of hypothesis. Assuming that your young such as myself and trying to talk to another male who's much older. That he should give you a hot just to show how in-depth you trully are. Nothing is better than being truthful and when a man catches your eye not for the outer features but for what they see past such perfection. Because when your in for just getting to know a person it takes analyzing the "the information past the cover".
    What do you all think of this? am I just knave and fooled from the real point of getting to know such a person?
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    Dec 29, 2012 11:56 AM GMT
    To give you a shot*
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    Dec 29, 2012 12:07 PM GMT
    I will assume you are making sense, but I failed to understand what you wrote.
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    Dec 29, 2012 12:16 PM GMT
    What I mean is simple I have a few typos, but nonetheless I want to know if putting much effort for someone that seems out of your league worth fighting for?
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    Dec 29, 2012 12:22 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidI will assume you are making sense, but I failed to understand what you wrote.



    This may be the issue

    Jett saidAssuming that your young such as myself
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    Dec 29, 2012 12:45 PM GMT
    Jett saidWhat I mean is simple I have a few typos, but nonetheless I want to know if putting much effort for someone that seems out of your league worth fighting for?


    What do you deem as out of your league? Age? Try giving a specific example so I or we can understand what you're getting at.
  • cromi

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    Dec 29, 2012 1:09 PM GMT
    my advise would be try once by giving him signals that you like him and if he seem uninterseted then move on. it would be a WASTE OF TIME to push through.

    ps. its really hard to take you seriously whenever i see that 11 year old boy in your profile pic lol. you look crazy young...
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    Dec 29, 2012 5:03 PM GMT
    cromi saidmy advise would be try once by giving him signals that you like him and if he seem uninterseted then move on. it would be a WASTE OF TIME to push through.

    ps. its really hard to take you seriously whenever i see that 11 year old boy in your profile pic lol. you look crazy young...


    Thanks for the advice and no just look more young when I have long hair lol sorry about this post just had a bunch of stuff going on. Thanks though! icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 29, 2012 5:17 PM GMT
    Jett saidWhat I mean is simple I have a few typos, but nonetheless I want to know if putting much effort for someone that seems out of your league worth fighting for?


    When you say out of your league, you mean this in what sense? Looks, age, experience, career, self-confidence?

    You never know what is going on in someone else's head so don't assume they're out of your league. Maybe they think you are out of their league.
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    Dec 29, 2012 5:18 PM GMT
    I suppose you can't help who you fall in love with.. However, when you say "much older," that can be 30 years old at your age.. so, what is "much older" to you? Just curious... IMO, and at my age, I'd refrain from being involved with anyone your age in an intimate relationship. Primarily because it would be awkward in social settings.. I'd just get tired of people assuming I was your father....icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 29, 2012 5:18 PM GMT
    Yes I think we need a little more specific info about what you're looking for (or hypothesizing) before we can offer any feedback.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 29, 2012 5:28 PM GMT
    You should take new pics that reflect your actual age. Your main pic honestly looks like a 12 year old to me.icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 29, 2012 6:02 PM GMT
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    Dec 29, 2012 6:03 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidI will assume you are making sense, but I failed to understand what you wrote.


    LOL
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    Dec 29, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    He's 29. Sorry again if I'm not making sense I'm just so dang confused I mean am I ugly or immature, or creepy I mean dang I'm just as confused as y'all are. icon_eek.gif
    Sorry it took so long for me to reply been at work!:/
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    Dec 29, 2012 9:50 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidYou should take new pics that reflect your actual age. Your main pic honestly looks like a 12 year old to me.icon_confused.gif


    Okay I'm really young looking I just took those pictures around thanksgiving and a few just like a week ago winter. the long hair photo is from the summer. Yes I'm going to just put up some different pics like of my abs and half naked would make me look much older right?
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    Dec 29, 2012 9:50 PM GMT
    huh?
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    Dec 29, 2012 9:52 PM GMT
    OmegaOne said1354663188_hugh-hefner-crystal-harris-46


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    Haha not that old!
    I mean I guess 29 is a bit much for me. Wow I really should've explained my situation a bit more lol
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    Dec 29, 2012 9:53 PM GMT
    Roguewave saidhuh?


    What is wrong?
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    Dec 29, 2012 10:07 PM GMT
    Global_Citizen said
    Jett saidWhat I mean is simple I have a few typos, but nonetheless I want to know if putting much effort for someone that seems out of your league worth fighting for?

    When you say out of your league, you mean this in what sense? Looks, age, experience, career, self-confidence?

    You never know what is going on in someone else's head so don't assume they're out of your league. Maybe they think you are out of their league.

    That's what I wondered, and Erik101 had a similar question.

    The euphemism I use for an unfavorable age disparity is "out of my price range" that I use for someone much younger than me (which increasingly is most everyone these days). So that as someone on the other side of the age equation the OP presents, I find it better to stick to my own age. And I'm a little suspicious of my peers who get involved with much younger guys.

    Not that it can't work, and I know it does in some cases, but at 19 I'd say date the guys you can only date when you're 19, exploiting the age you have while you still have it. You'll turn older soon enough. Then date the late 20s guys when you get into your 20s. Ten years is actually not a big spread, once you've got more years under your belt, but at 19 it might be.
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    Dec 29, 2012 10:10 PM GMT
    Yeah that true I turn 20 jan. 3rd!!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 29, 2012 10:15 PM GMT
    Jett saidYeah that true I turn 20 jan. 3rd!!icon_biggrin.gif

    Congrats! I "officially" turn 64 on January 1st - hide the sharp objects! icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 29, 2012 10:16 PM GMT
    Sorry I dont understand any of what you wrote either. What does "give you a hot" mean?
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    Dec 29, 2012 10:25 PM GMT
    I meant shot I should've waited before posting so I could've edited it
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    Dec 29, 2012 10:27 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    Jett saidYeah that true I turn 20 jan. 3rd!!icon_biggrin.gif

    Congrats! I "officially" turn 64 on January 1st - hide the sharp objects! icon_sad.gif


    Lol yay for January birthdays!!!icon_smile.gif

    Your funny lol!

    I have one more year and I will be able to go to clubs!!!icon_biggrin.gif