Are guys over 40 still hot?

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    Dec 30, 2012 10:11 PM GMT
    I was thinking that i will never find someone to like me now...not here, not now, and so i was imagining what will happen like in 20 years...im kinda scared i will go bald and ugly and like wrinkly and stuff...what is your opinion have you ever dated a older guy, are they still fun? can guys over 40 still trick mother nature?
    Sorry if i offended anyone, not my intention ...just trying to figure things out.Ty all for taking the time to read this. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 30, 2012 10:18 PM GMT
    Only some guys. But unless they hit genetic lotto or have great attitudes or heart melting selfless careers or big bank books they have to work on it. Some will never be hot no matter what.

    Why waste your youth worrying about this? Particularly since you're a med student who will eventually be "doctor hot"? (That lowers the bar.)
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    Dec 30, 2012 10:21 PM GMT
    cuz my youth is crap ...im getting used to the idea that i cant have what i want or rather who i want, im dedicating my "youth" to study and living healthy ...hope mother nature gives me some nice genes that i can keep longer lol
  • JackDoyle

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    Dec 30, 2012 10:30 PM GMT
    I'm personally attracted to older men, I dunno what it is I just find them way sexier and more masculine. but you certainly don't have anything to worry about!! you are stunning! you look like model material in some of your pics, you have really striking features
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    Dec 30, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    ty thats really nice of you icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 30, 2012 10:50 PM GMT
    Look at the profile of any man on this site that is over 40 and you will have your answer.

    (Which in case you aren't sure is Hell Yes!)

    Now, if your question becomes Are guys over 50 still hot... look at the profile of any man on this site that is over 50 and you will still have your answer.

    (Which is still Hell Yes!)

  • HottJoe

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    Dec 30, 2012 10:51 PM GMT
    To a guy in his 30s?

    FUCK YEAH!

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    Dec 30, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidTo a guy in his 30s?

    FUCK YEAH!

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    so as you grow in age you like older guys o.O? what if i like at 40 guys that are like 25 ...ill be just sad lol (bald and sad) cuz they wont like me lol
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:12 PM GMT
    Nope. It's proven science that once you turn 40 - no matter how hot you were at 39 - you instantly turn ugly as shit with no hope left for getting laid.
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 30, 2012 11:13 PM GMT
    MedGen said
    HottJoe saidTo a guy in his 30s?

    FUCK YEAH!

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    so as you grow in age you like older guys o.O? what if i like at 40 guys that are like 25 ...ill be just sad lol (bald and sad) cuz they wont like me lol


    There's no reason to be sad. At forty, you'll have gained new perspective and matured. You'll be more self aware, for better or worse. You're just confused right now because you're young, and attracted to guys your age, which makes people who aren't your age mysterious. Maybe even intimidating? That's normal. Just keep your head up and your nose clean, and you'll be fine.
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:13 PM GMT
    You may not be able to find a guy who suits you now, but I think if you expand your area you'll do okay. As a friend of mine was once advised, "There's a lot of fish in the ocean. Don't put your pole away yet."

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  • camfer

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    Dec 30, 2012 11:41 PM GMT
    Guys over 40 can be hot if they have taken care of themselves. But if they did lots of drugs, ate junk food and fast food, and didn't exercise and manage stress, they can be a wreck. So while you're squandering your youth, at least try to take good care of yourself.
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    Yes, and there are plenty of hot > 40's here to prove it.
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:45 PM GMT
    Tnx guys, hope so ....well if i ever get a guy lol ...i will never let him go icon_biggrin.gif x_X (lol that was pathetic even for me to say)icon_biggrin.gif, if not ill become a better person and someday ill have to find someone who sees something in me and viceversa icon_biggrin.gif its just that it gets lonely sometimes ...days like now are really ugly for being singe :-s and make u think about stuff.Hope you all will have a good year and ty for the advises icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:46 PM GMT
    Plenty of middle aged good looking guys out there, that have good heads on their shoulders.
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:47 PM GMT
    I fawking hope so !!!
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:47 PM GMT
    Absolutely.
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:48 PM GMT
    Ditto... More guys 20-25 yrs old hitting on me than my age or within 10yrs of my age.... and I'm waaaay up in my 40's.... not sure what that's all about but, I'm not bothered by it...not at all....
  • unicoman1

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    Dec 30, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    Oh God, I hope so.........

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    Dec 30, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    unicoman1 saidOh God, I hope so.........

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    lol funny icon_razz.gif
  • FRE0

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    Dec 30, 2012 11:53 PM GMT
    I've received comments from guys telling me that I'm hot, even though I'm past 70. Although I appreciate the comments, I sometimes wondered whether it's just flattery. At least I've proven that one can avoid turning to flab as one ages.
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:54 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI think I look better now compared to when I was in my twenties.
    you look great icon_biggrin.gif
  • Timbales

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    Dec 30, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    no, it's all fiction

    once you turn 28 you might as well be dead
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    As a youngster looking up, I can definitely say that guys over 40 are very hot. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 30, 2012 11:57 PM GMT
    I didt used to think so until I met this guy today

    http://www.realjock.com/profile?id=203970