What's worse on a first date?


  • Dec 31, 2012 9:19 PM GMT
    No physical attraction or nothing to talk about?

  • hanzo83

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    Jan 02, 2013 12:39 AM GMT
    Gregakawhiteboi saidNo physical attraction or nothing to talk about?



    Well if there's no physical attraction then there is no date for me in the first place lol. If the conversation can't just flow naturally then that's just as awful too. That's why I don't think I'll ever be interested in dating. There is too much pressure and ridiculous expectations. I would rather get to know a guy as a friend first then move onto something more.
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    Jan 02, 2013 12:42 AM GMT
    This is a question on OKCupid icon_biggrin.gif

    For me it is no physical attraction just because I have always been able to make conversation on a date even when the other person is not that talkative.
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    Jan 02, 2013 12:44 AM GMT
    nothing to talk about...because without that initial physical attraction I probably wouldn't be there in the first place.
  • LJay

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    Jan 02, 2013 12:48 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    yourname2000 said
    Gregakawhiteboi saidNo physical attraction or nothing to talk about?


    No physical attraction. If there's physical attraction, then you've got something to talk about. icon_redface.gif
    You spelled fuck wrong.


    OK, a big one on the scoreboard for Trolli!!
  • Stephan

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    Jan 02, 2013 12:48 AM GMT
    Mine, was that he never showed up for dinner, so I ate alone at the resturant.

    Later on, he called and said he fell asleep. That was the end of that!
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  • Ej101

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    Jan 02, 2013 12:53 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 saidnothing to talk about...because without that initial physical attraction I probably wouldn't be there in the first place.


    ^^ This
  • matthieu17

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    Jan 02, 2013 12:56 AM GMT
    Ej101 said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidnothing to talk about...because without that initial physical attraction I probably wouldn't be there in the first place.


    ^^ This


    Exactly...
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 02, 2013 1:18 AM GMT
    No physical attraction .. if there is no physical attraction, there really isn't anything to talk about ... it's a date
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    Jan 02, 2013 1:25 AM GMT
    being able to spark up a conversation is just as important as physical attraction to me. i don't think there would be anything as tantalizing as not being able to connect with a hot date
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    Jan 02, 2013 1:25 AM GMT
    Gregakawhiteboi saidNo physical attraction or nothing to talk about?

    If there is no physical attraction, there will be nothing to talk about.

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  • Jan 02, 2013 1:35 AM GMT
    Great question...but I can't remember too many occasions in my adult life when I couldn't find something to talk about no matter who I was with--so if there's no physical attraction, you know its not gonna go anywhere no matter what, and I would think that's worse because its a definite dead-end.

    Guys/girls can be shy/intimidated on a first date, so you can't always attribute "nothing to talk about" with there being no intellectual chemistry or somebody being dumb as a doorknob...certainly, if there's a physical attraction, it would be worth giving it another try to see if more than just physical attraction develops.
  • Immadragon_

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    Jan 02, 2013 1:54 AM GMT
    matthieu17 said
    Ej101 said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidnothing to talk about...because without that initial physical attraction I probably wouldn't be there in the first place.


    ^^ This


    Exactly...


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    Jan 02, 2013 1:57 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 saidnothing to talk about...because without that initial physical attraction I probably wouldn't be there in the first place.

    This. Why would I be on a date with someone I wasn't attracted to? icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    both
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:05 AM GMT
    There answers for both that make it fine: paper bag and ball gag
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    Roguewave saidThere answers for both that make it fine: paper bag and ball gag


    Oh my godicon_eek.gif I didnt even consider if they have too much to talk about. What if they wont shut the fuck up?
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:07 AM GMT
    Gregakawhiteboi saidNo physical attraction or nothing to talk about?



    I actually went out with a guy i met online today, WORST THING EVER, the guy barely talked and looked nervous and mad, he was kinda desperate also. He had absolutely nothing to talk about and when i talked to him, his answers were probably not even 7 words long, even though the guy was kinda attractive but his personality a TURN OFF. I actually was thinking on taking my food to go and invent an excuse to leave early.
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:08 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    Roguewave saidThere answers for both that make it fine: paper bag and ball gag


    Oh my godicon_eek.gif I didnt even consider if they have too much to talk about. What if they wont shut the fuck up?


    Read above: ball gag
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:17 AM GMT
    The WORST thing on a first date is when he hands You a brown paper bag with a still-warm handgun in it under the table and asks if You could hide it at Your place for a coupla weeks...



    To the OP:

    Nothing to talk about. A hot body and high cheek bones NEVER make up for lack of vocabulary.
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:19 AM GMT
    Cash saidThe WORST thing on a first date is when he hands You a brown paper bag with a still-warm handgun in it under the table and asks if You could hide it at Your place for a coupla weeks...



    To the OP:

    Nothing to talk about. A hot body and high cheek bones NEVER make up for lack of vocabulary.


    they iz needz learnin' afore they can meet hour hi standerds
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 02, 2013 2:19 AM GMT
    Nothing to talk about, sure the guy may be hot but that sounds like a boring date.
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:20 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said

    they iz needz learnin' afore they can meet hour hi standerds



    shitz hawt
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:20 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    RoadsterRacer87 said

    they iz needz learnin' afore they can meet hour hi standerds



    shitz hawt


    innit tho?
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    Jan 02, 2013 2:23 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said

    innit tho?


    yah