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Spidey Posts: 5
Sep 20, 2008 4:05 AM GMT
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so i'm not a very "verbal" guy sexually, and i'm just wondering...what do all you verbal and loud guys say during sex? is it just noises (ahh, yeah! fuck me! take it! etc) and moaning/grunting?

this guy i dated once, who i thought was just about perfect physically and sexually, asked me if i enjoyed having sex with him. i laughed and said of course. he said he wasn't sure because i didn't say much during sex.

i'm always too busy touching and looking and enjoying, and don't even know what i would say...

any verbal guys out there wanna share? and is it unusual that i'm more of a quiet guy sexually? if it doesn't feel right for me to do, i probably shouldn't do it, but if it turns the other guy on, i want to. thoughts? tips?
Caslon8000 Posts: 8099
Sep 20, 2008 4:12 AM GMT
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Whereas I dont think sex is the time for a conversation, I can appreciate where your friend was coming from (no pun intended). I do like hear a sigh, a moan, a small utterance of some kind as feedback that what I am doing is pleasureable. The soft sound also heightens my arousal.
Spidey Posts: 5
Sep 20, 2008 4:15 AM GMT
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Caslon7000 saidWhereas I dont think sex is the time for a conversation, I can appreciate where your friend was coming from (no pun intended). I do like hear a sigh, a moan, a small utterance of some kind as feedback that what I am doing is pleasureable. The soft sound also heightens my arousal.


oh, yeah yeah, i do moan a little with the occasional "yeah...", but i'm assuming that doesn't count as "verbal".
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Sep 20, 2008 4:33 AM GMT
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I personally don't like it when a guy doesn't say anything..no moans, no groans, no YES...I don't enjoy mute sex. To me, if the guy doesn't say anything, to me it means he may not be enjoying it or may not be that into me. Having said that, I had this fbuddy and the first few times we fooled around, he didn't utter a sound..but as time went by he started getting more and more verbal..sex with him was awesome and he was very much into me.

If you want to be more verbal, just maybe start with moans..and yes baby..or something "soft" and as time goes by and you feel more comfortable then bring out the big guns..
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Sep 20, 2008 4:34 AM GMT
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oh btw, verbal to a lot of guys means, fuck me, take it boy, you like that cock? you like that ass? etc etc etc
Caslon8000 Posts: 8099
Sep 20, 2008 4:38 AM GMT
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maverickcj_ca saidoh btw, verbal to a lot of guys means, fuck me, take it boy, you like that cock? you like that ass? etc etc etc

Does "I love your lavender scented sheets" count? .....
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Sep 20, 2008 4:43 AM GMT
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LOL...erm..he'd better not use that line with me!!
GQjock Posts: 3826
Sep 21, 2008 1:46 AM GMT
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I'm bad when it comes to sex talk

I gives me the giggles a lot of the times

Yeah Daddy... make me your piggyboy bwwaaha ha!
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2788
Sep 21, 2008 2:45 AM GMT
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Sometimes I get verbal or sometimes I simply assert how pleasurable it feels in very brief 3 worded sentences. Some guys like to be told what nasty little whores they are and some like to beg.

One time I was playing with a top and he was doing the usual verbal abuse that some tops like to say to a bottom. I turned that conversation around and told him that all he was to me was a hard cock and that's all he was good for. When he goes soft I'll still want more cock and go looking for more cuz he'll be useless. Man, that really heated him up and we got into very intense sex. He wanted to have the power and I wouldn't just hand it over to him. Guys seem to get more aggressive when there's a bit of a challenge.

I think being verbal can really intensify the situation. But I respect people's differences. I like sex all sorts of ways. It can be quiet or loud, but I never like it fast, meaning I don't want 15 minute sex. I am into endurance and working up a sweat.
Koaa2 Posts: 499
Sep 21, 2008 2:45 AM GMT
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Is a turn on for me, and sometimes I can get carried away, but never heard any complaints.

I am not sure, but I think it is something that comes natural, and if you don't mean it, will probably come off like your faking it. Not sure how you would go about learning this, if you want to, and than learning to really enjoy what your doing. Sometimes guys will till you what they want to hear, as a turn for them.

Good luck.
checkthefridg... Posts: 16
Sep 21, 2008 4:32 AM GMT
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When in doubt just say what you're thinking. If he's on his back with his legs in the air and you like it, say it. If you think he cock is especially hot, hard, etc say so. If the position you're in is a turn on, say so. Saying something like "you're so fucking hot" under your breath a little is great too. Almost as if you didn't mean for the other guy to hear it. If you're a top, questions can be good too. "you like that? what do you want me to do to you? You want it hard? etc."
Azwoody Posts: 697
Sep 21, 2008 6:54 AM GMT
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Spidey saidso i'm not a very "verbal" guy sexually, and i'm just wondering...what do all you verbal and loud guys say during sex? is it just noises (ahh, yeah! fuck me! take it! etc) and moaning/grunting?

this guy i dated once, who i thought was just about perfect physically and sexually, asked me if i enjoyed having sex with him. i laughed and said of course. he said he wasn't sure because i didn't say much during sex.

i'm always too busy touching and looking and enjoying, and don't even know what i would say...

any verbal guys out there wanna share? and is it unusual that i'm more of a quiet guy sexually? if it doesn't feel right for me to do, i probably shouldn't do it, but if it turns the other guy on, i want to. thoughts? tips?



YEAH....FUCK YEAH.....Suck my cock boy!!!

Is that verbal?
kalakaua43 Posts: 16
Sep 21, 2008 2:08 PM GMT
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"keep going, i cant believe you can do THAT, you dirty little slut boy!"
scottshard2 Posts: 9
Oct 13, 2008 10:40 PM GMT
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Depends who's doing what to whom and who's in control, but I know I groan and moan a good deal, especially if it gets the other guy even hotter. And I've found some guys really do respond amazingly to verbal encouragement--whether it's "Yeh! Take it all!" or "Give it to me harder!" I sure do.
lilTanker Posts: 1265
Oct 13, 2008 11:47 PM GMT
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muchmorethanmuscle saidOne time I was playing with a top and he was doing the usual verbal abuse that some tops like to say to a bottom. I turned that conversation around and told him that all he was to me was a hard cock and that's all he was good for. When he goes soft I'll still want more cock and go looking for more cuz he'll be useless. Man, that really heated him up and we got into very intense sex. He wanted to have the power and I wouldn't just hand it over to him. Guys seem to get more aggressive when there's a bit of a challenge.


WOW, just WOW


Umm, so.. umm..
You don't need to guy to say a word to know if they like it, there body will tell you, if you watch for it, they will breath harder, they'll want you to be physically against them, they will be touching you and them selfs, there body will do things to make it better and they'll look at your intensely or have there eyes closed and a look of pleasure on there face

You really don't need to say anything..

But a well placed moan, a few choice words... occasionally something like mmtm might say.. they can all work too!
catfish5 Posts: 26
Oct 13, 2008 11:59 PM GMT
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im extremely verbal during sex.

I say things like:

you're so damn big ( when they enter my ass if they have a really large cock)

damn your good (if he has good technique)

you're hittin it/you're hitting my sweet spot (if they hit my prostate)

nail my ass (if i want him to fuck harder)

fuck yea (if it feels good)

rip me a new one or tear my ass up (if he'd fucking me hard and it feels good)

how do you like my ass/is it tight enough for you (if he is moaning)

your fucking the cum out of me (if a lot of precum starts leaking out or i think i'm going to cum without anything touching my dick)
Timberoo Posts: 2848
Oct 14, 2008 12:06 AM GMT
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I don't make any noise, like a good Protestant.
zdrew Posts: 1960
Oct 14, 2008 12:10 AM GMT
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If the neighbors can't hear him, I'm not doing my job right.
tommysguns200... Posts: 939
Oct 15, 2008 6:16 PM GMT
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"did your mama buy you those panties?"

that always works...
BodyWork4 Posts: 782
Oct 15, 2008 6:25 PM GMT
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catfish5 saidim extremely verbal during sex.

I say things like:

you're so damn big ( when they enter my ass if they have a really large cock)

damn your good (if he has good technique)

you're hittin it/you're hitting my sweet spot (if they hit my prostate)

nail my ass (if i want him to fuck harder)

fuck yea (if it feels good)

rip me a new one or tear my ass up (if he'd fucking me hard and it feels good)

how do you like my ass/is it tight enough for you (if he is moaning)

your fucking the cum out of me (if a lot of precum starts leaking out or i think i'm going to cum without anything touching my dick)




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