Sugar Daddies

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    Jan 01, 2013 3:54 PM GMT
    Gotta go to a New Years party for rich gay old men....
    What is the consensus on "sugar daddies"?
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    Jan 01, 2013 3:58 PM GMT
    I will do whatever an older man tells me to do if he gives me sugar or a high-fructose corn syrup.
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    Jan 01, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidI will do whatever an older man tells me to do if he gives me sugar or a high-fructose corn syrup.


    That easy? I prefer raw sugar... Or sugar cane
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    Jan 01, 2013 4:52 PM GMT
    The consensus is that this question reeks of ageism.
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    Jan 01, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    I prefer sugar-free, organic, high-fiber Daddies.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    If he's cute then sure, but my hat's off to those who can "date" a living fossil just for their money.

    That being said, i'm not sure exactly what would happen if you waved a black platinum card under my nose
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    smudgetool saidThe consensus is that this question reeks of ageism.


    Hmmm... I like older folks. I am a lover of people. I don't see where I exhibited any prejudice or discrimination based on age.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:02 PM GMT
    Bombadil saidGotta go to a New Years party for rich gay old men....
    What is the consensus on "sugar daddies"?


    Fuck them, get fucked, get as many gifts as possible.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    Bombadil said
    smudgetool saidThe consensus is that this question reeks of ageism.


    Hmmm... I like older folks. I am a lover of people. I don't see where I exhibited any prejudice or discrimination based on age.


    You have a low post count, no one here really knows you and your use of words is...questionable.

    Do the math.

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    Jan 01, 2013 5:05 PM GMT

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ this icon_idea.gif

    When I was young & cute in school in Atlanta and saw allot of that. In fact, as a youngin' I had a few opportunities to get into that kind of relationship and passed.

    A relationship based on love and respect between younger and older is one thing. A relationship based on purse strings is predatory on the part of the giver and self-centered that involves a huge lack of self esteem on the part of the taker. BTW I know of a few people in that kind of arrangement where the sugar 'daddy' is younger...js.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:13 PM GMT
    Cash said
    Bombadil said
    smudgetool saidThe consensus is that this question reeks of ageism.


    Hmmm... I like older folks. I am a lover of people. I don't see where I exhibited any prejudice or discrimination based on age.


    You have a low post count, no one here really knows you and your use of words is...questionable.

    Do the math.

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    I'm terrible with word problems.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:13 PM GMT
    SomeSicilianoGuy saidA relationship based on purse strings is predatory on the part of the giver and self-centered that involves a huge lack of self esteem on the part of the taker. BTW I know of a few people in that kind of arrangement where the sugar 'daddy' is younger...js.

    Ugh like tha cash slave/human ATM fetish. That totally disgusts me. And this coming from someone who likes the idea of being used sexually. Not sexual or romantic at all. Just compromising desires for wealth.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:36 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidHaving someone love you for your money is as bad as someone loving you for your looks. It's better to find someone you have things in common with and enjoys spending time with you..


    ^^ this

    Period.

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    Jan 01, 2013 5:36 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidHaving someone love you for your money is as bad as someone loving you for your looks. It's better to find someone you have things in common with and enjoys spending time with you.. Not your wallet or lack there of.

    I'd never want a sugar daddy that I was not in love with. I'm too much of a romantic for that. Friends with money that want to buy dinner is one thing.. but putting out for dinner is kinda gross if you ask me.

    Now,, if you fall in love with a guy and he's well off and mentally stable that's one thing... but the minute he acts like the one with the money and everything balances on that.. it's time to say bye-bye.

    I'd rather be alone than feel owned.


    Oh GREAT...now I have to find someone who is mentally stable?!!??!?!?!?!

    UGH...this is just getting too complicated...

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    Jan 01, 2013 5:38 PM GMT
    Seriously, I would feel bad about myself every time he paid. Even if I was broke, I'd do my best to minimize what I cost him.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:40 PM GMT
    If u are in love and physically attracted ..... Who cares?
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:44 PM GMT
    AlexanderVirgo saidIf u are in love and physically attracted ..... Who cares?


    That is not what the OP is talking about.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:48 PM GMT
    Gee I did not realize this was a real issue. I do not know anyone with a sugar daddy/momma and I (falsely) assumed it was not a real issue. You don't have to forgive my ignorance but I see it may be a more substantial issue than I thought.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:48 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    I'd rather be alone than feel owned.


    I can't help but agree.
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:49 PM GMT
    Cash said
    TheGuyNextDoor saidHaving someone love you for your money is as bad as someone loving you for your looks. It's better to find someone you have things in common with and enjoys spending time with you.. Not your wallet or lack there of.

    I'd never want a sugar daddy that I was not in love with. I'm too much of a romantic for that. Friends with money that want to buy dinner is one thing.. but putting out for dinner is kinda gross if you ask me.

    Now,, if you fall in love with a guy and he's well off and mentally stable that's one thing... but the minute he acts like the one with the money and everything balances on that.. it's time to say bye-bye.

    I'd rather be alone than feel owned.


    Oh GREAT...now I have to find someone who is mentally stable?!!??!?!?!?!

    UGH...this is just geting to complicated...

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    this is part of why I've consciously been single for at least this long. I know I'm not stable enough for another person >.<;
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:50 PM GMT


    Yes... not all guys in a relationship that have the bigger wallet are the elder.
    Marry for love and not money. Make your own money and share with your partner what you both have.
    Never worry about who makes more. Worry about loving your man the right way.
    D E E P L Y.
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    Thank you sir
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:51 PM GMT
    stratavos said
    Cash said
    TheGuyNextDoor saidHaving someone love you for your money is as bad as someone loving you for your looks. It's better to find someone you have things in common with and enjoys spending time with you.. Not your wallet or lack there of.

    I'd never want a sugar daddy that I was not in love with. I'm too much of a romantic for that. Friends with money that want to buy dinner is one thing.. but putting out for dinner is kinda gross if you ask me.

    Now,, if you fall in love with a guy and he's well off and mentally stable that's one thing... but the minute he acts like the one with the money and everything balances on that.. it's time to say bye-bye.

    I'd rather be alone than feel owned.


    Oh GREAT...now I have to find someone who is mentally stable?!!??!?!?!?!

    UGH...this is just geting to complicated...

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    this is part of why I've consciously been single for at least this long. I know I'm not stable enough for another person >.<;


    you're not alone in that, lol
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    Jan 01, 2013 5:55 PM GMT
    I prefer Truvia-daddies.
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    Jan 01, 2013 6:09 PM GMT
    Tell em Tamar.....
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    Jan 01, 2013 6:16 PM GMT
    Cash said
    Bombadil said
    smudgetool saidThe consensus is that this question reeks of ageism.


    Hmmm... I like older folks. I am a lover of people. I don't see where I exhibited any prejudice or discrimination based on age.


    You have a low post count, no one here really knows you and your use of words is...questionable.

    Do the math.

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    I have to agree with Cash on this one.
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