And my New Years resolution is....

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 02, 2013 5:09 AM GMT
    So I have decided to make 2013 the year of ME!!! Well that sounds sort of selfish doesn't it?!?! But not really. I'm doing it for my own good.

    I have spent too many years searching for someone else and have nothing to show for it. And while I certainly am enjoying life I believe this focus on finding love has hindered me in other areas. So no more. No more feeling sorry for myself that I don't have a man. No more constant searching. No more.

    Instead I plan to have 5 focus area

    1. Focus on fitness: While I have been working out for over 5 years now I plan to kick it up a notch and get in the best shape of my life. My goal is to get stronger and bigger.

    2. Focus on family: Both my parents are still alive and I have a brother and 2 nephews, and a niece. I want to spend more time with them. Family is the most important thing we all have and I don't want to look back and say I wish I had spent more time.

    3. Focus on friends: I have neglected some friendships in my conquest to find love. That's not right and I want be the type of friend that anyone would love to have.

    4. Focus on career: Not to toot my own horn but I am a smart guy. I know I could be doing more and instead of being complacent I need to push myself in order to grow.

    5. Focus on traveling: I would like to take at least one trip per month. IT could be across the country or could be just down the road. It could only be for a day. It could be for a week. Either way I want to do this more often with or without company.

    So that's it. Those are my focus areas for the new year.

    Happy 2013!!!!
  • MikeW

    Posts: 6061

    Jan 02, 2013 5:27 AM GMT
    sounds like a great plan! icon_smile.gif wish you the best ever!!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 02, 2013 5:30 AM GMT
    Sounds like a LIFE plan, you are on your way!
  • RaggedyMan

    Posts: 7185

    Jan 02, 2013 5:34 AM GMT
    I'm stealing this icon_smile.gif good luck!
  • TheAlchemixt

    Posts: 2294

    Jan 02, 2013 5:54 AM GMT
    Yeah, I think you should do these things for the rest of you life! Life goals!!!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 02, 2013 7:33 AM GMT
    • work out (again)
    • eat more, gain weight
    • stop smoking
    • volunteer someplace
    • plan a trip home to see family soon
    • take the Mensa test
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 02, 2013 12:27 PM GMT
    princeofnash saidSo I have decided to make 2013 the year of ME!!! Well that sounds sort of selfish doesn't it?!?! But not really. I'm doing it for my own good.

    I have spent too many years searching for someone else and have nothing to show for it. And while I certainly am enjoying life I believe this focus on finding love has hindered me in other areas. So no more. No more feeling sorry for myself that I don't have a man. No more constant searching. No more.

    Instead I plan to have 5 focus area

    1. Focus on fitness: While I have been working out for over 5 years now I plan to kick it up a notch and get in the best shape of my life. My goal is to get stronger and bigger.

    2. Focus on family: Both my parents are still alive and I have a brother and 2 nephews, and a niece. I want to spend more time with them. Family is the most important thing we all have and I don't want to look back and say I wish I had spent more time.

    3. Focus on friends: I have neglected some friendships in my conquest to find love. That's not right and I want be the type of friend that anyone would love to have.

    4. Focus on career: Not to toot my own horn but I am a smart guy. I know I could be doing more and instead of being complacent I need to push myself in order to grow.

    5. Focus on traveling: I would like to take at least one trip per month. IT could be across the country or could be just down the road. It could only be for a day. It could be for a week. Either way I want to do this more often with or without company.

    So that's it. Those are my focus areas for the new year.

    Happy 2013!!!!


    Do these, and my guess is you'll have a guy by mid-summer! This kind of stuff is HOT!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 02, 2013 7:41 PM GMT
    Thanks for the positive comments guys.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 02, 2013 11:45 PM GMT
    To be the person that I used to be... icon_biggrin.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 03, 2013 3:25 AM GMT
    All good ideas and maybe you will find love where u least expect it!