To young to settle down?

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    Jan 02, 2013 6:45 PM GMT

    Everytime I say to my older gay friends that I think I wanna settle down they get annoyed and tell me that im crazy and that I should have as much fun (sex) as I can till im 30 before even considering it. I mean I dont mind doing that but then again I like the Idea of being young commited and in lurrve.Yeah pretty cheesy I know =P


    Idk.. what do you think? When should a Gay man consider settling down and being commited?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 02, 2013 6:53 PM GMT
    B2313 said
    Idk.. what do you think? When should a Gay man consider settling down and being commited?


    When he meets the right guy.
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    Jan 02, 2013 6:59 PM GMT
    Hey many straight guys your age are settling down. If thats what you want go for it.
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    dude, just go one dates, have boyfriends until u meet the one....that one where u dont want them to go anywhere and u want them around. Unitl u feel like u met the guy that'll make u happy. Could happen at 21, 31, 41, never. who knows.
  • MikeW

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    Jan 02, 2013 8:54 PM GMT
    Import saiddude, just go one dates, have boyfriends until u meet the one....that one where u dont want them to go anywhere and u want them around. Unitl u feel like u met the guy that'll make u happy. Could happen at 21, 31, 41, never. who knows.

    exactly. it is perfectly fine to WANT to settle down at any age but the reality is relationships, real, loving relationships, require more than just 'wanting' it to happen. think of the traditional marriage vows -- in sickness and in health, etc. COMMITMENT means being there with and for the other guy regardless of the circumstances that life throws at you. are you both ready for that? do you feel you can commit to one another that deeply and passionately, totally have each others back regardless?

    it'll happen when it happens regardless of what you think you want.

    imo
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:56 PM GMT
    Just think, only a few generations ago, people settled down and popped out babies in their teens, lol.

    Since settling down doesn't seem like a viable option at any point in my lifetime, I don't think it's worth worrying about.
  • TheBizMan

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    Jan 03, 2013 3:25 AM GMT
    Well whenever you wanna settle down, it better be with me Mr.
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    Jan 03, 2013 3:46 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidWell whenever you wanna settle down, it better be with me Mr.


    well since he's forciblygonna be with me. Him and I will discuss being polyamorous with u. ....
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    Jan 03, 2013 3:52 AM GMT
    B2313 said
    Everytime I say to my older gay friends that I think I wanna settle down they get annoyed and tell me that im crazy and that I should have as much fun (sex) as I can till im 30 before even considering it. I mean I dont mind doing that but then again I like the Idea of being young commited and in lurrve.Yeah pretty cheesy I know =P


    Idk.. what do you think? When should a Gay man consider settling down and being commited?


    GO 4 IT !!