Lol Ive done it again

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    Jan 02, 2013 7:35 PM GMT
    There's this guy I met on Craigslist who surprisingly very nice. We would talk for a while in texts basically to set up when I could meet up with him at his place. We finally had a phone conversation with voices last night and needless to say I spazzed out. I find him very attractive and his voice was really hot and unlike texting where I can hide certain things my nervousness really showed last night. I committed the big sin of bringing up and then mocking religion. Had no clue he was a Christian or a devout at that. Then I brought up politics and somewhere along the way I ended up talking about my mental issues. He laughed amused the whole night and I kept apologizing for being such a spaz yet I did not stop, lol.

    All in all it was a rough hour and ten minutes. But he wants to do it again and meet up with me Saturday if he feels up to it. Although I get the feeling he's just being nice, lol.

    What was the dumbest thing you've ever done when trying to get to know a guy?
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    Jan 02, 2013 11:01 PM GMT
    Introduced him to my hotter housemates. icon_mad.gif
  • Lunastar

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    Jan 03, 2013 1:24 AM GMT
    On a first date I mentioned intestinal problems icon_cool.gif.....never again lol.
  • weneedlovetoo

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    Jan 03, 2013 1:49 AM GMT
    Hmm I've done all the worst thing on my first date, religion, politics, and then i was so nervous and i started talking about my housemates...... and about the stupidest things i've ever done. Clearly i scared him away.
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    Jan 03, 2013 2:00 AM GMT
    I cringed reading this. Politics, religion, mental issues are the biggest no-nos in talking to someone new. Relationship or not.

    Don't worry - I've done similar. I once disparaged a guys profession (he was a volunteer EMT firefighter thing) and someone we mutually knew - aka his ex....here we are almost four months later and I still like him a lot. I can get by a first date well but then I get too comfortable and the bad things come out.
  • Import

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    Jan 03, 2013 4:45 AM GMT
    I farted at the movie theatre once while on a date with a guy I didnt wanna see again. It seriously worked.
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    Jan 03, 2013 4:51 AM GMT
    "There's this guy I met on Craigslist..."

    At this point I'm like

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    Jan 03, 2013 5:35 AM GMT
    I said something very wrong that I'm not proud of in order to not have a second date. I can't even say it here, I'm afraid ill get bashed.
  • cookingitswee...

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    Jan 03, 2013 5:38 AM GMT
    Laughed all night like an idiot

    had a brain fart

    brought up my exs

    This is why I am singleicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 03, 2013 5:41 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said"There's this guy I met on Craigslist..."

    At this point I'm like

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    Kinda did the same thing lol
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    Jan 03, 2013 3:52 PM GMT
    ohboy saidI said something very wrong that I'm not proud of in order to not have a second date. I can't even say it here, I'm afraid ill get bashed.


    u tease!


    U must say it now...!!!!!!
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    Jan 03, 2013 4:13 PM GMT
    I'll top it...I didn't even say it...

    I was at a Comedy Club, for a first date. The Comedian was one of those that make fun of audience members...he then proceeds to call my a date a fat pig. Now what was funny is my date actually was not fat at all! But yelled at the comedian and yelled at me and stormed out of the club...

    The Comedian then said I know what this guys is going to be doing tonight!!! And then mimicked me masturbating for 5 minutes. I then stood up and said "5 minutes? Pffft more like 20 seconds!"

    I will say it was up there on the top 5 dates...icon_cool.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 03, 2013 4:26 PM GMT
    I've done every embarrassing thing I can think of, and other things I've forgotten about... If someone likes you, they'll see past all that. icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 03, 2013 4:27 PM GMT
    People actually meet on Craigslist?
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    Jan 03, 2013 4:28 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said"There's this guy I met on Craigslist..."

    At this point I'm like

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    Yeah...nothing good ever comes after those words.
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    Jan 03, 2013 4:39 PM GMT
    cookingitsweet saidLaughed all night like an idiot

    had a brain fart

    brought up my exs

    This is why I am singleicon_rolleyes.gif

    I do that on all my dates: every 5 minutes.

    "Shit, I forgot what I was going to say."
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    Jan 03, 2013 5:05 PM GMT
    You just have been unable to play the seduction game.
    If he already saw how bad you can be and still want to see you, it means he like you, inability to pretend being cool included.
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    Jan 03, 2013 6:55 PM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince saidThere's this guy I met on Craigslist


    I stopped reading here. (smh)
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    Jan 03, 2013 6:57 PM GMT
    datscarf said>

    How did everyone respond.
    They clapped! I haggled the Comedian too..I am pretty funny...
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    Jan 03, 2013 7:28 PM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince saidThere's this guy I met on Craigslist...

    I thought that was an opening line to a joke... kinda like "2 guys enter a bar..."

    :-/
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    Jan 04, 2013 12:26 AM GMT
    Import said
    ohboy saidI said something very wrong that I'm not proud of in order to not have a second date. I can't even say it here, I'm afraid ill get bashed.


    u tease!


    U must say it now...!!!!!!


    Ummmm uuhhh I told him I was positive icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 1:02 AM GMT
    ohboy said
    Import said
    ohboy saidI said something very wrong that I'm not proud of in order to not have a second date. I can't even say it here, I'm afraid ill get bashed.


    u tease!


    U must say it now...!!!!!!


    Ummmm uuhhh I told him I was positive icon_rolleyes.gif


    I'm laughing right now but that still doesn't mean you are a horrible person!!!
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    Jan 04, 2013 1:06 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said"There's this guy I met on Craigslist..."

    At this point I'm like

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    +1000000000
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    Jan 04, 2013 1:08 AM GMT
    ohboy said
    Import said
    ohboy saidI said something very wrong that I'm not proud of in order to not have a second date. I can't even say it here, I'm afraid ill get bashed.


    u tease!


    U must say it now...!!!!!!


    Ummmm uuhhh I told him I was positive icon_rolleyes.gif


    OMG that is so horrible lol

    It's along the same lines of a female saying she's pregnant to get rid of a guy
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    Jan 04, 2013 1:11 AM GMT
    This is why I only hook up. No ridiculous small talk. After we hook we can start dating.