Would you sleep with a guy knowing he is cheating on his boyfriend?

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    Jan 02, 2013 7:51 PM GMT
    I met a guy who is basically cheating on his boyfriend from what he told me. Well I didn't have sex yet. Today we just talked and hanged out a bit.
    But I think next time it won't just be hanging out. Even though he is good looking and all, now I am in bit of dilemma. My dick says yes but my conscience says no. icon_confused.gif
  • MikeW

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    Jan 02, 2013 8:25 PM GMT
    If he is cheating on his partner, iow, if they do not have an open relationship, the answer is 'no'. For me this isn't about 'morals' so much as trust and avoiding drama. I don't want to have anything to do with people I can't trust and anyone lying to their partner is not trustworthy.
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:26 PM GMT
    If he's not married he's single in my opinion. But I tend to not to try to get into it with men like that.
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:35 PM GMT
    cool, so when u wife him up and make him urs, he'll do the same thing to u.

    Can't wait.
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:36 PM GMT
    Import saidcool, so when u wife him up and make him urs, he'll do the same thing to u.

    Can't wait.


    Why would you wish that on him?

    The boyfriend came to him. I would suggest the boyfriend break up with the other guy before going with the OP.
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:38 PM GMT
    Import saidcool, so when u wife him up and make him urs, he'll do the same thing to u.

    Can't wait.

    I am no wifing (yeah that word sounds weird)or anything remotely related. We are upfront about that part.
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:40 PM GMT
    Shagglot said
    Import saidcool, so when u wife him up and make him urs, he'll do the same thing to u.

    Can't wait.

    I am no wifing (yeah that word sounds weird)or anything remotely related. We are upfront about that part.

    well, in that case, I'd just keep it platonic and perhaps if you're drunk or high on Molly or something u could mess around and blame it on the goose....that got u feelin loose. naaah mean, brakski? icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:40 PM GMT
    MikeW saidIf he is cheating on his partner, iow, if they do not have an open relationship, the answer is 'no'. For me this isn't about 'morals' so much as trust and avoiding drama. I don't want to have anything to do with people I can't trust and anyone lying to their partner is not trustworthy.

    That makes sense. They don't have open relationship. He is basically cheating.
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    Import said
    Shagglot said
    Import saidcool, so when u wife him up and make him urs, he'll do the same thing to u.

    Can't wait.

    I am no wifing (yeah that word sounds weird)or anything remotely related. We are upfront about that part.

    well, in that case, I'd just keep it platonic and perhaps if you're drunk or high on Molly or something u could mess around and blame it on the goose....that got u feelin loose. naaah mean, brakski? icon_wink.gif

    Man I feel like illiterate reading your comment. What a waste of education!
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 02, 2013 8:46 PM GMT
    Shagglot said
    Import said
    Shagglot said
    Import saidcool, so when u wife him up and make him urs, he'll do the same thing to u.

    Can't wait.

    I am no wifing (yeah that word sounds weird)or anything remotely related. We are upfront about that part.

    well, in that case, I'd just keep it platonic and perhaps if you're drunk or high on Molly or something u could mess around and blame it on the goose....that got u feelin loose. naaah mean, brakski? icon_wink.gif

    Man I feel like illiterate reading your comment. What a waste of education!


    He's saying, fuck when you're drunk and blame it on the alcohol.
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    Jan 02, 2013 8:47 PM GMT
    Shagglot said
    Import said
    Shagglot said
    Import saidcool, so when u wife him up and make him urs, he'll do the same thing to u.

    Can't wait.

    I am no wifing (yeah that word sounds weird)or anything remotely related. We are upfront about that part.

    well, in that case, I'd just keep it platonic and perhaps if you're drunk or high on Molly or something u could mess around and blame it on the goose....that got u feelin loose. naaah mean, brakski? icon_wink.gif

    Man I feel like illiterate reading your comment. What a waste of education!


    ya old stick in the mud! icon_lol.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 02, 2013 8:54 PM GMT
    Remember this ... a person's lover might have a gun and come looking for the one that messed with their man
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    Jan 02, 2013 9:03 PM GMT
    Shagglot said[...] My dick says yes but my conscience says no.[...]


    We're fortunate to have two heads.
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    Jan 02, 2013 9:11 PM GMT
    please don't.

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    Jan 02, 2013 9:12 PM GMT
    HottJoe said

    He's saying, fuck when you're drunk and blame it on the alcohol.

    Oh..now I get it.Sorry I am slow sometimes.
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    Jan 02, 2013 9:14 PM GMT
    BuddyinNYC said
    Shagglot said[...] My dick says yes but my conscience says no.[...]


    We're fortunate to have two heads.

    Well just that we can only get a single head though.
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    Jan 02, 2013 9:15 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidRemember this ... a person's lover might have a gun and come looking for the one that messed with their man

    No gun policy here.Its Europe icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 02, 2013 9:52 PM GMT
    Shagglot said
    AMoonHawk saidRemember this ... a person's lover might have a gun and come looking for the one that messed with their man

    No gun policy here.Its Europe icon_razz.gif


    He might have a knife instead?? icon_eek.gif

    When I was younger, I used to mess around with guys who had boyfriends and married men (to women) and I took several big chances on not getting involved in any drama. I was lucky! You might be lucky also since it seems that you and this guy just want to have sex and don't want to start an emotional relationship. Whether or not you choose to have sex with him is completely up to you but just remember that you may be playing with fire. It's a matter on whether or not you want to take that chance.
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    Jan 02, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    No, I would not. I'm worth the bother of becoming single for.
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    Jan 02, 2013 10:46 PM GMT
    Can't, Couldn't, Didn't.
  • BloodFlame

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    Jan 02, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
    I personally couldn't do that. If they were open, maybe but if not, definitely a no. I know it wouldn't affect me since it's his choice to do what he wants but I could never forgive myself for doing something so... Skewed.
    Plus, I wouldn't like it if I had a boyfriend that did that so why would I do that?

    But yeah, short answer, no.
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    Jan 02, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
    He could be in an open relationship...or just saying that to get into your pants. I wouldn't. icon_neutral.gif But if you do decide to hook up, I guess just be careful and stay safe.
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    Jan 02, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
    No I wouldn't have sex with him icon_sad.gif

    Follow your conscience
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 02, 2013 10:49 PM GMT
    waterloonicetop saidTell his partner.


    That's risky, if you don't know him... His partner might be the violent jealous type, who will accuse you of lying, etc...icon_exclaim.gif
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    Jan 02, 2013 10:49 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    waterloonicetop saidTell his partner.


    That's risky, if you don't know him... His partner might be the violent jealous type, who will accuse you of lying, etc...icon_exclaim.gif


    Joes right