How hard is it to hook up for you personally?

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    Jan 04, 2013 1:11 AM GMT
    Lots of people complain about that there aren't really enough tops/bottoms, too many of them in their area, etc, so would you care to state whether you are top/bottom/vers, and whether you have any difficulties in finding a partner or a fuck buddy, and the reason why you think that is.

    I have a reason to think that, since there are lots of guys always looking for sex, whether one is a top, bottom, vers, or whatever they are, if one doesn't have a high standard, it shouldn't be hard to find, but i get this impression that some people just have real real hard time finding a fuck.
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    Jan 04, 2013 1:15 AM GMT
    At this point in my life, it's easy to hookup, and at the same time it is hard to impossible.

    It's easy from the logistical standpoint.
    It's hard to impossible from the self-respect standpoint.
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    Jan 04, 2013 1:17 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidAt this point in my life, it's easy to hookup, and at the same time it is hard to impossible.

    It's easy from the logistical standpoint.
    It's hard to impossible from the self-respect standpoint.


    Hm....yeah..that's exactly what I was thinking for most....woe to be fugly....
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    Jan 04, 2013 1:26 AM GMT
    cielbleu said
    GAMRican saidAt this point in my life, it's easy to hookup, and at the same time it is hard to impossible.

    It's easy from the logistical standpoint.
    It's hard to impossible from the self-respect standpoint.


    Hm....yeah..that's exactly what I was thinking for most....woe to be fugly....


    I'm not sure that "fugly" is a hindrance.

    I've seen lots of hot guys getting mercy fucked by fugly guys.

    Note the way I worded the previous sentence. Yes, hot guys GETTING MERCY FUCKED by fugly guys (meaning that the fugly are showing mercy on the hot). The mind, psyche, and self-image are so pliable that some fugly guys believe that they are "treasure", and some hot guys think they are "trash". Once we are aware of this malleability of self-image, we can always get the hookup by knowing when to treat "trash like treasure" and "treasure like trash".

    Does that sound kind of cold and disgusting?

    I believe it does, and that's why the hookup is hard to impossible for me now. It leaves me feeling dirty.
    Oh so dirty.
    Like a vile pig, or a skeezy whore.

















    I'm hard now.
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    Jan 04, 2013 4:35 AM GMT
    When I was single, I had a hard time finding a hookup because I was never into random sex. For me, there had to be a level of trust. I'm not talking about "being in a relationship" trust but rather, a mutual understanding that it was all about being physical and nothing else. In other words....my criteria for hooking up included no emotional bonds, no mentally-unstable guys and nothing I'm going to take home that will remind me of our hookup such as STDs.

    So yeah, hookups were hard to come by but when I did find one, it was well worth the wait! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 4:56 AM GMT
    It's extremely easy if you have no standards.
    That's why there's such a rush to hook up at last call,when everyone's standards plummet. I tried that a couple of times for the sake of exploration, but it's simply not worth it.
    You just have to have patience and wait for one who really turns you on. Be perfectly willing to go home and read a book on saturday night if one doesn't turn up.
    The weird thing is, since I took that attitude, if I am looking, I almost never go home without.

    Of course, it goes without saying that in the land of bottoms the 8"+ man is king...
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    Jan 04, 2013 5:06 AM GMT
    mindgarden saidIt's extremely easy if you have no standards.
    That's why there's such a rush to hook up at last call,when everyone's standards plummet. I tried that a couple of times for the sake of exploration, but it's simply not worth it.
    You just have to have patience and wait for one who really turns you on. Be perfectly willing to go home and read a book on saturday night if one doesn't turn up.
    The weird thing is, since I took that attitude, if I am looking, I almost never go home without.

    Of course, it goes without saying that in the land of bottoms the 8"+ man is king...


    So are you saying you are a bottom?

    Or that you are 8+???
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    Jan 04, 2013 5:20 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    mindgarden saidIt's extremely easy if you have no standards.
    That's why there's such a rush to hook up at last call,when everyone's standards plummet. I tried that a couple of times for the sake of exploration, but it's simply not worth it.
    You just have to have patience and wait for one who really turns you on. Be perfectly willing to go home and read a book on saturday night if one doesn't turn up.
    The weird thing is, since I took that attitude, if I am looking, I almost never go home without.

    Of course, it goes without saying that in the land of bottoms the 8"+ man is king...


    So are you saying you are a bottom?

    Or that you are 8+???


    Does it matter? Works either way.

    Anyway, if you want to keep dating after 50, it helps to have a little something extra.
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    Jan 04, 2013 5:23 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said^^^ If I hooked up as much as this guy, shoes would be redundant. icon_redface.gif

    He is not a whore!!!icon_evil.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 5:25 AM GMT
    And no. I don't have an issue finding dick. TBH. And yes, I have standards.
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    Jan 04, 2013 5:57 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidAt this point in my life, it's easy to hookup, and at the same time it is hard to impossible.

    It's easy from the logistical standpoint.
    It's hard to impossible from the self-respect standpoint.


    I agree. Sex is easy to find. Sex with objectively hot guys is easy to find. But sex with an emotional connection? -- Priceless (which implies hard-to-find).
  • IamEvan

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    Jan 05, 2013 3:42 AM GMT
    I have pretty high standards, and I have no trouble finding some ass...not that I act on every impulse, mind you.
  • atomicare

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    Jan 14, 2013 4:17 PM GMT
    Easy, lots of guys are into the hairy chest thing right now. Usually have to work a bit if I want a twink
  • maax223

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    Jan 15, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    very easy actually... harder finding guys who are good at what they do though..