Anyone bottom because they aren't good at topping?

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 04, 2013 1:16 AM GMT
    Just wondering, if anyone prefers to bottom because they have a smaller manhood? Personally, I don't think I would be a good top because mine is thin and short, and I'm bit self conscious about it, but it wouldn't be the reason why I would prefer to bottom, but just wondering if there's anyone who prefers to do so because they are not really confident about topping whether it's the size, endurance, etc. I think though, most people bottoms because they like it..

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 04, 2013 1:53 AM GMT
    cielbleu saidJust wondering, if anyone prefers to bottom because they have a smaller manhood? Personally, I don't think I would be a good top because mine is thin and short, and I'm bit self conscious about it, but it wouldn't be the reason why I would prefer to bottom, but just wondering if there's anyone who prefers to do so because they are not really confident about topping whether it's the size, endurance, etc. I think though, most people bottoms because they like it..


    I was with a guy who would never top me because I was better hung than him (I'm not huge, maybe high average). Truthfully though, I think he just prefers being a sub bottom ... especially for a black guy.
  • newyorkcanon

    Posts: 37

    Jan 04, 2013 3:26 AM GMT
    *raises hand*

    I would do it (bottom) because I'd get performance anxiety. Then I had a bad experience and I strayed away from anal sex entirely.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 04, 2013 4:15 AM GMT
    I met a guy who was about 8" thick and he was a total bottom. He said it was his preference but I think it's also a mentality. I told him if he puts his mind into it then he can top but he refused.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 04, 2013 5:12 AM GMT
    Yeah. I was vers with my ex, but have never topped in a hookup situation. It's more about the endurance thing, though...aside from the fact I just like it more.