Why is this site so conservative?

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    Jan 04, 2013 2:58 AM GMT
    I am on just about every gay site on the net...and I have to say, I have never run across a group of guys - on the whole - who are so conservative as this site. There are *so* many comments on these threads slamming open relationships, and shunning anything non-vanilla (piss play, nipple piercing, etc).

    It's almost...well...weird to see so many "gay" men hold on to such strong heternormative values. I am wondering...

    ..Are many of you closted? Do you try to 'pass' as straight in most of the world, thus adopting straight sexual value mores?

    I'm really, really intrigued...am thinking of simply deleting my profile here. What gives with this group of guys?
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    Jan 04, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
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  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 04, 2013 3:00 AM GMT
    This site is 'conservative'... because we aren't pigs that fuck everything that moves, do coke and meth, and just casually get HIV?

    Seriously, who the hell likes to get pissed on? Shit on? Fisted? I'm gay.. and I don't get into any of that. And in no way, I'm 'heteronormative' (what a wallop of a word).
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:05 AM GMT
    oMG I ASK MYSELF THE SAME THING EVERY SINGLE DAY

    except about fashion not about those things
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:07 AM GMT
    McQueen saidoMG I ASK MYSELF THE SAME THING EVERY SINGLE DAY

    except about fashion not about those things


    'cause yo is Fabulous, honey!

    (snap!)
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    I fail to see why things that are considered "heteronormative" can't translate to disgusting even between two men. Just because we're gay, doesn't mean we like piss and piercings. Some guys do - and thats great. But I don't. I simply don't think it's attractive. It's got nothing to do with values.

    I'm not going to go against my feelings just because it's "normal". We aren't hipsters.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    PR_GMR said
    McQueen saidoMG I ASK MYSELF THE SAME THING EVERY SINGLE DAY
    except about fashion not about those things
    'cause yo is Fabulous, honey!
    (snap!)
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:11 AM GMT
    PR_GMR saidThis site is 'conservative'... because we aren't pigs that fuck everything that moves, do coke and meth, and just casually get HIV?

    Seriously, who the hell likes to get pissed on? Shit on? Fisted? I'm gay.. and I don't get into any of that. And in no way, I'm 'heteronormative' (what a wallop of a word).


    And here we have Evidence #1.

    Let's pull this apart.

    1) Men Fuck. Sorry f you;re still hung up.

    2) What the hell do coke and meth have to do with this? I dont do them either, if you;re interested (which you;re not, you just want to make assumptions).

    3) I LIKE to get pissed on. And to drink from the tap. And to have others drink from mine. And so do MANY men. Piss is 99.8% water, and piss has been identified with gay sex ever since we first met in bathrooms and rest stops. Relax and open your mind.

    4) Fisted? A lot of guys like it. You dont have to. No Big deal, but its not evil or awful.

    5) Shit on? Actually, there is almost no one who gets into that. I wonder though - are you able to rim a guy?

    6) Your cavalier comments about HIV prove once again that our own gay community is MORE of a problem in creating an HIV stigma than straihts are. Shame on you for your attitude.

    7) Yeah, you;re pretty damned heteronormative, whether you accept that or not.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:11 AM GMT
    Sometimes we write our names in the snow with piss....

    And by snow I mean coke.icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:13 AM GMT
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    my parents raise me straight,that why i am so straight acting,ya knowicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:14 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidI am on just about every gay site on the net...and I have to say, I have never run across a group of guys - on the whole - who are so conservative as this site. There are *so* many comments on these threads slamming open relationships, and shunning anything non-vanilla (piss play, nipple piercing, etc).

    It's almost...well...weird to see so many "gay" men hold on to such strong heternormative values. I am wondering...

    ..Are many of you closted? Do you try to 'pass' as straight in most of the world, thus adopting straight sexual value mores?

    I'm really, really intrigued...am thinking of simply deleting my profile here. What gives with this group of guys?
    If you can't handle gays who don't fit the media-promoted stereotype, then please feel free to delete your profile.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:17 AM GMT
    Interesting tat none of you self-righteous prudes answered my question as to whether you are OUT or just passing as str8 thru life. I suspect i have my answers.

    Oh, and cowardice is SOOOO ugly when disguised as anger...
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:21 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 said
    PR_GMR saidThis site is 'conservative'... because we aren't pigs that fuck everything that moves, do coke and meth, and just casually get HIV?

    Seriously, who the hell likes to get pissed on? Shit on? Fisted? I'm gay.. and I don't get into any of that. And in no way, I'm 'heteronormative' (what a wallop of a word).


    And here we have Evidence #1.

    Let's pull this apart.

    1) Men Fuck. Sorry f you;re still hung up.

    2) What the hell do coke and meth have to do with this? I dont do them either, if you;re interested (which you;re not, you just want to make assumptions).

    3) I LIKE to get pissed on. And to drink from the tap. And to have others drink from mine. And so do MANY men. Piss is 99.8% water, and piss has been identified with gay sex ever since we first met in bathrooms and rest stops. Relax and open your mind.

    4) Fisted? A lot of guys like it. You dont have to. No Big deal, but its not evil or awful.

    5) Shit on? Actually, there is almost no one who gets into that. I wonder though - are you able to rim a guy?

    6) Your cavalier comments about HIV prove once again that our own gay community is MORE of a problem in creating an HIV stigma than straihts are. Shame on you for your attitude.

    7) Yeah, you;re pretty damned heteronormative, whether you accept that or not.


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    Jan 04, 2013 3:21 AM GMT
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:23 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidInteresting tat none of you self-righteous prudes answered my question as to whether you are OUT or just passing as str8 thru life. I suspect i have my answers.
    about 90% of us are out
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:23 AM GMT
    Oh this is gonna be fun. I'm gonna stick around just to point out what a bunch of hungup, tortured, closeted basket cases you all are.

    Hey, lets talk about Pits now! I love a raunchy, rank pit! Anyone want to breathe deep with me?!

    AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:25 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidI am on just about every gay site on the net...and I have to say, I have never run across a group of guys - on the whole - who are so conservative as this site. There are *so* many comments on these threads slamming open relationships, and shunning anything non-vanilla (piss play, nipple piercing, etc).

    It's almost...well...weird to see so many "gay" men hold on to such strong heternormative values. I am wondering...

    ..Are many of you closted? Do you try to 'pass' as straight in most of the world, thus adopting straight sexual value mores?

    I'm really, really intrigued...am thinking of simply deleting my profile here. What gives with this group of guys?



    I am sorry but piss play?!?!........ icon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
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    I hope vomit does not turn you on to. icon_neutral.gif

    Not wanting someone to piss on you or to drink it is not being "vanilla".
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:25 AM GMT
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:27 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidOh this is gonna be fun. I'm gonna stick around just to point out what a bunch of hungup, tortured, closeted basket cases you all are.

    Hey, lets talk about Pits now! I love a raunchy, rank pit! Anyone want to breathe deep with me?!

    AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!


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    Jan 04, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidInteresting tat none of you self-righteous prudes answered my question as to whether you are OUT or just passing as str8 thru life. I suspect i have my answers.

    Oh, and cowardice is SOOOO ugly when disguised as anger...


    I've been out for over 20 years.

    A LOT of the guys here are out, we just don't put that in every single post in the forums, so get over yourself.

    Now run along and play in traffic. At night. Wearing dark clothes.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:30 AM GMT
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    Not wanting someone to piss on you or to drink it is not being "vanilla". [/quote]

    Ummm...yeah, it really is. Watersports are engaged in by a vast majority of gay men. You dont have to - my partner doesnt - but your revulsion to it and characterization of it as something WAY out there betrays a certain naiveté about gay sex in general.

    And so again, I ask (since no one ha answered) - are you guys 100% out? Or trying to pass as str8 in life?
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    David4985 said



    I hope vomit does not turn you on to. icon_neutral.gif

    Not wanting someone to piss on you or to drink it is not being "vanilla".


    What? No Roman Showers?
  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 04, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 said[quote]
    Not wanting someone to piss on you or to drink it is not being "vanilla".


    Ummm...yeah, it really is. Watersports are engaged in by a vast majority of gay men. You dont have to - my partner doesnt - but your revulsion to it and characterization of it as something WAY out there betrays a certain naiveté about gay sex in general.

    And so again, I ask (since no one ha answered) - are you guys 100% out? Or trying to pass as str8 in life?[/quote]

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    Jan 04, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    PR_GMR saidThis site is 'conservative'... because we aren't pigs that fuck everything that moves, do coke and meth, and just casually get HIV?

    Seriously, who the hell likes to get pissed on? Shit on? Fisted? I'm gay.. and I don't get into any of that. And in no way, I'm 'heteronormative' (what a wallop of a word).


    My sentiments exactly! who said that in order to be gay you have be a liberal!? accepting and being who you are is whatever feels right, works for you, or what is good for you. Having moral values, being monogamous, having no tattoos, body piercing, missionary sexual position, or practicing a particular religious belief, etc is not just exclusive to heterosexuals; just like being promiscous, liberal minded, having tattoos, body piercing, pissing, doing coke or meth, ect isn't synonimous to being gay.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:32 AM GMT
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    Buoy44025 saidInteresting tat none of you self-righteous prudes answered my question as to whether you are OUT or just passing as str8 thru life. I suspect i have my answers.

    Oh, and cowardice is SOOOO ugly when disguised as anger...


    I've been out for over 20 years.

    A LOT of the guys here are out, we just don't put that in every single post in the forums, so get over yourself.

    Now run along and play in traffic. At night. Wearing dark clothes.


    ...says the good looking guy who cant take his shirt off without hiding his face....