My views on sex

  • xKorix

    Posts: 607

    Aug 27, 2007 5:33 AM GMT
    Now that I'm a little older I'm thinking my thoughts on sex maybe a little inaccurate.

    Every time I engage in sexual activity I just think and feel I've caught something, even if I've used protection and that I must be tested immediately. I honestly feel like every sexual act is a brush with death and that I'm lucky to come out okay after. I'm not sure where this thought process is coming from, or even if its healthy, but I'm not liking it too much. If you have any input please feel free to share.
  • GQjock

    Posts: 11649

    Aug 27, 2007 11:02 AM GMT
    With all the "stuff" that's out there we do need to be careful
    but if you're playing safe meaning that you're using a condom and choosing your partners correctly and not using drugs you're very safe
    ...are you guarranteed about not catching anything? no...but you can get hit by a train tomorrow too
    don't let runaway anxiety stop you from living your life
  • zakariahzol

    Posts: 2241

    Aug 27, 2007 1:57 PM GMT
    One of the reason (sexual abuse history is the other) I have lost interest in anal sex is the phobia of catching something like AIDS. Even with condom there is no guranteed it is 100% safe. I have top a guy in the past and the condom broke at its tip. Its like my mind keep telling me no, dangerous and fatal. Usually after this thought I start loosing erection and unable to penetrate. It a physicological barrier, I know. But growing up in the 80's that how I was raise.
  • xKorix

    Posts: 607

    Sep 01, 2007 4:56 PM GMT
    I'm feeling a little more relaxed about it :P. I was at Gay camp earlier this week and there were workshops on healthy sex and I spoke to counselor about this and I feel okay about it, but now I feel like having some healthy sex 8D
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    Sep 01, 2007 7:02 PM GMT
    Your profile says you're 19. Where do you get "older" from?
  • xKorix

    Posts: 607

    Sep 01, 2007 7:40 PM GMT
    I get older from the fact that I've had these views since I was about 16.