Do you think he want more than just making out?

  • bobbyddadd

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    Jan 05, 2013 4:42 PM GMT
    I met this Brazil guy in a dance club. He came by alone so we started to closely dance a little while. But we didn’t make out. I left early, and he said we should hang out again. Right after I went out the club heading home. He started to text me about how nice meeting me. For the record, he is very cute. I kinda like him. We did hang out again dancing next day. I didn’t make out with him again. But he did make out with my friend. He said to my friend he is bottom and my friend is too. So nothing more following.
    The next couple days, we didn’t hang out but text each other couple times a day. And he used those words like “honey”, ”my dear”. Last night, we hanged out again, this time was like very very closer dancing, our lips were so inches close. I still didn’t make out with him. And I left early again because have to work next day. He said we need to hang out again tonight.
    I wonder does he want more than just making out. I want to be good friend with him. Not just that kind of nothing after making out/or sex kind.
    What should I do? Should I make out with him tonight when we hang out.
    Or maybe the whole thing just the Brazil thing….so passion about everything, not really anything more.
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    Jan 05, 2013 4:52 PM GMT
    Do you want to sleep with him? What do you want to do and what do you expect to gain by sleeping with him? Have you communicated that with him? Those are the questions you need to answer.
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    Jan 05, 2013 4:58 PM GMT
    Soooo let me see if I'm getting waht happened... You met a boy, you danced, exchanged numbers, met again and he kissed your friend and the only reason why nothing went further is because they both happen to be bttms?
    Yet ur wondering if he wants to kiss you but he already made a play for your friend... Am I getting this rt? I think I saw this episode on 90210 in 1993.
  • bobbyddadd

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    Jan 05, 2013 5:34 PM GMT
    I do know he wanted to kiss, I don't know he want more than kissing or not. But the point is, I don't want kiss or sex, I want to be good friend with him. I know gay guys suck to be mate. But I don't want just fooling around with him.
    I know what I want, I don't know what he want from me.
    Should I ask him?
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    Jan 05, 2013 5:43 PM GMT
    Yes!!!
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    Jan 05, 2013 6:28 PM GMT
    Damn, you're 31 and look 21. Those asian genes are amazing.
  • great_scott

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    Jan 05, 2013 6:36 PM GMT
    Brazilian guys are very friendly. icon_biggrin.gif
  • bobbyddadd

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    Jan 05, 2013 6:41 PM GMT
    huhwhat saidDamn, you're 31 and look 21. Those asian genes are amazing.


    Big thanks.

    I start to love you nowicon_razz.gif
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    Jan 05, 2013 6:45 PM GMT
    I say, forget him i.e. if you want something more than sex.

    Seriously, think this through again, "he kissed your friend and the only reason why nothing went further is because they both happen to be bttms (Hillie, 2013)". It simply means that he want to get laid!!

    I will advice that you befriend him and nothing more.
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    Jan 05, 2013 7:06 PM GMT
    He wants your bottom.
  • bobbyddadd

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    Jan 05, 2013 7:12 PM GMT
    sammy_asare saidI say, forget him i.e. if you want something more than sex.

    Seriously, think this through again, "he kissed your friend and the only reason why nothing went further is because they both happen to be bttms (Hillie, 2013)". It simply means that he want to get laid!!

    I will advice that you befriend him and nothing more.


    I want to be good friend with him, not sex with him. A cute,hot Brazil friend, hell why not. And I don't believe good friend included with sex, except those agreed on friend with benefit.

    Or maybe the whole thing is he wanted sex not friend, I just misunderstood at the very beginning.
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    Jan 05, 2013 7:37 PM GMT
    bobbyddadd said
    sammy_asare saidI say, forget him i.e. if you want something more than sex.

    Seriously, think this through again, "he kissed your friend and the only reason why nothing went further is because they both happen to be bttms (Hillie, 2013)". It simply means that he want to get laid!!

    I will advice that you befriend him and nothing more.


    I want to be good friend with him, not sex with him. A cute,hot Brazil friend, hell why not. And I don't believe good friend included with sex, except those agreed on friend with benefit.

    Or maybe the whole thing is he wanted sex not friend, I just misunderstood at the very beginning.


    He wanted only sex buddy. That is why he was all over your friend thinking he was straight when you did not make out with him on the dance floor.

    Don't judge a book by its cover, in this case, don't judge him by his looks. For all you know, he might be a "sexaholic " icon_eek.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 05, 2013 7:38 PM GMT
    Sparks saidHe wants your bottom.


    he sure does...icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 05, 2013 7:50 PM GMT
    OMG!! You should like totally grab his butt and make out with him.. Seriously..OMG! He is like so hotttt! GO FOR IT GIRL..
  • bobbyddadd

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    Jan 05, 2013 9:30 PM GMT
    Haha, maybe I should just stop thinking about friend with him. Just have sex and that's it. Both satisfied
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    Jan 05, 2013 9:38 PM GMT
    But that is not what you say you want. Tell him you see him as more than a one night stand.
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    Jan 05, 2013 9:43 PM GMT
    I got nothing to offer the OP ... I just hope in a future life I'll be granted the opportunity to turn down hot makeout sessions and sex with hot Brazilian guys. icon_eek.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jan 05, 2013 10:25 PM GMT
    1) he is obviously looking for sex
    2) I was the same before I met my first (and so far the last) boyfriend, I was looking only for sex, but he wasn't
    we became very good friends
    and suddenly we both fell in love with each other
    since then I take sex as expression of strong love

    what I'm saying here is that you might be the one who one day might show him what love and sex is all about, if you give him a chance and try to be a friend with him, if you two get along...
  • bobbyddadd

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    Jan 06, 2013 12:46 AM GMT
    klobasnik said1) he is obviously looking for sex
    2) I was the same before I met my first (and so far the last) boyfriend, I was looking only for sex, but he wasn't
    we became very good friends
    and suddenly we both fell in love with each other
    since then I take sex as expression of strong love

    what I'm saying here is that you might be the one who one day might show him what love and sex is all about, if you give him a chance and try to be a friend with him, if you two get along...


    Why I suddenly feel gay world is so complicated than straight world. It's not suppose to be this way.
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    Jan 06, 2013 12:55 AM GMT
    If a hot brazilian guy flirts with you - YOU FLIRT BACK!
    Even I know that much.
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    Jan 06, 2013 1:10 AM GMT
    rolls eyes. fuck him and get over it.
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    Jan 06, 2013 9:39 AM GMT
    bobbyddadd said
    klobasnik said1) he is obviously looking for sex
    2) I was the same before I met my first (and so far the last) boyfriend, I was looking only for sex, but he wasn't
    we became very good friends
    and suddenly we both fell in love with each other
    since then I take sex as expression of strong love

    what I'm saying here is that you might be the one who one day might show him what love and sex is all about, if you give him a chance and try to be a friend with him, if you two get along...


    Why I suddenly feel gay world is so complicated than straight world. It's not suppose to be this way.


    well you can go and fuck him if you want that