I decided to be a good boy, stay in, nurse myself, and take care of some business-related things.
I was told by the nosy emergency room doctor (why did it matter whether the sex was rough or not, sir? seriously, you going to the bathroom to jerkoff?) not to have sex for at least two weeks, which of course will mean even longer as I'm going to try to have surgery next week at the latest. *sad face* Worse still is being out of the gym for a couple months.
Did hookup with the same dude again today -- he felt bad and wanted to make it up to me. Foreplay type stuff only. That should be fine, yeah?
Make up sex is the best! Especially when you hold guilt over the guy! ;)
If you need surgery, your recovery time will be faster than you think so don't be sad. The procedure is done laparoscopically meaning they do NOT cut you from hip to hip (like a c-section) in order to fix the hernia. The first 2 days from recovery, you're going to be sore as shit but as long as you take your pain meds, you're gonna see that it gets better as the days go by.
As for the doc being nosy, yeah it does appear that way, doesn't it? But he asked you those questions so that he can dictate your responses in his notes because if you go through this injury again, and let's hope you don't, then whoever the doc taking care of you then will be able to read the entire notes from your previous visit. They try their best to prevent you from coming back.