done with one night stands

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    Jan 06, 2013 5:57 AM GMT
    I met up with a hottie off grindr the other day. it turns out he knows two guys that I also know but they do not know each other, so, maybe i've got around a little bit..
    anyway,
    being with him was really nice. he did lie about his age (told me he was 25 was actually 22) but other than that he was super cute, smart, and smelled delicious. and he was an excellent kisser. we laid on the bed kissing for 1/2 hour.

    the entire point of meeting up was just to fuck. he told me he had just broken up with his boyfriend a few days prior. so i accepted that i was going to be a rebound, and i didn't want or expect it to go any further, but talking with him, and watching breaking bad together, we immediately started mentioning common interests, and, i remembered how much i liked being there with somebody, lying there, caressing, smelling, tasting, kissing, rubbing, giggling, fondling, you know, all that sappy shit.

    then toward the end, he up and left and said he's just not ready to do anything since his break up and that he was really sorry. i think it freaked him out that i knew his ex bf. anyway, when he left, i kind of told myself that i don't want anymore one night stands, because, for me, it just doesn't work. i want something more. to be able to have that half hour experience i had, every day and night, wow. i can't wait.
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:01 AM GMT
    Oh wow, he lied about being older instead of younger. Kind of a different twist, lol. Although what 22-year-old would lie about being older? I always figured guys 17-19 want to sound older.

    Anyway, you'd be surprised how closely connected gays are in a social circle. Somebody's been the ex or fuck buddy of somebody else and vice versa. It's really interesting and sometimes disturbing to figure out the six degrees of separation, haha.

    Well, nothing wrong with having a change of heart. Things like this happen.
  • TheBizMan

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    Jan 06, 2013 6:12 AM GMT
    nicodegallo saidOh wow, he lied about being older instead of younger. Kind of a different twist, lol. Although what 22-year-old would lie about being older? I always figured guys 17-19 want to sound older.


    A lot of times on hook-up sights I see older guys I want to get with being just as discriminant about age as younger guys. This 39 year old stud made it clear that he'd only hook up with men 29 and older. I can easily pull that one off, so that's exactly what I did. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:13 AM GMT
    They say we're all only separated by seven degrees of penetration.

    Anyway, I've had guys bail on me before. I've bailed on guys who turn out to be a bit more trollish than anticipated. Can't force a connection. People come up with little white lies. It doesn't matter. If they're not into it, they're not into it.
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:14 AM GMT
    TheBizMan said
    nicodegallo saidOh wow, he lied about being older instead of younger. Kind of a different twist, lol. Although what 22-year-old would lie about being older? I always figured guys 17-19 want to sound older.


    A lot of times on hook-up sights I see older guys I want to get with being just as discriminant about age as younger guys. This 39 year old stud made it clear that he'd only hook up with men 29 and older. I can easily pull that one off, so that's exactly what I did. icon_wink.gif


    Haha, I know that happens.

    I simply assume these days that every guy with a profile somewhere is lying about his age plus or minus 5 years (or even more!) until proven otherwise.
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:20 AM GMT
    timshel saidi want something more. to be able to have that half hour experience i had, every day and night, wow. i can't wait.


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    Jan 06, 2013 6:26 AM GMT
    I hate Grindr so much. It's too damn buggy and eats up your messages. I got fed up with being messaged and not having my responses received so I unistalled it.

    Anyway ideally I would like more than just hooking up too but meanwhile I'll just mess around a little. icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:28 AM GMT
    Doesn't ending one night stands reduce your chances of finding that perfect date?

    Have you considered instead speed tricking?
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:37 AM GMT
    nicodegallo saidOh wow, he lied about being older instead of younger. Kind of a different twist, lol. Although what 22-year-old would lie about being older?


    Maybe he wanted to tell the OP that he's old enough to rent a car. icon_wink.gif

    Seriously and to the OP, does this mean you are done with Grindr? If you are still using the app, I seriously doubt you'll find a meaningful relationship on there.
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:42 AM GMT
    grindr is evil. i never really used it. i would just use it to upload a new pic of myself that i thought i looked hot in to see how many responses i would get. (hey at least i'm being honest here). but then this really good looking guy messaged me and i thought why not. so, here i am, a narcissistic douche bag spilling himself on the internet on a saturday night.

    i just need to get out of the house and do shit i like doin and i'll meet him. just that i like doin outdoor stuff and the rain and freezing temps and dark winter skies are really putting a stick in my craw. i have no idea what that means, i heard it on an episode of the golden girls.
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:49 AM GMT
    Blanche Devereaux will teach you everything you need to know. She's a terrific role model icon_wink.gif

    "Family you can see anytime, but a one night stand only happens one night!"
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    Jan 06, 2013 8:54 AM GMT
    Tim! What happened to the whole not gonna hook up with 22 year olds anymore ordeal? What did you learn in 2012 !!!
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    Jan 06, 2013 9:17 AM GMT
    I don't take Grindr seriously, I went through a slut phase for a while ! I haven't had sex in like 9 months ! Gosh, it sounds like I want a husband and get married now !!!! icon_razz.gificon_cool.gif
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    Jan 06, 2013 9:22 AM GMT
    zeffery saidTim! What happened to the whole not gonna hook up with 22 year olds anymore ordeal? What did you learn in 2012 !!!


    Did you read the post? Read carefully icon_lol.gif
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Jan 06, 2013 9:51 AM GMT
    Never had a one night stand and don't intend to start !