MIS37 saidWhat im essentially trying to ask is what am I doing wrong is it my body my personality or what? I know I have goals and aspirations and im motivated but what is preventing me from attracting/meeting guys
Obviously we may not know the answer any more than you do. Some of the replies you'll get here are just being fun or silly. Some will be more serious. But it really is difficult to know.
What I know from my own experience is one doesn't have to be "perfect" in some "ideal" sense to meet guys and have relationships. I certainly wasn't. BUT what you do have to do is be willing to put yourself out there and MEET (in real life if possible) a LOT of guys. In my case it was literally hundreds before I had my first relationship. I had a lot of friends but the relationship was different.
What I discovered is MOST guys didn't really interest me all that much. That's not a statement about *them*, it is a statement about *me*. It has to do with my personality type. I can be physically attracted to someone but that isn't enough to base a relationship on or even a friendship for that matter. I have to LIKE them and vice versa.
So, who knows. Maybe for you getting out in RL will be better than trying to meet guys online.