First time bottoming

  • brit_in_oz

    Posts: 6

    Jan 07, 2013 6:54 AM GMT
    Hey guys, been seeing this guy for a while and going to bottom for the first time.
    Any advice on what I can do before hand, things to do or to avoid etc.

    Thanks very much!
  • ESL_Asian

    Posts: 176

    Jan 07, 2013 7:41 AM GMT
    brit_in_oz saidHey guys, been seeing this guy for a while and going to bottom for the first time.
    Any advice on what I can do before hand, things to do or to avoid etc.

    Thanks very much!

    KY & Condom

    P.S: I am virgin.
  • Machina

    Posts: 419

    Jan 07, 2013 10:36 AM GMT
    Don't be nervous or scared! You need yourself to be as relaxed as you can possibly be or else you will be quite uncomfortable during and after the sex.

    Make sure the guy topping understands he has to go very slow, use a condum, and lots of lube.

    It is best if you work your way up to 3 fingers in your ass before he tries his dick otherwise it will hurt like hell.

    Also when he puts his dick in, push down with your ass muscles like your going to the bathroom. It loosens everything up and makes the pain go away much quicker. When you guys really get into it and your comfortable with and enjoying the fucking, clamp down with your ass muscles every now and then... it drives the tops crazy.

    Bottoming is awesome when done right, and is my favorite thing to do; in fact bottoming is better than topping in my opinion. The bottom has so much control over the experience for both guys. A good bottom is definitely a good find.

    Good luck dude!
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    Jan 07, 2013 12:25 PM GMT
    Machina saidDon't be nervous or scared! You need yourself to be as relaxed as you can possibly be or else you be quite uncomfortable during and after the sex.

    Make sure the guy topping understands he has to go very slow, use a condum, and lots of lube.

    It is best if you work your way up to 3 fingers in your ass before he tries his dick otherwise it will hurt like hell.

    Also when he puts his dick in, push down with your ass muscles like your going to the bathroom. It loosens everything up and makes the pain go away much quicker. When you guys really get into it and your comfortable with and enjoying the fucking, clamp down with your ass muscles every now and then... it drives the tops crazy.

    Bottoming is awesome when done right, and is my favorite thing to do; in fact bottoming is better than topping in my opinion. The bottom has so much control over the experience for both guys. A good bottom is definitely a good find.

    Good luck dude!


    I agree.

    It's all about your nerves. Be relaxed! It hurts so bad if your anus muscles are tightened from nerves/stress. Just breathe, lube it down there and let him insert his penis very slowly. The feeling of his penis penetrating inside you might feel sharp and somewhat painful, but ask him to go slow and keep breathing in/out and do your best to relax your entire body. If it hurts too much, let him know. Otherwise...good luck! Hope it will feel great for you!
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    Jan 08, 2013 7:41 AM GMT
    There's a lot been written on this subject - try searching for "bottom" or "bottoming."