Universal Questions Everyone Asks...

  • Flare9052

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    Jan 09, 2013 11:50 PM GMT
    Hi my names kris, iv been on this site for a couple of days. So no one knows me lol. Ok down to the nitty gritty,

    I have Universal Questions that everyone asks all the time, and it took me one final heart break to realize that people can be snakes in their own ways. One person who was able to play me really good, and break down my walls then turn around and crush the heart without any remorse.

    So first question, why is it that my talents get noticed more than I do as an individual?
    -why don't people stick around long enough to get to know someone, instead they pick something very small and turn their noses at you and find something better?
    -why is it that people don't have patience anymore and just leave, knowing that things you don't have now, can be obtained in time, but not right away.
    - why can't they just look at you for who you are, and enjoy the time they get with you? (Involves time limits and distance) *only a true heart would understand this question*
    -why does everything have to be about them, and their needs or wants, when they can't be happy knowing they found someone worth it? (Says a lot about a two way street here... but where's how I feel and my needs?)

    So many questions yet very few answers... I hate having to be hurt over *selfishness, arrogance, ignorance, and judgement* I mean who are they to cast blame when they don't look at their own flaws? If I wouldn't do anything hurtful to them, why do it to me? (Everything is a two way street, 50/50... not hard to respect someone for who they are, but people judge, its natural. Just judging someone by their looks is really immature. But we all do it. I try not to, but even I judge looks, I'm also aware that its wrong. Do you acknowledge your flaws?
    If you don't then there's something wrong with you, non of us were born with silver spoons in our mouths. What makes you so special?

    Just think about how you could relate, and how others treat you. Where's the respect now days that we use to have?

    *I have a minor answer, I think its become to easy for people to soak in what they want and leave instead of trying to stay or trying for long-term. We're a stort term society now, so taking and leaving has become acceptable, often times, beyond accept your responsibility. Sadly nothing can be done about it, a sad truth I wish would change, but it starts one individual at a time and this takes time. *only you can change you, if your willing to change*

    So in conclusion I hope you all understand where I'm coming from and this means players too as they are the one's who hurt more people then they think.
    ;-) thanks for reading this and leave some comments, if you have answers for some questions, or would you like to relate, ask some questions.
    Have a great day everyone, Flare out.




  • thegaymessiah

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    yeah you are exactly right. you have to let people grow on you.

    there's this guy and we used to hate each other but now he likes me and we even have a little crush on each other.

    People don't realize that their feelings about people can CHANGE. They get mad at somebody and then leave them and are arrogant that they are right about the person. but they are not.

    like you said, they are seeing them with their ego and not their heart.

    But the heart moves a lot slower than the ego, that's what is difficult. Like jason mraz said 'the heart takes a long time to make up its mind.'

    we can just hope that the people we love will truly see that they love us and come back to us. that we as americans always rush and t hink there's something better around the corner, but that better never comes.. never comes WITHOUT LOVE.

    *prince charming smile*
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Flare9052 saidUniversal Questions Everyone Asks...

    Why are n00bz first posts always so damn long???? icon_eek.gif

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    Oh go on, be nice X
  • Flare9052

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:06 AM GMT
    And you weren't a noob at one point in time? If your lazy to read don't bother replying if it has nothing to do with the post....
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:07 AM GMT
    Flare9052 saidAnd you weren't a noob at one point in time? If your lazy to read don't bother replying if it has nothing to do with the post....
    DIVA FIGHT, right off the back!!!!

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:07 AM GMT
    I think the reason is that we live in a society that increasingly prizes individualism in the mistaken belief that this is what gives us most freedom, without acknowledging inequality or the generic nature of consumerism.

    The solution is, as you say, to put more effort into communities. Give something back, value society, be involved, think about more than yourself.

    The good life cannot be pursued merely on one's own.
  • Flare9052

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:11 AM GMT
    RadRTT said
    Flare9052 saidAnd you weren't a noob at one point in time? If your lazy to read don't bother replying if it has nothing to do with the post....
    DIVA FIGHT, right off the back!!!!

    I LIKE THE NEW POSTER! icon_biggrin.gif

    Hahaha well its true! Haha I mean sure its my first time, but I put some time into this post and so far I like their answers.
  • Flare9052

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:15 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Flare9052 saidAnd you weren't a noob at one point in time? If your lazy to read don't bother replying if it has nothing to do with the post....

    Hahahaha....good luck with that. icon_lol.gif

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    And yeah I was a n00b and people called my on my n00b stupidity. Which is why I'm not a n00b anymore....'cos now I know. And now YOU know. icon_wink.gif

    So it makes you obligated to call out other noobs... =_= how about respecting them and teach as an expert should? >.> so teacher, if that's what you should be called. Give me some tips on how I can be a better poster? And be respectful.
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:16 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    yourname2000 said
    Flare9052 saidUniversal Questions Everyone Asks...

    Why are n00bz first posts always so damn long???? icon_eek.gif

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    And worse. Why are their profiles just so rancid.

    Did you see OP's? Full of H8.


    Sigh, ok I read it now.

    Maybe the OP can explain what he means by saying he's not attracted to "feminin men" or "old guys" which---mort dieu!—apparently means over 27. LOL.
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:19 AM GMT
    OP: Welcome to RealJock!

    We're not always this cunty. We're much more placid after we've had our warm milk and cookehz!
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:19 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidTRANSLATION: "I want to be taken, owned and used like the public utility that I am."


    Oh I like that!

    Perhaps he could write "Public Utility in need of $$$ for privatization"?
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:19 AM GMT
    are you the same guy that filled in the "Guy's I'm Looking to meet" section of your profile????
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:20 AM GMT
    GAMRican said


    "I'm not a sex object and I refuse to be used as such."

    TRANSLATION: "I want to be taken, owned and used like the public utility that I am."
    I see nothing wrong with that! icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif

    *gets out ball gag*
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:21 AM GMT
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    GAMRican saidTRANSLATION: "I want to be taken, owned and used like the public utility that I am."


    Oh I like that!

    Perhaps he could write "Public Utility in need of $$$ for privatization"?


    Or, just hang a sign which says, "Public Utility" around his neck while he sits in a urinal taking whatever da menz has to dish out.
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:21 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidWe're not always this cunty. We're much more placid after we've had our warm milk and cookehz!


    Some of us are always catty X
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:22 AM GMT
    This is just the hazing ritual you must go through!!!! Everyone loves everyone...we never get into fights on the forums
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:24 AM GMT
    RadRTT said
    GAMRican said


    "I'm not a sex object and I refuse to be used as such."

    TRANSLATION: "I want to be taken, owned and used like the public utility that I am."
    I see nothing wrong with that! icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif

    *gets out ball gag*


    I think he'd make a great little boot licker. Maybe a piece of furniture?

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:24 AM GMT
    Maybe he just needed some charm school? icon_neutral.gif
  • Flare9052

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:26 AM GMT
    Lmao iv been slapped apparently several times... and me having that furry picture.... just tells you what I'm into.

    And yes maybe I do wanna be used as a utility sometimes... but I don't make it easy for any tom dick or hairy to get me. >.>
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:28 AM GMT
    Flare9052 saidLmao iv been slapped apparently several times... and me having that furry picture.... just tells you what I'm into.

    And yes maybe I do wanna be used as a utility sometimes... but I don't make it easy for any tom dick or hairy to get me. >.>
    You are going to fit in here wonderfully...just post like the whore you are trying to cover up! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:30 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidTips: keep it brief wherever possible....keeps things peppy. icon_wink.gif (Though there are definitely topics that require meaty answers.)


    I disagree—I think if people spent more time writing carefully considered posts we might have more interesting discussions. As it is, people write whatever dross comes into their heads and spew it out onto the internet.

    Maybe—make it no longer than it needs to be?
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:31 AM GMT
    Having read your OP, I wanted to check your credentials before replying, so I looked into your profile.

    All I can say is - welcome to the human race. I think that we are all, to a greater or lesser degree, prone to look upon each other's talents rather than the individual who have these talents.

    Only here in the UK, and particular around London and the Home Counties, it is the level of wealth, education and profession which makes the criteria for evaluating a person rather than just talent alone.

    But after reading your profile, I am wondering how comfortable you would feel if you and I found ourselves sitting at a table with our drinks in a bar - any bar, whether for gays or for straights (i.e.for anybody). For starters, I am a lot older than you, and I have middle age spread. So I wouldn't be a suitable candidate for a relationship, would I?

    But a relationship is something I would not be searching for. Rather, a platonic friendship would have been a level I would have found appropriate. But the irony of it all is that you complain that other people don't spend time in proper evaluating who you really are, yet according to your profile, you have a very tight criteria on who would you choose for a relationship. And that's aiming high. Seeking friends should be more of your aim rather than looking for a boyfriend. If a friendship develops into a relationship, that can only come if both of you see the potential for such a relationship grow naturally.

    In short, don't criticise others for doing what you are doing yourself.

    By the way, some excellent line-drawings there. You have talent.
  • Flare9052

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:32 AM GMT
    RadRTT said
    Flare9052 saidLmao iv been slapped apparently several times... and me having that furry picture.... just tells you what I'm into.

    And yes maybe I do wanna be used as a utility sometimes... but I don't make it easy for any tom dick or hairy to get me. >.>
    You are going to fit in here wonderfully...just post like the whore you are trying to cover up! icon_biggrin.gif


    I can tell you my profile keeps who I don't want near me. Lol but obviously you guys can totally see my other side *rolls eyes* I am a sex freak but shhh, like everyone needs to know that.
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:32 AM GMT
    NotThatOld saidOnly here in the UK,and particular around London and the Home Counties, it is the level of wealth, education and profession which makes the criteria of evaluating a person rather than just talent alone.


    I have to admit, I absolutely hate people who talk about "the Home Counties".

    Posh twats.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:33 AM GMT
    RadRTT said
    Flare9052 saidAnd you weren't a noob at one point in time? If your lazy to read don't bother replying if it has nothing to do with the post....
    DIVA FIGHT, right off the back!!!!

    I LIKE THE NEW POSTER! icon_biggrin.gif


    A Noob Diva, watch out ya'll!