I dont want to feel this anymore. . .

  • HopefulMuscle

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    Jan 10, 2013 9:45 AM GMT
    I have it bad for a straight acquaitence of mine n I think I fell for him n I don't want to be anymore, it hurts too much.. N I want to forget him.please someone help me!
  • calibro

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    Jan 10, 2013 12:38 PM GMT
    and what do you expect me to do?
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:46 PM GMT
    Irrational lust will always be just that, why seek sympathy for your irrational lust?
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    Jan 10, 2013 12:57 PM GMT
    thebaddestdude saidI have it bad for a straight acquaitence of mine n I think I fell for him n I don't want to be anymore, it hurts too much.. N I want to forget him.please someone help me!


    Tell him you feel that way, his reaction will probably be what you need.
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    Jan 10, 2013 1:32 PM GMT
    There's no other way to say this but you'll get over him eventually. I had this happen to me when I was in college and I managed to focus my attention on other things. It'll pass except you're not gonna know when.
  • Splendidus_1

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    Jan 10, 2013 1:33 PM GMT
    - Try focusing on the negative aspects of the person;
    - Avoid thinking about the person at all costs;
    - If possible, try to cut contact with him as much as you can (don't need to start being rude, that is);
    - Realize your own value, don't be "desperate" over someone.

    Good luck icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 10, 2013 2:10 PM GMT
    this would be a good time to look into substance abuse....icon_twisted.gif
  • calibro

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    Jan 10, 2013 2:10 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    calibro saidand what do you expect me to do?


    How about a song and dance for starters?

    C'mon, Calibro! Shake that bubble butt and work the pole! WERK!


    i don't see any dollars coming out...
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    Jan 10, 2013 2:19 PM GMT
    calibro said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    calibro saidand what do you expect me to do?


    How about a song and dance for starters?

    C'mon, Calibro! Shake that bubble butt and work the pole! WERK!


    i don't see any dollars coming out...


    Do you take AMEX Black? icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 10, 2013 2:22 PM GMT
    calibro said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    calibro saidand what do you expect me to do?


    How about a song and dance for starters?

    C'mon, Calibro! Shake that bubble butt and work the pole! WERK!


    i don't see any dollars coming out...


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  • calibro

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    Jan 10, 2013 3:02 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI see, well I don't tip in dollar bills. I tip in tens.

    But you need to work it right.

    Now, time is money. So start werkin'....


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  • calibro

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    Jan 10, 2013 3:48 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidOoooh yeeeeah!

    Can't wait til you slowly strip off those sexy socks!


    no condoms, only socks. that's how i roll.
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    Jan 10, 2013 4:15 PM GMT


    I cant fall for "straight acquaitence" they talk too much of balls icon_rolleyes.gif they get even more disgusting when they start their homophobia thingy like "how can that guy drive a car that is only made for faggs"
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    Jan 10, 2013 4:15 PM GMT
    madfacts saidIrrational lust will always be just that, why seek sympathy for your irrational lust?


    that's harsh !! icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 10, 2013 4:16 PM GMT


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    not impressive enough! gives me headache!
  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 10, 2013 5:33 PM GMT
    Splendidus_1 said- Try focusing on the negative aspects of the person;
    - Avoid thinking about the person at all costs;
    - If possible, try to cut contact with him as much as you can (don't need to start being rude, that is);
    - Realize your own value, don't be "desperate" over someone.

    Good luck icon_smile.gif


    This x10. Definetely avoid contact with this person as much as possible and focus your attention elsewhere.
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    Jan 10, 2013 5:35 PM GMT
    thebaddestdude saidI have it bad for a straight acquaitence of mine n I think I fell for him n I don't want to be anymore, it hurts too much.. N I want to forget him.please someone help me!

    The best way to forget an old love is with a new love.

    What are you doing to make that happen?
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    Jan 10, 2013 5:36 PM GMT
    Keep your distance from him and give yourself enough time to move on. Find someone else to fall for, trust me it works!
  • HopefulMuscle

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    Jan 10, 2013 6:05 PM GMT
    Hey you guys are right, Sorry about my moment of weakness, it's a long story and I had a LOT to drink when I made this posting. I am learning, slowly but am learning. And I do appreciate the tough love I have to accept the undeniable truth and should have more respect for myself and to not to be some breeders doormat.I am learning my own self worth yes I may lust for him but that does not and should not mean that I can't do better.
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    Jan 10, 2013 8:34 PM GMT
    It is the hardest thing to not develop feelings for a friend. I did for some in the recent passed on here. I couldn't shake it, so after I got over the sting of what I was holding onto, and let one go; eventually I found the other was put off enough by me to let me go. I'm okay now. I don't want to bring it up to them ever again, and I wish them well. But sometimes friends are best left at friends, though it's impossible to tell when it will work or not. There's no magic bullet/answer for this, cause there remain exceptions to the rules. I hope you find it in yourself to make peace with yourself, your friend, and can work towards being strong enough to let him know, laugh it off, and let it go.
  • Smakkyoface

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    Jan 10, 2013 8:54 PM GMT
    Going through a similar situation right now. Only he's not an acquaintance but my str8 best friend. Whenever I get distant he knows and gets concerned. I definitely won't do anything but I'm sick of feeling infatuated.

    I just make sure I jerk off a lot to avoid feeling horny n fantasizing about inappropriate friend relations.

    I just need to find a bf already
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 10, 2013 9:13 PM GMT
    You need to take a break from him.
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    Jan 10, 2013 9:17 PM GMT
    thebaddestdude saidI have it bad for a straight acquaitence of mine n I think I fell for him n I don't want to be anymore, it hurts too much.. N I want to forget him.please someone help me!



    Stop liking straight guys..
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    Jan 10, 2013 9:23 PM GMT
    Just make a whole creepy shrine to him in your house and invite him over
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    Jan 10, 2013 9:24 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    calibro saidand what do you expect me to do?


    How about a song and dance for starters?

    C'mon, Calibro! Shake that bubble butt and work the pole! WERK!


    Calibro has a bubble butt??? I'd love to see that!!