Need Advice About Being A Bottom

  • nickgonza

    Posts: 14

    Jan 10, 2013 10:52 PM GMT
    So i met this great guy that's a total top and i'm down to bottom but the thing that i can't get used to is the sliding in and out part...I can handle the initial slide in the ass.

    Any suggestions would be great

    I do own a dildo by the way
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    Jan 10, 2013 11:30 PM GMT
    Then go to the bathroom before you bottom. Like abs, a good bottom is made in the kitchen!icon_biggrin.gif
  • HottJoe

    Posts: 21366

    Jan 10, 2013 11:41 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidThen go to the bathroom before you bottom. Like abs, a good bottom is made in the kitchen!icon_biggrin.gif


    Haha, good answer!

    OP there are countless threads on this topic. Read them. Use advice if you think it'll help. Really, it's just a matter of experience and learning your own body.
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    Jan 10, 2013 11:42 PM GMT
    I've run into this problem... It's why I tend to top more not to mention my tops have had personality disorders icon_sad.gif
  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Jan 11, 2013 12:21 AM GMT
    douche before you have sex
  • Koaa2

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    Jan 11, 2013 5:39 PM GMT
    Lube Lube Lube, Practice Practice Practice
  • Hothouse

    Posts: 2204

    Jan 11, 2013 7:07 PM GMT
    Relax your ass.
    Sounds like you might be tensing up and it's uncomfortable and/or not a pleasant feeling.

    It does take practice to learn how to enjoy taking cock. Try different positions too.

    If your topman is decent guy, he'll work with you so you both enjoy the experience.