Considering a 3rd for DP

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    Jan 12, 2013 8:25 AM GMT
    So my bf of 7 years and I are considering experimenting with a 3rd. We both are truly comfortable with inviting a 3rd in. We are secure enough in our relationship to know that sex can just be sex for fun and fantasy.

    I would like to try a dp as I know he would love it too(giving) as long as we were both into the same guy. We pretty much have the same taste.

    Any suggestions or interests just respond.
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    Jan 12, 2013 6:31 PM GMT
    I'd say go for it if both of you are comfortable with it. Just know that there are potential ramifications if everything doesn't work out as planned.
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 12, 2013 6:45 PM GMT
    Just make sure the "boy" you double fuck knows he's being used for sex only. A lot of couples who seek a third are really only thinking about their own needs, and they'll say anything to seduce someone. The person getting involved with you will be an outsider in your relationship, but they should nevertheless be informed of what's really going on.icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 12, 2013 6:50 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidJust make sure the "boy" you double fuck knows he's being used for sex only. A lot of couples who seek a third are really only thinking about their own needs, and they'll say anything to seduce someone. The person getting involved with you will be an outsider in your relationship, but they should nevertheless be informed of what's really going on.icon_wink.gif


    I agree with you!
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    Feb 01, 2013 1:34 AM GMT
    I'll take this in mind. Good to know. thx
  • Hothouse

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    Feb 04, 2013 3:21 PM GMT
    How about looking for another "open" couple - reduces the chance that a third might feel awkward or uncomfortable.