Sex - What does it do for you?

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    Aug 28, 2007 7:10 AM GMT
    Without being prudish or judgmental, or juvenile or gratuitous, seriously, how do you view the place of sex in your life,

    as in how important,

    how necessary to your happiness,

    what does it mean to you, or what can it mean,

    what does it provide,

    and/or any other thought you might have on it to even as simple as what is it?

    You don't have to answer all the questions, you could use them to inspire some thoughtful response.
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    Aug 28, 2007 4:16 PM GMT
    to my happiness - immaterial

    to me, it means - well, I'll have to think about that one

    it provides - a climax (LOL)

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    Aug 29, 2007 5:54 AM GMT
    As gay men, we crave sex a lot. Why is that? Male/female sex acts create children. What is the purpose of sex between 2 guys--this is a great discussion. One that requires an open mind, and minimal self-loathing.

    Sex provides a loving energy exchange which has a calming effect on my body, so I crave this release. Other times it is a more primal guy being a guy kind of thing. I'm not in it to procreate, so the best useage of sexual energy is for regulating my body and spirit. Good lovemaking keeps me sane, emotionally and physically, and then I can go out and do good things for the world.

    The act of sex, and the journey both men go on during sex can become addicting. The need to bond (and having that satisfied) always makes me happy.
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    Aug 29, 2007 6:33 AM GMT
    It's my energizer!

    It's my vip pass

    It's my way to connect

    It's a way to understand someone.

    It's my way to go to sleep!

    It's very muti-functional!
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    Aug 29, 2007 6:55 PM GMT
    Well I'm going against popular view here.

    Sex to me isn't animalistic or primal (that guys are guys theory is very out the door with modern research)

    Sex to me is personal, vulnerable and emotional.

    If I need a release I can do that myself, yes doing with another guy heightens it at that moment but afterwards it is distant and strange (if it's a hookup, not including people we care about)

    Lots of gay men use sex as an excuse for a connection they can't find in a world where it's so hard to be yourself (a gay man).

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    Aug 30, 2007 12:58 AM GMT
    Non-procreative sex is a form of ego gratification. Sex with quality people is like being awarded prestigious jobs. It satisfies our need for approval, it's approval on steroids. A first requirement of being "quality people" for me is they consider sex a special experience and are picky about who to do it with, besides having a great physical/mental package.

    Happiness has a lot to do with ego gratification. However casual sex doesn't go far enough for me. In a committed relationship the ego gratification goes beyond a few hours of intimacy to many years of planning and living our lives to accomodate each other. In a fantasy world I would clone myself so I can maintain committed relationships with all the quality people I can be with.

    Happiness fundamentally is driven by a strong sense of self-worth, purpose, freedom (control of circumstances around oneself), and community connection. Much of these things require one to develop them internally, with some external contributions. Sex as a mostly external activity should not be the primary driver for happiness.
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    Sep 02, 2007 7:28 PM GMT
    As a 19 year old Italian-English student I have after much consideration and deliberation decided due to financial circumstances to auction my virginity to the highest bidder with a starting price of £3,500 . If I can explain a little about myself ; I am a straight guy however as part of my auction I am willing to be very flexible with sexual arrangements (both male and female interests welcome) . I am tall, good-looking with olive skin and a slim athletic body. I am looking to close a deal very soon as this lot has sadly already been removed from eBay and a potential buyer has lost out by not leaving any direct contact details . Offers are more than welcome, but be quick as I do not want to attract too much attention and the lot will have a short shelf life on eBay. However please remember it is important you leave some contact details other than via the EBay communications system as it is more than likely that I will not be able to contact via those means due to EBay’s draconian ‘rules’ . Please feel free to contact me at: marcoryhmes@yahoo.co.uk or 07758462882. I appreciate the importance of being discreet and that is something I wish to emphasise for both parties.

    Thank you kindly for your time,
    Marco Marinella
    marcoryhmes@yahoo.co.uk

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    Sep 02, 2007 7:28 PM GMT
    As a 19 year old Italian-English student I have after much consideration and deliberation decided due to financial circumstances to auction my virginity to the highest bidder with a starting price of £3,500 . If I can explain a little about myself ; I am a straight guy however as part of my auction I am willing to be very flexible with sexual arrangements (both male and female interests welcome) . I am tall, good-looking with olive skin and a slim athletic body. I am looking to close a deal very soon as this lot has sadly already been removed from eBay and a potential buyer has lost out by not leaving any direct contact details . Offers are more than welcome, but be quick as I do not want to attract too much attention and the lot will have a short shelf life on eBay. However please remember it is important you leave some contact details other than via the EBay communications system as it is more than likely that I will not be able to contact via those means due to EBay’s draconian ‘rules’ . Please feel free to contact me at: marcoryhmes@yahoo.co.uk or 07758462882. I appreciate the importance of being discreet and that is something I wish to emphasise for both parties.

    Thank you kindly for your time,
    Marco Marinella
    marcoryhmes@yahoo.co.uk

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    Nov 28, 2010 12:35 PM GMT
    I think recieving anall sex is great best thing ever. I love the jguy thrusting hard.
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    Dec 08, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
    It is very important to my life. Reason will not be posted.