When the same guys view your profile repeatedly...

  • HottJoe

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    Jan 12, 2013 5:48 PM GMT
    I often notice that the same guys keep viewing my profile. (Don't worry, guys, IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL; I'm flattered, really, lol!)

    I am wondering however if they're doing this because they want me to notice them checking me out, or do they not realize that they have their preferences set to show whenever they've viewed someone's profile?

    Any thoughts on this unique RJ phenomenon?

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  • ohioguy12

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    Jan 12, 2013 5:50 PM GMT
    I just browse. I don't really care if they notice or not
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    Jan 12, 2013 5:52 PM GMT
    It's possible that they're making a voodoo doll in your likeness.
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    Jan 12, 2013 5:52 PM GMT
    Maybe they keep repeatedly checking your profile because they jerk off to your photos ;)
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    Jan 12, 2013 5:53 PM GMT


    HottJoe, they're likely scrolling down to your forum posts and clicking on them every day to see what you've had to say on topics since their last visit to the site. icon_wink.gif

    We have a lot of daily callers who do that. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
  • CityofDreams

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    Jan 12, 2013 5:54 PM GMT
    I have the same thing going on right now. I have no problem with it. It is good that you are taking it as a compliment.
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 12, 2013 6:01 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidIt's possible that they're making a voodoo doll in your likeness.


    Probably a life-size inflatable doll.icon_wink.gif
  • roadbikeRob

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    Jan 12, 2013 6:03 PM GMT
    Because you are sizzling hot.icon_biggrin.gif Need I say moreicon_question.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 12, 2013 6:08 PM GMT
    roadbikeRob saidBecause you are sizzling hot.icon_biggrin.gif Need I say moreicon_question.gif


    Thanks, RBR, you're always welcome to come visit my profile!icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 12, 2013 6:11 PM GMT
    I have one person or two who does this. I just wish they'd say hi...icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 12, 2013 6:15 PM GMT
    Or they're trying to match your face to the types of posts you make. I'm not sure.
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    Jan 12, 2013 6:26 PM GMT
    Sometimes the person changes his profile picture. . . to a picture I haven't seen before. . . so I take a look, thinking I'm seeing someone different. . . and instead, I go, 'wow, this guy's already on my hot list'. . . which is perfectly fine icon_biggrin.gif
  • roadbikeRob

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    Jan 12, 2013 6:33 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    roadbikeRob saidBecause you are sizzling hot.icon_biggrin.gif Need I say moreicon_question.gif


    Thanks, RBR, you're always welcome to come visit my profile!icon_smile.gif
    Trust me my good friend, I am a frequent visitor to your awesome profile.icon_biggrin.gifVisiting your profile is satisfaction guaranteed everytime.
  • Evan_mister

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    Jan 13, 2013 1:08 AM GMT
    You caught their attention, that's it. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 13, 2013 1:16 AM GMT
    Ya know, sometimes I accidentally click on someone's profile because my mouse is super sensitive hahaha so it looks awkward sometimes for me.... icon_redface.gif
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 13, 2013 1:41 AM GMT
    Stalker... Haha sometimes I like to reread people's profile.
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    Jan 13, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    Sometimes you just view because you find them fascinating.

    I view Narciso/Ariodante profile often because he is very interesting to me. I kind of wish we got along because there are some things I think we have in common and he could give me advice on, but I don't think he likes me.

    However I am sometimes fascinated by the things he says, and how even someone who looks the way he does still has certain issues with himself.

    You never really know the reason, why people view your profile, they make like you, how you look, value what you have to say or whatever.

    If I come to someones profile more than once, it's because I find them interesting.
  • reptile18

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    Jan 13, 2013 2:08 AM GMT
    BlackCat90 saidYa know, sometimes I accidentally click on someone's profile because my mouse is super sensitive hahaha so it looks awkward sometimes for me.... icon_redface.gif


    Same problem for me when I browse using my phone.
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    Jan 13, 2013 2:29 AM GMT
    reptile18 said
    BlackCat90 saidYa know, sometimes I accidentally click on someone's profile because my mouse is super sensitive hahaha so it looks awkward sometimes for me.... icon_redface.gif


    Same problem for me when I browse using my phone.


    Same here. When I'm on my phone, I use my left thumb to browse and sometimes I click on the picture. I didn't mean to. If I'm strictly browsing photos/profiles, I use the search feature instead.
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    Jan 13, 2013 2:46 AM GMT
    I don't care. I'm flattered actually. But if they're doing it because they're hoping I'd be the first to make a move, then they'll be disappointed. Would be better if they just sent a message.
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    Jan 13, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    I imagine most are just browsing the pics because the thumbnails are so small.
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    Jan 13, 2013 3:16 AM GMT
    It annoys me for some reason
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    Jan 13, 2013 3:30 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI often notice that the same guys keep viewing my profile. (Don't worry, guys, IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL; I'm flattered, really, lol!)

    I am wondering however if they're doing this because they want me to notice them checking me out, or do they not realize that they have their preferences set to show whenever they've viewed someone's profile?

    Any thoughts on this unique RJ phenomenon?

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    There's nothing unique or phenomenal about the "who's viewed me recently" list as just about every dating/hookup site I've visited with the exception of grindr (worst app ever) offers something similar. I have a strong hunch that your semi-obsessed admirers realize that their profile preferences are set so that you can see that they've viewed your profile, and no doubt it'll be a big relief when they read that it doesn't bother you at all. I'm wondering if for some reason you have your own profile preferences set so that other members can't see that you have viewed their profile. That might explain why your admirers keep returning to your profile - perhaps they're hoping that if they're at the top of your recently viewed list that you'll *finally* look at their profile and then *maybe* if you think they're worthy you'll unlock your private pictures. Otherwise, it could be that they keep returning to your profile because they're beyond semi-obsessed and keep checking to see if you've changed your relationship status to something that doesn't include the word monogamous.

    btw you look good in those Evolve briefs from Target!
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:14 AM GMT
    I think I only looked at one guy simple because of sexy appeal

    but everyone knows I got a crush on my BizMan, thats my baby.

  • HottJoe

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:34 AM GMT
    SixSixAtl said
    HottJoe saidI often notice that the same guys keep viewing my profile. (Don't worry, guys, IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL; I'm flattered, really, lol!)

    I am wondering however if they're doing this because they want me to notice them checking me out, or do they not realize that they have their preferences set to show whenever they've viewed someone's profile?

    Any thoughts on this unique RJ phenomenon?

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    There's nothing unique or phenomenal about the "who's viewed me recently" list as just about every dating/hookup site I've visited with the exception of grindr (worst app ever) offers something similar. I have a strong hunch that your semi-obsessed admirers realize that their profile preferences are set so that you can see that they've viewed your profile, and no doubt it'll be a big relief when they read that it doesn't bother you at all. I'm wondering if for some reason you have your own profile preferences set so that other members can't see that you have viewed their profile. That might explain why your admirers keep returning to your profile - perhaps they're hoping that if they're at the top of your recently viewed list that you'll *finally* look at their profile and then *maybe* if you think they're worthy you'll unlock your private pictures. Otherwise, it could be that they keep returning to your profile because they're beyond semi-obsessed and keep checking to see if you've changed your relationship status to something that doesn't include the word monogamous.

    btw you look good in those Evolve briefs from Target!


    It's like you understand me.icon_surprised.gif