Awkward Inbox?

  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:25 AM GMT
    Okay so... I've gotten a few odd inbox's, complimenting me on different things, but this one was simply disgusting...

    From: Anonymous
    Subject: may i cum for you on Skype?


    How am I even supposed to respond to something like that? I sent them back a message informing them that they were being disgusting and blocked them - is that extreme, or appropriate for the given situation? Should those people who are that immature/perverted even be allowed on a site like this one? How do others deal with similar situations?

    EDIT:

    Note: I didn't make this thread in order to ask what to do, I know what to do (the first question I propose is a rhetorical question) - rather what others think of similar situations.

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:26 AM GMT
    If you honestly don't know how to handle a message like that, then you have no business being in public...much less on a public internet.
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:29 AM GMT
    Are you 12?
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:31 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf you honestly don't know how to handle a message like that, then you have no business being in public...much less on a public internet.


    So what you're saying is that if someone came up to me in public and asked if I had wanted to watch them ejaculate, that I should know how to handle that? I can understand the internet, but in a public setting?

    I also don't see how people view textual interaction any different from a physical interaction... what would make something like that okay on the internet but not okay in a face to face scenario?
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:31 AM GMT
    Send them goatse
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:32 AM GMT
    McQueen saidAre you 12?


    No I'm the mirror of that number :p
  • Evan_mister

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:32 AM GMT
    Lol. Haha.

    Ignore.
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:35 AM GMT
    Wouldn't a simple "No, thanks, not interested." have sufficed without all the drama?
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:37 AM GMT
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes saidIf you honestly don't know how to handle a message like that, then you have no business being in public...much less on a public internet.


    So what you're saying is that if someone came up to me in public and asked if I had wanted to watch them ejaculate, that I should know how to handle that?
    Yes.

    Have you never been to a gay bar?
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:37 AM GMT
    Don't stress too much about it. Some people are just creepy like that. You'll get used to it after awhile.
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:47 AM GMT
    Some guy with punch in his name keep emailing me "I want to fight you," with no other message.
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:50 AM GMT
    TheAlchemixt saidDon't stress too much about it. Some people are just creepy like that. You'll get used to it after awhile.


    I'm not stressing about it, I'm just curious.
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:50 AM GMT
    Is he HOT!!!??? icon_biggrin.gif If so... I'd say lets see you squirt all over your lcd monitor bitch!icon_razz.gif
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:50 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes saidIf you honestly don't know how to handle a message like that, then you have no business being in public...much less on a public internet.


    So what you're saying is that if someone came up to me in public and asked if I had wanted to watch them ejaculate, that I should know how to handle that?
    Yes.

    Have you never been to a gay bar?


    No and I don't plan on it.
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:51 AM GMT
    Look on the bright side, he used the correct 'may I' instead of 'can I'.
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:52 AM GMT
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes saidIf you honestly don't know how to handle a message like that, then you have no business being in public...much less on a public internet.


    So what you're saying is that if someone came up to me in public and asked if I had wanted to watch them ejaculate, that I should know how to handle that?
    Yes.

    Have you never been to a gay bar?


    No and I don't plan on it.
    Then don't go to a straight bar either, cause women are just as (if not more) horny and forward as guys.
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:52 AM GMT
    Narciso saidLook on the bright side, he used the correct 'may I' instead of 'can I'.


    Haha that's the first thing I said to myself.
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    Jan 13, 2013 4:53 AM GMT
    Wyatt said
    Narciso saidLook on the bright side, he used the correct 'may I' instead of 'can I'.


    Haha that's the first thing I said to myself.
    Then that's the first thing you should have wrote back to him: "Yes, you can, but no you may not."

    Honestly, I really am that mean to people who message me with this kind of shit. icon_lol.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:56 AM GMT
    My dear boy, you are on a gay adult site .... If you are not ready to enter into the world of adults, you probably shouldn't lie about your age ... you just delete and ignore such comments .. the internet is full of people that you don't know .. it's not even really like being in public, because of course no one would every come up to you and do that. But on the internet, the cloak of anonymity is bound to illicit all types of responses.
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes saidIf you honestly don't know how to handle a message like that, then you have no business being in public...much less on a public internet.


    So what you're saying is that if someone came up to me in public and asked if I had wanted to watch them ejaculate, that I should know how to handle that?
    Yes.

    Have you never been to a gay bar?


    No and I don't plan on it.
    Then don't go to a straight bar either, cause women are just as (if not more) horny and forward as guys.


    I never said I was planning on going to any sort of establishment in which social behaviour consists of sexually aroused individuals attempting to only become sexually involved with me...
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 5:00 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidMy dear boy, you are on a gay adult site .... If you are not ready to enter into the world of adults, you probably shouldn't lie about your age ... you just delete and ignore such comments .. the internet is full of people that you don't know .. it's not even really like being in public, because of course no one would every come up to you and do that. But on the internet, the cloak of anonymity is bound to illicit all types of responses.


    Actually I'm on a gay fitness site. For your information, the world of adults doesn't consist of people who are only submerged in subjective thought.
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 5:02 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidReally OP.. I'm pretty sure you've read ruder things in the forums than someone inviting you to cam with them. Cam invites are pretty normal around here.
    Better get used it.... and when I say cam invites. we all know what that means.
    Maybe it's because your profile says "Hookup" that he thought you were easy.


    I may or may not have read ruder things. I made this thread to see what others think of things like this - and obviously people think it's okay.
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    Jan 13, 2013 5:03 AM GMT
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes saidIf you honestly don't know how to handle a message like that, then you have no business being in public...much less on a public internet.


    So what you're saying is that if someone came up to me in public and asked if I had wanted to watch them ejaculate, that I should know how to handle that?
    Yes.

    Have you never been to a gay bar?


    No and I don't plan on it.
    Then don't go to a straight bar either, cause women are just as (if not more) horny and forward as guys.


    I never said I was planning on going to any sort of establishment in which social behaviour consists of sexually aroused individuals attempting to only become sexually involved with me...
    So you're afraid of people being sexually attracted to you?

    Are you really gay? Cause you sound more non-sexual. You can't call yourself homoSEXUAL if you aren't SEXUALLY attracted to your own gender.
  • Wyatt

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    Jan 13, 2013 5:06 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes said
    Wyatt said
    paulflexes saidIf you honestly don't know how to handle a message like that, then you have no business being in public...much less on a public internet.


    So what you're saying is that if someone came up to me in public and asked if I had wanted to watch them ejaculate, that I should know how to handle that?
    Yes.

    Have you never been to a gay bar?


    No and I don't plan on it.
    Then don't go to a straight bar either, cause women are just as (if not more) horny and forward as guys.


    I never said I was planning on going to any sort of establishment in which social behaviour consists of sexually aroused individuals attempting to only become sexually involved with me...
    So you're afraid of people being sexually attracted to you?

    Are you really gay? Cause you sound more non-sexual. You can't call yourself homoSEXUAL if you aren't SEXUALLY attracted to your own gender.


    No, if you can discern what I wrote above, you'll find that I am not interested in anyone who *only* wants a sexual relationship (and therefore those who immediately start off that way) - I require an emotional connection which needs to be established prior.
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    Jan 13, 2013 6:01 AM GMT
    Wyatt saidOkay so... I've gotten a few odd inbox's, complimenting me on different things, but this one was simply disgusting...

    I can't get past the fact that you have more than one inbox. I only have 1. Do I need to take photos of me nearly naked to get more?